
Originally Posted by
JusticeSpeaks
My problem is these guys want to "confess" or dump all their problems on me.
So how do I go from, "My wife cheated on me. Our marriage is crap." to "Well thats crappy, but come on and let me get naked for you!"?
I swear, I KNOW guys go to strip clubs to have fun right? I hate it when things get heavy.
So I think thats the thing we got to keep in mind. Its not good to play psychologist unless you are getting paid like one. So I say, this is when it pays to play "dumb" to a certain degree. Keep things bubbly, light, and quick.
When business is slow you may spend more time with a customer. But if its busy busy keep working the volumes of folks there.
Sometimes it helps before getting within earshot of a customer... tell yourself over and over... "Only two minutes... only two minutes." Or whatever time limit you've set for yourself.
Then sometimes, I do something silly like cross my fingers (I dont show the customer I did this)... This isnt for luck but its something that reminds me to be quick... cause I WONT uncross my fingers until I asked... so its always pressing on you to get down to buisness and not get too comfortable.... because keeping your hand like that isnt comfortable for too long either.
I also use every compliment they give me as a means to take it to the next level.
Example: "Youre so hot and fun!"
Me: "Well if you like this, lets go to the backroom... and turn it up."
Occasionally I get a customer who stalks me around the club... he wont leave me alone and he just sucks up my time without good tip. Ugh! I always try to excuse myself from those folks... "I need a break." or "I got to go."
Remember, not all customers are worth your while... even if its a slow night.
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