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    Default Worst weekend ever!!!

    I just hit my all time LOW record this weekend.

    I have never had two terrible nights in a row and it has killed my self-esteem big time.

    A guy gave me $50 last night coz he said I looked so miserable.

    Saturday nights have always been my sure-thing. But this week I worked both friday and saturday and I felt like no one liked me.

    Sure it wasn't that busy, in fact it was pretty dead but other girls did make money and it seemed like it was just me.

    I feel so miserable now.
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Dont worry about it - everyone has times like this. Its not you, its just some random law of stripping!

    Things will pick up again for you, you just have to learn not to let the bad times get to you.

    Cheer up (-:

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    Default Re: Worst weekend ever!!!

    ^^
    thanks babe *hugs*
    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Yea everyone has those weekends... you get in a slump for awhile... When I was table dancing one of the last slumps I got in I worked at another club for a week then went back to my home club and I was on fire... I made serious coin... then the last slump... I said Fuck It my ego can't handle it anymore and well ya'll know the story from there lol.

    *hugs* your hot and fabulous you'll get through it

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    YUP! I went through a phase like this a couple of months ago. We all go through it. Don't let it discourage you. There's a great night/weekend coming up right around the corner just for you!



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    Thanks ladies you are the best!

    My manager was so sweet to me. He usually doesn't have much to do with us dancers during the night but he overheard me in the dressing room saying I was depressed etc and he came up and said that I am beautiful and not to let the job get to me. I really appreciated it from him. He is not sleazy and wasn't being sleazy he was being really genuine and it was so nice.

    Thanks again ladies xoxoxoxoxo
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Everyone has nights like that, don't worry about it. You'll do better this week.

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    my weekend was like that. don't worry next week will be better.

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    My weekend was also shitty. But this has actually been an awful week. My best night was Monday when I made $200.. and that's all. The rest of the week I was struggling to break $100.. But clubs fluxuate, we'll all be back to normal and better soon, just don't get down on yourself!

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    ^Must be a Texas thang... <sarcastic>



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    Bad weekend here also. Wasted my time and gas money. :-(
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    Welcome to the world of stripping now Jai!

    Actually, the real "intiation" into the world of stripping is when your expenses getting to the club make you leave in the negative not positive (in the red not black). Then you are truely initiated into this business.

    Plus once you have enough bad nights and/or weeks you start to learn how to deal with them as it is part n parcel with being self employed (just like any other self employed business). Some weeks are HOT and some weeks are cold.

    You get over it. Tomorrow is a new day.


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    Agreed with GoldCoast,

    This is what a good savings nest-egg is for. So you'll never have to worry about depending on a certain night to make your bills. Save save save! Even though you've had a bad week you can feel good that you won't be in the poorhouse. And then when you're the hottest thing on heels in the club and can't stop selling dances you'll fee four times as good!


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    Yeah, stripping is NOT guaranteed money, like any other business it fluctuates. Agreed with others that part of the game is learning to deal with the shitty times so you don't get all depressed and perpetuate them with your own negativity. It will get better! It always does.

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    Yeup I agree on the savings. Eventhough through this summer I've had my share of bad nights I use some back up savings if I need to. Its great to know that in case I have a god awful month I have something to fall back on even if I don't need to use it.

    So I'll chime in save, save, save all you can during the good times. Hell, save all the time if you can.
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    ^Yep.

    Also, if you're a bad saver like me (like most people), it helps to set specific goals for yourself and treat the savings account like a bill. Something you MUST pay every week or month. And don't spend it!!! Put money into a CD or something each month so you can't spend it so easily. I can't save money for the life of me unless I make specific goals and pretend it's a bill I must pay.

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    ^^^Great idea Bridgette - thanks for the tip! (-:

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    Quote Originally Posted by PleasureVictim View Post
    Bad weekend here also. Wasted my time and gas money. :-(
    Agreed, time, gas money, and I had to pay house upfront since it was my first night!
    Sorry PV, I didn't feel like making that drive again after Thursday night sucked so bad there. We'll meet up elsewhere
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    Bad weekend here too. Argh. No money, lot of time wasters, mean guys.

    Thankfully I'm not a great saver, but I saved all through June, because I knew how it would be. So at least I can survive a few bad nights.

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    I have savings it wasn't the money that bothered me it was the rejection. Guys weren't just saying no, they were being complete assholes about it.

    That part was not just to me but to all the girls but there were still some girls working it and making money.

    It's a very strange environment in a SC that one week there isn't enough of u to go around coz everyone wants u and then the next week no one wants u!! I was trying to work out what I was doing wrong.

    Thanks very much for all the kind encouragements and letting me know that it's normal and my stripping career is not over as I have been enjoying this industry a lot.
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    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
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    You're still a vagina.
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    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Did we have the same weekend? Yikes! I had a lot of rude jerks both Friday and Saturday. I hate to admit it, but I actually left crying on Saturday. I think I got stuck in a rut of time wasters and mean guys and they just keep coming.

    Did you get your puppy yet? After I added my puppy sig, my bf saw it and bought me a little stuffed pug. This weekend was definitely puppy hugging time.

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    ^^
    no not yet but it will be soon!!
    I decided to go with a different breeder. My boyfriend's secretary breeds them and her bitch was pregnant so I decided to get one thru her instead of the other breeder!!
    Fair enough if guys dont want a dance but to be horrible to us is so shit.

    Myself and another dancer went up to these 2 jerks on friday night and asked them for a dance. They said they had no money. That's fine I dont try to sell to guys who say that coz I cant be bothered and think it's a waste of time. But my friend said "Oh come on you are buying beers you must have some money". The guy turned around and said "Yeah I have money for the important stuff".
    Ah wankers.
    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
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    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    ^^^Damn, I think I had the same weekend as you guys!!!!
    The club was DEAD, the guys were cheap, and I was bored out of my mind. The amount of rejection I was getting was starting to fuck with my confidence and make me feel awkward/second guess myself. *sigh* next weekend will be better for all of us.

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    Yay for impending puppy!

    We had some serious winners this weekend-there was a bach party, 11 guys, all young. One of the other new girls and I went up to them and the bachelor was actually denying he was the bach and trying to get rid of us. They told us they had no money and sat basically with their backs to the stage for an hour, being rude to everyone until they rustled up enough to get the bach a VIP. Bleh.

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    Asshole custies!!!!!

    The worst thing is that cheap asshole behaviour is contagious. Notice how when no one is getting dances it runs thru the whole club and effects the guys who otherwise prob would get dances?
    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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