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    Someone told me that when your guy is finishing too fast, you should squeeze the base of his penis. Is this true? If it is, what kind of pressure?
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    You're supposed to squeeze the spot under the head. The spot at the base will make him cum QUICKER because it's near his g-spot. The spot under the head works.. but I'd like to see someone fuck with a fist around a penis.. actually.. no, I wouldn't.


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    I find that a swift punch in the cajones will tend to slow me down quite a bit.
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    There are many ways to prevent premature ejaculation.

    -Alcohol

    -climax control lubrication or climax control condoms,

    -Start and stop method

    -masturbating before sex

    -having sex numerous times to desensitize the sensation.

    -The infamous Masters and Johnson squeeze technique that you mentioned.
    The squeeze technique involves firmly squeezing the glans and frenulum. To see a demonstration, check out thither website:

    -Another exercise one can do to prevent premature ejaculation is working the PC muscles by performing Kegel exercises (look it up on wikipedia.org).

    Kegels can also be performed by women to strengthen their PC muscles to prevent bladder incontinence, increasing the likelihood for a G-spot orgasm, and learning to strengthen the muscles of the vagina.

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    If u have good communication in your relationship (what I mean is discussing this wont embarass him) you could try this, which is what my boyfriend and I do:

    When we are having sex and he feels like he is about to come he stops thrusting, his penis is still inside me but we remain still until the sensation to cum passes and then we continue. I dont mind coz the sex lasts longer.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You're supposed to squeeze the spot under the head. The spot at the base will make him cum QUICKER because it's near his g-spot. The spot under the head works.. but I'd like to see someone fuck with a fist around a penis.. actually.. no, I wouldn't.

    G spot????? That's a new thing I never knew I had.
    It's best to eliminate all contact period and count to 10.

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    I agree with the male version of kegals...my bf is amaaaaaazing and he says that's what he did. He says, you know, it took serious practice, but it's a damn good cause to be dedicated about...yea, during oral sex he pushes me away for 5 secs so he can get it together, and the same thing with sex, he has to stop for 5 secs, but the more times he avoids it, the better it is, and then he get really get going, plus it makes his orgasm extremely intense of course.

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    At the clinic we co-prescribe viagra with anti-depressants for men with premature ejaculation. We tell the men to take the anti-depressant several hours before sex, and of course the viagra 20 minutes before. This combination seems to effectively solve the problem most of the time.

    Note, the anti-depressants taken in this way won't have a significant effect on mood.

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    I don't do men like that. Someone else can have them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Sitri View Post
    G spot????? That's a new thing I never knew I had.
    It's best to eliminate all contact period and count to 10.


    The prostate glans is considered the male g-spot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dr Wulf View Post
    At the clinic we co-prescribe viagra with anti-depressants for men with premature ejaculation. We tell the men to take the anti-depressant several hours before sex, and of course the viagra 20 minutes before. This combination seems to effectively solve the problem most of the time.

    Note, the anti-depressants taken in this way won't have a significant effect on mood.
    Huh huh huh? My leaflets and doctors all say to NOT do this very thing. Anti-depressants are for premature ejaculation and the viagra is for erection because the anti-depressant causes erectile dysfunction. I was ALWAYS told to pick one or the other, 'cause I ain't gettin' both. The medicines coincide badly, from what I've read. Hell, the Cialis LEAFLET says not to mix them.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You're supposed to squeeze the spot under the head. The spot at the base will make him cum QUICKER because it's near his g-spot. The spot under the head works.. but I'd like to see someone fuck with a fist around a penis.. actually.. no, I wouldn't.
    Shit I would.. Id pay to see that infact..

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    I generally say "dead babies" and that does the trick.

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    Our spout off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Alia_of_the_Knife View Post
    I generally say "dead babies" and that does the trick.
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    Our spout off.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post

    The prostate glans is considered the male g-spot.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    Someone told me that when your guy is finishing too fast, you should squeeze the base of his penis. Is this true? If it is, what kind of pressure?
    Im a guy and i can input some feedback in this thread. When i find myself finishing fast i simply pull out and pause, i have experimented with my right hand in my masturbation sessions. I saw this thread earlier so i tried the sqeezing the base of the penis thing before posting up (when i was about cum) it didnt make me cum any faster or slow it down either...so for me it does nothing. As for other guys...i cant answer that. Hope that helps!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    Ybut I'd like to see someone fuck with a fist around a penis.. actually.. no, I wouldn't.
    I'm sure if you Googled the correct term, you could probably find some porn that caters to that haha

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    If by "base of the penis" you mean squeezing such that one side of the hand is behind/underneath the balls, then I suppose that's close enough to the prostate, but it still doesn't affect my state of arousal; that would take more direct prostate stimulation. The best technique for me is just to stop while inside of her, and then proceed with the slow sort of "body rocking," which tends to feel better for her (me reaching a hand down there for some clitoral attention while doing this worked well for my ex) than for me and gives me time to cool down.
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    Well, cock rings squeeze the base and are used to help men maintain an erection longer/delay orgasm.

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    Tightly pinch/squeeze the glans briefly, dorsal to ventral or deliver a quick hard slap to the glans on the dorsal side. I don't think squeezing the base of the penis will work and if he does ejac, it will be uncomfortable.

    Ever seen a porno where the guy pulls his cock out and gives it a hard slap? He's trying to postpone his orgasm.
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    ^ My partner would beat my up if I started slapping his weiner.


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    Too fast for who?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    Ybut I'd like to see someone fuck with a fist around a penis.. actually.. no, I wouldn't.
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    I'm sure if you Googled the correct term, you could probably find some porn that caters to that haha
    Being of unsound mind, Darcy, I took your advice and Googled some possible terms, including:
    1) "piggie in a blanket"
    2) "choke and dagger"
    3) "clenched pickle"
    4) "cradled ladle"
    No luck yet...Any suggestions?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    ^ My partner would beat my up if I started slapping his weiner.
    Better go with the pinch/squeeze method then, or let him know it's coming first. You can smack an erect cock pretty hard, just don't miss and hit the balls.
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    ........I have had pretty good sex with hot guys and surprisingly great sex from over weight old farts who made me very vocal which I am not usually

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