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    I can't help but wonder what guys must say about me behind my back at work...not that it really matters but...makes me wonder.
    Like when I go to the all nude club and guys will make fun of every girls pussy and how its "beat up" (yeah cuz she wouldnt let you "beat it up" ever lol) makes me so self conscious (and I work at a topless club.) Or I was sitting with some guys last night and the girl on stage was doing some booty shaking and one of them said something to me about how I liked her ass and I said she had a pretty nice one then he said "yeah but shes pretty thick"...she was the same size as me...just taller. When I said I didnt think so he says something like "well alot thicker than you"...yeah shes the same size as me but...Really makes me wonder about the comments that are made about me when I'm not there...


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    I think some guys think that this makes us feel better...like its somehow a compliment to US for them to make fun of the other girls. I hate this(well...unless its a girl I really hate, which is rare...then I get a catty bit of glee from it..lol)

    Usually I just put the guy in his place..."Just because someone may not be YOUR taste, doesnt mean she isnt gorgeous. Everyone likes something differant and the girl YOU think is ugly is someone elses fantasy girl. Not to mention that the girl you're cutting down might be my sister...or my best friend. Do you really think this is going to score you brownie points? Stop."

    As for what they have to say about me when i walk away..meh. Guys like that..I assume they ARE tearing me apart behind my back. They wouldnt have the balls to do it to my face. And considering that most are doing it just for the sake of doing it...it means nothing. A guy I was sitting with yesterday looked at the girl on stage(who I consider a friend and one of the most beautiful girls in the club) and said "she's got an ok body, but I just cant get past that face..yuck" I laughed out loud, and told him what an idiot he is. Considering he was short old and fairly dumpy...she was WAY more woman then he'd ever get without paying a pretty penny for it, and so was I for that matter...and that his sour grapes were awfully bitter!

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    I try to go by the philosophy that what others say and think about me is none of my business.

    I mean, seriously, if you are making your money and you are confident, it doesn't matter if the occasional guy talks bad about you or not. No one is desirable to 100% of men.
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    are these guys spending money? because if so.. who the hell cares? theyre still spending money on you, whatever they want to say about it is just them being stupid. like in the 'i'm fat?' thread, guys say shitty things about us to make themselves feel better.

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    Don't get me wrong, I don't really give a shit, I was just pondering...like is that the cool thing to do, go to the strip club, drink a few beers and pick apart all the girls flaws?


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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    I think some guys think that this makes us feel better...like its somehow a compliment to US for them to make fun of the other girls. I hate this(well...unless its a girl I really hate, which is rare...then I get a catty bit of glee from it..lol)

    Usually I just put the guy in his place..."Just because someone may not be YOUR taste, doesnt mean she isnt gorgeous. Everyone likes something differant and the girl YOU think is ugly is someone elses fantasy girl. Not to mention that the girl you're cutting down might be my sister...or my best friend. Do you really think this is going to score you brownie points? Stop."
    Thank you, me too (I put them in their place). I don't like hearing guys talk smack about other girls, especially if its about something like weight, or worse, something they have no control over, i.e. nose size/shape, height, etc.

    There's ALWAYS something good about every dancer, even the ones I may not like, and I want guys to know that its phucked up for them to diss a girl, just because she's not his cup of tea.
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    IMO it's bad business for customers (especially regular customers) to talk about dancers to other dancers. Shit gets flyin' then one day a favorite of yours gets fired or something cause dancers are talking to the managers, I'm talking to the dancers, lies, deceit, the whole thing. That's why it's best for customers to shut the hell up and not make comments like that. Problem is, it happens alllllll the time when guys get drunk and make a rude remark about a dancer on stage or whatever, and then it builds from there sometimes, just gotta be careful.
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    i'm the same way... i can't help but wonder sometimes... and i let it get to me occasionally even though i know i shouldn't.. but i make myself feel better when i remind myself how pathetic these guys actually are.. they are spending their free time (sometimes a friday or saturday night) and paying money to come in and insult us to make them feel better about themselves.

    on the rare occasion that a guy actually has the nerve (usually due to being drunk) to say something insulting to my face or to another girl's face... i usually reply "does your dick feel bigger now?"... and they usually shut right up. haha.
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    I hate when customers have rude things to say about other dancers (unless she's obviously... well, you know the type)... especially if there's nothing wrong with her and they're just being assholes. It DOES make me wonder about all the shitty things that they may be saying about me and it fucks with my hustle. I'm sure I've had plenty of crappy things said about me... I generally don't think about it. There's no point.
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    Behind your back they are probably saying: hmm, she has a nice ass...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorlila View Post
    is that the cool thing to do, go to the strip club, drink a few beers and pick apart all the girls flaws?
    Unfortunately, it seems so. Especially from some female customers. Everyone just gets intimidated by what we do and how hot we are, and says shit like that to make themselves feel better. They are just revealing their own insecurities.

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    Its easy for guys to be super-critical in a strip club. They are surrounded by young, attractive, barely clothed women. They just compare your ass/tits/whatever to the best __(body part)__ in the club... and NOBODY is going to measure up to the fantasy-compilation doll of "best body parts" in the club...


    But the bottom line is, you're still WAY out of his league, and you're there to make money. Does it really matter if some out of shape, balding, middle-aged guy thinks your ass doesn't measure up to the airbrushed model he saw in Playboy? I don't think so.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorlila View Post
    Don't get me wrong, I don't really give a shit, I was just pondering...like is that the cool thing to do, go to the strip club, drink a few beers and pick apart all the girls flaws?
    From my experience, the guys who do that are NOT spending customers, and most of them don't spend on anyone. They are mostly just trying to make themselves seem tough and manly in front of their friends. These men have hostility towards women and know there is no way in hell a woman as hot as this would spend time with them IRL

    Also all guys have their "types" and not everyone is going to be attracted to you for your hair/skin/weight/height/breast/butt/legs/nose whatever but guys who come into strip clubs willing to spend are generally in good moods. If they are not interested/attracted they will simply say "no thank you" and not insult you or focus about anything negative about you after you have left.
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    Guys just talk a bunch of crap when they are around their buddies. And yes, every guy will not be attracted to all of us.

    In real life, the guys who talk the most crap have the ugliest wives/girlfriends.

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    I dont think anything good could come from wondering what they say behind your back. As long as u are selling dances you have got it.

    Sometimes I can hear them talking about me as if I'm not there when I am dancing on stage.

    But I am very weird with compliments and not everyone understands my sense of humour like when a custie says you're hot I reply "I try" or I'll be a real smart ass and say "Yeh im the hottest thing I've seen all night"
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