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    I feel sad and lonely today and I can't seem to snap out of it. What do you guys do when you're feeling down?

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    Do you have any friends who would be able to go out on short notice? If so, call them up, tell them to meet you at a club/bar/restaurant tonight. Then spend some time getting completely made-up. Big hair, sexy makeup, that one outfit that makes you feel awesome, and hit the town. I've always found that when I look my absolute best, that sad and lonely rut disappears.

    If no friends are around, I'll make myself get pretty, but a more low-key pretty, and I'll treat myself to retail therapy. Buying clothes that make me feel fantastic can lift that rut too.

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    I sit at my piano and play, or I write in my journal. Writing is soooo relaxing for me.

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    I can't spend any money right now, and I'm too fat to fit in my clothes and trying to quit drinking. I'm Debbie Downer right now.

    I need a hug

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    And I just hate feeling this way because I'm usually so upbeat and positive . I just can't seem to shake this mood . I guess everyone has days like this, right?

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    Just a gigolo
    everywhere I go
    people know the part
    I'm playing

    Paid for every dance
    selling each romance
    every night some heart
    betraying

    There will come a day
    youth will pass away
    then what will they say
    about me

    When the end comes I know
    they'll say just a gigolo
    as life goes on
    without me

    'Cause I aint got nobody
    nobody nobody cares for me
    I'm so sad and lonely
    sad and lonely sad and lonely
    Won't some sweet mama
    come and take a chance with me
    cause I aint so bad

    Get along with me babe,
    been singin love songs
    All of the time
    Even only be, honey only, only be
    Bop bozadee bozadee bop zitty bop

    I ain't got nobody 'cept love songs in love
    Hummala bebhuhla zeebuhla boobuhla
    hummala bebhuhla zeebuhla bop

    I ain't got nobody, nobody,
    nobody cares for me
    Nobody , nobody
    I'm so sad and lonely,
    sad and lonely,
    sad and lonely,
    Won't some sweet mama come
    and take a chance with me
    cause I aint so bad

    Get along with me babe,
    been singin love songs
    All of the time
    Even only be, honey only, only be

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    Yeah, I'm kind of in a funk today myself.

    Call a friend and vent for a few minutes, go out and take a walk, or watch a really funny movie that you like? Just some ideas.
    "She has written so well, and marvellously well, that I was completely ashamed of myself as a writer...But this girl, who is to my knowledge very unpleasant and we might even say a high-grade bitch, can write rings around all of us who consider ourselves as writers"

    Ernest Hemingway on writer, aviation pioneer and horse trainer Beryl Markham


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    Quote Originally Posted by twisterinAZ View Post
    I can't spend any money right now, and I'm too fat to fit in my clothes and trying to quit drinking. I'm Debbie Downer right now.

    I need a hug
    here ya go
    and i even grabbed yer ass!
    unless of course you didnt want me to, in that case I didnt touch yer ass

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blade View Post
    here ya go
    and i even grabbed yer ass!
    unless of course you didnt want me to, in that case I didnt touch yer ass
    I'm not as scrupulous as blade...

    *grab, grab, grab*

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    Just a gigolo
    everywhere I go
    people know the part
    I'm playing

    Paid for every dance
    selling each romance
    every night some heart
    betraying

    There will come a day
    youth will pass away
    then what will they say
    about me

    When the end comes I know
    they'll say just a gigolo
    as life goes on
    without me

    'Cause I aint got nobody
    nobody nobody cares for me
    I'm so sad and lonely
    sad and lonely sad and lonely
    Won't some sweet mama
    come and take a chance with me
    cause I aint so bad

    Get along with me babe,
    been singin love songs
    All of the time
    Even only be, honey only, only be
    Bop bozadee bozadee bop zitty bop

    I ain't got nobody 'cept love songs in love
    Hummala bebhuhla zeebuhla boobuhla
    hummala bebhuhla zeebuhla bop

    I ain't got nobody, nobody,
    nobody cares for me
    Nobody , nobody
    I'm so sad and lonely,
    sad and lonely,
    sad and lonely,
    Won't some sweet mama come
    and take a chance with me
    cause I aint so bad

    Get along with me babe,
    been singin love songs
    All of the time
    Even only be, honey only, only be

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    Quote Originally Posted by Blade View Post
    here ya go
    and i even grabbed yer ass!
    unless of course you didnt want me to, in that case I didnt touch yer ass
    Oh no ! I could use an ass grabbing.

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    so sorry you are sad and lonely today...here's givin you a hug. Where are your friends tonight? Gotta find whoever makes you laugh the most and call them. whose your best friend!!! Whenever I am laughing, I always feel upbeat! or smoke some marijuana! that always helps me.lol

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    Default Re: sad and lonely

    My prescription for this sort of thing is:
    1. Extra nap, until you can't stand to be in bed any more.
    2. Drink lots of water. Not diet soda or orange juice. Just lots of water. So much that you feel silly to still be drinking it.
    3. Go where people are and hang out. You're already not being productive, so go some place where you have to interact with people and keep getting distracted. Bringing a book or magazine helps, but only if you don't sit there and actually try to spend the time reading. Also, don't use the public location as an excuse to buy stuff. If you're going to be hungry, bring stuff. Stick to water for drinking.

    Spend about five hours people-watching, and repeat the whole thing twice. That should work. If it doesn't you may have to go to a pet store and hang out around puppies or something.
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    ed è subito sera

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    Puppies is a great idea ! I miss my little doggie.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Madcap View Post
    I'm not as scrupulous as blade...

    *grab, grab, grab*
    Theres words I NEVER expected to read!

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    Quote Originally Posted by twisterinAZ View Post
    Oh no ! I could use an ass grabbing.
    to paraphrase...have hands will travel. One of these days you'll be gettin goosed by me, just you wait!

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