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    I have been wanting to post this for a while and after reading the finishing too fast post I made up my mind to post this.
    I have 2 questions
    During sex I cum after about 10 or 15 minuets. During oral I can go 20-30. What gives? I know it's not the quality of the oral sex because my wife is great at it. Even if there is little or no oral sex I'm done in about the same amount of time.
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    My wife can go 45 minuets to an hour before coming. This discourages me because it makes me feel like I'm not doing it right. What can I do to make her cum faster? Or is this the wrong way to look at it? It brings me down so much that I don't want to have sex!! We are into some light s&m, water spraying, and she gets really turned on when we talk about her bring a girl home and having our way with her. We did all this the other day and it still took her forever to cum, and it as an all her session. We started with some water spraying then went to some light s&m and dirty talk and I finished it with oral sex. My tongue is still tired after that day!!! Help!!!?? Tips? Tricks?
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    Wow nothing?
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    Default Re: Finishing Faster???

    Try asking her what she likes or what gets her hot and bothered.

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    Default Re: Finishing Faster???

    As an alternative to oral sex or intercourse, try developing a good manual technique with your hands. Take an evening with her to discover what works best for her.

    There was an interesting chart in the "what makes a girl cum" thread. You might find it quite useful. Good luck.
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    Thanks.
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    Honestly bro, It's probably 100% in your head.

    Get to know yourself. In all reality, 15 minutes of good pumping action is really long in during intercourse.

    When I say "Get to know yourself" I mean, when you feel yourself start to build, you know what I mean, that difference between entering and building towards orgasm, switch positions, or move to giving her oral or something different. You're tolerance will begin to build.

    In my limited and very untested experience, I would say your girl probably lasts longer because, A, it's normal, but mainly B, she may feel used to what your doing.

    So anyways, tired here and totally babbling. Just understand that great sex in the evening starts first thing in the morning. Build UP to the intercourse, know yourself, and just put the whole "Orgasm" out of your mind. Though fantastic, that's not what you're there for. Sex should be about a complete body pleasuring experience. Not JUST the orgasm.


    Hope this helps dude!
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    Holy zombie thread!
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    The "similar threads" feature strikes again...

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