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    Arrow dancer to housemum. should i stay or go?

    .. i have been dancing for a few years and a for a year at the club i work at currently. i recently took a job as housemom and started training this week. i'm pretty shy and don't love being a stripper but i get along with the girls i work with, and as housemom i would be working at a different spot in the city. i'm thinking i'll try it for a while and see if i like it or not, but it's scary getting out of dancing, not being able to make my own schedule, relying on tips from the ladies, and moving to a new club.

    what would you do?
    would you take the job?
    are there house mama's that visit stripperweb?
    any feedback would be awesome as i'm on the fence. i'm also 23 & in school ... it seems like if ive still got some dancing left in me, now would be the time to take advantage. but getting out sounds sooo nice.
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    Default Re: dancer to housemum. should i stay or go?

    I personally just became a housemom at my club. I already miss dancing....

    It's more stressful because you TRULY have to EARN your tipout and listen to the girls bitch all the time and there's more drama. My advice: if you have got it in you to keep dancing, don't hang up the platforms just yet.

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    Default Re: dancer to housemum. should i stay or go?

    do you see yourself as a natural counsellor or counsellor type? are you naturally a good listener? if you can't answer a sure fire YES to these questions then i wouldn't take it. plus at 23 ... keep dancing! you're way too young to be a housemom imo... housemom, just for my personal preferance, should be late 20s or older so then they have a whole heap of life experience (and maybe dancing experience) to draw upon.

    don't do it. keep dancing. leave it for someone older to do.


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    so its been a while but i thought id say what happened.. or is happening.

    i took the job and it was fine. fun, even, but the difference in money was so drastic i could barely stand it. i was splitting the schedule with another mum who quit without giving any notice -the day i left for mexico and had arranged for her to cover my shifts-- complete trainwreck. so i was going to have to take on the job every night if i stayed and i couldnt do that.
    so i helped them out for a few more weeks and then went back to dancing. i left the club on good terms but it really shook up my brains about being dependent on other people to make a gig work. as a dancer, you dont rely on other people to keep your job or fill your wallet. i like that.

    since i took that break though, its been really hard for me to get back into the hustle... i really liked being a mum, i love talking to strippers and it made me appreciate the women in the industry so much. but the club i was mom to hadnt had one before and the management wasnt there to remind the girls to tip me out, or to even talk to them about what i was doing there. if you ever find yourself in this place make sure there is open communication between the managers, floor hosts, the dj, and especially the other moms.
    thanks for your advice.
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    Default Re: dancer to housemum. should i stay or go?

    I couldn't be a house mom. I'd want to smack a bitch waaaaaaay too often.

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    Default Re: dancer to housemum. should i stay or go?

    Quote Originally Posted by Educated Whore View Post
    I couldn't be a house mom. I'd want to smack a bitch waaaaaaay too often.
    ditto, I can barely stnad being in the dressing room I don't know how I would last ALL night.
    Glad you tried it,, though. Hope you get that hustle back!
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    Default Re: dancer to housemum. should i stay or go?

    plus....have you seen how many girls on here bit*h about their housemoms? I personally hated having (like seriously mandatory) to tip them out even if i never used or talked to them! thats just me though....i brough my own stuff, i didnt need someone to bring it for me.

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