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    Default I want to come out of retirement - but at the same time i dont REALLY want to

    have you ever experienced this?
    i have 30k in student loans that are collecting interest that will need to be paid off eventually - the sooner the better. im going to school full time and i still have many years ahead of me. i live with my boyfriend, who is my best friend and wants to spend his life with me but we dont believe in marriage. he has a very good job and basically pays for everything. but for the 7 months we have lived together its made me very nervous to be financially dependent on him.

    its going to be hard for me to find a real job right now because i have a hectic school schedule, very spotty work experience and a history of quitting jobs for no reason. except for the 3 years i was stripping when i was a model employee ive talked with my boyfriend about it - hes against it but says he cant stop me from doing it but i can tell he wishes he could tell me not to. but at the same time he told me to use the remainder of my pell grant to pay down my loans so my outstanding debts wont prevent us from buying a house together in a few years.

    elements of stripping are SO EASY and rewarding, and other parts really suck.
    i could really use the good parts right now, but i want to be gentle with my boyfriends boundaries and im also not sure i could mentally handle some of the seedier customers and backstabbing dancers yet either.

    i dont know what you can do to help me advice wise.
    i guess i just wanted to vent somewhere that i would be understood.

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    Default Re: I want to come out of retirement - but at the same time i dont REALLY want to

    before you do anything, you may want to run the numbers to see what effect future dancing income may have on your future eligibility for grant money and subsidized interest rate student loans.

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    Default Re: I want to come out of retirement - but at the same time i dont REALLY want to

    When you weigh your very part time dancing income against the potential loss of your boyfriends financial support, dancing probably isn't worth it right now. What about phone sex or something?



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    Default Re: I want to come out of retirement - but at the same time i dont REALLY want to

    Yes! My post would have been so long, so I PM'd you.

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    Default Re: I want to come out of retirement - but at the same time i dont REALLY want to

    Quote Originally Posted by Lena View Post
    When you weigh your very part time dancing income against the potential loss of your boyfriends financial support, dancing probably isn't worth it right now. What about phone sex or something?
    Exactly what I was going to say ! ^ Check out the threads for Ph Sx in 'Other Work'?


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