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    I live in an apartment complex in a rather safe, middle class suburb. I have been living here for about a year and a half. Anyway, there are about 4 boys, no younger than 11 and no older than 14 who have been harassing me this summer. At first I thought it was kind of innocent and cute and I thought it was just harmless banter, but it has escalated into consistent harassment. It is starting to make me extremely uncomfortable. How do I deal with this? I am not exactly sure who their parents are in the complex.

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    I'm assuming you've already told the little shits how disrespectful they are being and to knock it off. After that, the first step is to find out where they live and go talk to their parents. If that doesn't fix it, go to the apartment manager and then the police. And if the parents give you any attitude, go straight to the police and press charges.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    I'm assuming you've already told the little shits how disrespectful they are being and to knock it off. After that, the first step is to find out where they live and go talk to their parents. If that doesn't fix it, go to the apartment manager and then the police. And if the parents give you any attitude, go straight to the police and press charges.
    I agree with the above statement.

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    What a bunch of punks...young boys can be so rude because they think it's cute or something. What kind of stuff are they doing? Have you asked around to see if your neighbors know where they live?

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    as long as you let them do it, they'll keep on doin it.

    i've had little punk kids try crap with me, i just get myself all bowed up and jump down their throats and scare the shit outta them.

    you can go to the apt manager and ask who the parents are. but ya, you need to go straight to the parents do what yek said.





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    What form does the harassment take? Are they breaking any laws?

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    I would seriously go over there and threaten to hurt them! Or make some guy posing as your bf do it--lame, but they are young, impressionable kids. Ewwwwwwww. Yea I don't think it has anything to do with middle class or not--some of the worst offenders are, it comes from their sense of entitlement, ewwww.

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    I had this happen. I stormed up, grabbed the kids ear and twisted it old-lady style, and made him take me to his parents.

    They never bothered me again

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    ....slowly walk up to them, raise your hand and point at them, SCREAM LIKE BLOODY MURDER non stop. They will then remember you FOREVER as that crazy hot chick and will probably never want to risk being around you.

    Note: Works on most jerks at the club too.
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    P.S. If these punks are "wiggas" or MTV jack ass type of kids then school their jabroni ass...if they "young gangstas" (real deal mofos ) use caution with the actions you take against them. In my friend's neighborhood, they solve it with a 9mm to the knee caps. In your case id try to find a less aggressive approach. Sometimes telling them "that is rude and disrespectful" is like teaching a dog french...they aint gonna learn. If their parents look like headaches as well then give it a shot and try talking to them, if all else fails then bust out the chrome and shatter some kneecaps.

    *Dont get caught. =)

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    "Shatter some knee caps" on little ass kids? Ok...I like you Blacksheep, but your posts sound so ghetto wanna be.

    Wise-Guy- I'm gonna try that!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckiCharm View Post
    "Shatter some knee caps" on little ass kids? Ok...I like you Blacksheep, but your posts sound so ghetto wanna be.

    Wise-Guy- I'm gonna try that!!!!!
    Yeah...been buggin me to....

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    What does the harassment consist of?

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    Got some soap? Got a sock?

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    Quote Originally Posted by sassysummer View Post
    as long as you let them do it, they'll keep on doin it.

    i've had little punk kids try crap with me, i just get myself all bowed up and jump down their throats and scare the shit outta them..

    Absolutly right works every time being one of few white people in a mostly black neighbor hood the kids tend to think im "fuck-with-able" They were quick to find out different!

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    Your own urine in a super soaker. Aim. Fire. Problem solved.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LuckiCharm View Post
    "Shatter some knee caps" on little ass kids? Ok...I like you Blacksheep, but your posts sound so ghetto wanna be.

    Wise-Guy- I'm gonna try that!!!!!
    Well violence is most definitely not the answer for everyone, but is for others. I honestly feel if you have 13 year old punk teens not showing respect, they gotta learn somehow. If after a simple verbal warning has been executed the teenage individuals have not stopped the harassment, its time to bring the harassment on them. Its all about respect in this game we call life.

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    Do you know an intimidating bouncer that you would trust with knowing where you live? A visit by him to the boys and their parents, with words such as, "I do not like the way you've been disrespecting my cousin and I want you to stop NOW," might do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by UtahMike View Post
    Do you know an intimidating bouncer that you would trust with knowing where you live? A visit by him to the boys and their parents, with words such as, "I do not like the way you've been disrespecting my cousin and I want you to stop NOW," might do it.
    This man has a plan of attack worthy of action.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WiseGuy_TX View Post
    ....slowly walk up to them, raise your hand and point at them, SCREAM LIKE BLOODY MURDER non stop. They will then remember you FOREVER as that crazy hot chick and will probably never want to risk being around you.
    Sadly, I've done that to one of my neighbors. My boyfriend went and talked to them to explain that I wasn't taking my medication at the time, because he wanted to explain why I was screaming at their kids for walking in my yard. They don't come near my yard, and they go inside any time that they see me. Having them have a fear of my craziness avoids many headaches on my part.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerlee View Post
    Sadly, I've done that to one of my neighbors. My boyfriend went and talked to them to explain that I wasn't taking my medication at the time, because he wanted to explain why I was screaming at their kids for walking in my yard. They don't come near my yard, and they go inside any time that they see me. Having them have a fear of my craziness avoids many headaches on my part.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    Mummy, why is the lady from daddy's movies yelling at us?
    HAHAHAHA!!!!!!!!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    Mummy, why is the lady from daddy's movies yelling at us?
    Holy hell I just laughed my ass off. Thank you for that.

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    Wow, so if a few 11-14 year olds annoy me again after I ask them not to, I can shoot them in the kneecaps? WTF. Then I'm gonna kill every muthafucka they even TALK to, cuz that's how I roll. WHAT. Jeezy Chreezy. Unacceptable.

    I think we honestly need more info on what form the harassment/intimidation takes. Is it illegal? Is it borderline? Seek out the parents first. No response? Apartment manager, then the police. Or, you know, just shoot everyone.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MrChristopher View Post
    Wow, so if a few 11-14 year olds annoy me again after I ask them not to, I can shoot them in the kneecaps? WTF. Then I'm gonna kill every muthafucka they even TALK to, cuz that's how I roll. WHAT. Jeezy Chreezy. Unacceptable.

    I think we honestly need more info on what form the harassment/intimidation takes. Is it illegal? Is it borderline? Seek out the parents first. No response? Apartment manager, then the police. Or, you know, just shoot everyone.
    I never said "Mo Murda"....i aint no terrorist....lol.

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