What I mean is, say you go out looking for a guy, you go out to the bar, just to do whatever and people ask what you do, are you open with saying you're a dancer to a complete stranger when not working? I want to be, i'm not ashamed of my job, it's just the stereotype that people have put out there for dancers, when most of us do it for a regular job and are the same as anyone else when away from the job. There are the girls that do the drugs and have sex in the VIP room and are sluts, but from what I have seen in the clubs I have worked at the majority of us aren't. What i'm trying to say is, i'm a single female, I go out and talk to guys, they're like what do you do, i'm like I waitress. I don't want to tell a guy I am interested in cause then I think he's just gonna judge me and then his whole attitude change cause he thinks he's just gonna get sex cause of what I do and won't care for more. I have told guys, and once I did, it seems the way they looked at me just completely changed. I think I should stop caring so much about what people think, if I want to find a man, he''s just gonna have to deal with and understand what I do for a job and that it is just a job and if they can't accept it then fuck them and everyone else to that looks down on me because they aren't a bit better than I am I don't care who they are. I wanted to let this out and see how other people think and feel on this.![]()



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