have you ever experienced this?
i have 30k in student loans that are collecting interest that will need to be paid off eventually - the sooner the better. im going to school full time and i still have many years ahead of me. i live with my boyfriend, who is my best friend and wants to spend his life with me but we dont believe in marriage. he has a very good job and basically pays for everything. but for the 7 months we have lived together its made me very nervous to be financially dependent on him.
its going to be hard for me to find a real job right now because i have a hectic school schedule, very spotty work experience and a history of quitting jobs for no reason. except for the 3 years i was stripping when i was a model employeeive talked with my boyfriend about it - hes against it but says he cant stop me from doing it but i can tell he wishes he could tell me not to. but at the same time he told me to use the remainder of my pell grant to pay down my loans so my outstanding debts wont prevent us from buying a house together in a few years.
elements of stripping are SO EASY and rewarding, and other parts really suck.
i could really use the good parts right now, but i want to be gentle with my boyfriends boundaries and im also not sure i could mentally handle some of the seedier customers and backstabbing dancers yet either.
i dont know what you can do to help me advice wise.
i guess i just wanted to vent somewhere that i would be understood.



ive talked with my boyfriend about it - hes against it but says he cant stop me from doing it but i can tell he wishes he could tell me not to. but at the same time he told me to use the remainder of my pell grant to pay down my loans so my outstanding debts wont prevent us from buying a house together in a few years.
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