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    Im just curious are those of you from the US, Canada and anywhere else allowed to straddle a customer? Just in case it's not obvious or you call it something else I mean both of your legs on the outside of his legs sitting front on.

    This is not allowed at any club in Melbourne and Im not sure about other Australian states.
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    At the Quebec clubs they allowed it, or the ones I was at anyway. Not in any of the Ontario clubs I've worked at.

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    Default Re: Straddling??

    in my glory days the rule was we had to keep at least one foot on the floor. Of course, you can still get pretty creative with only one foot on the floor.


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    The NY clubs I had worked at (as a dancer) allowed it... I've seen some that didn't though. Around here there is a Both Feet On The Floor rule, but it's rarely enforced... however, outright straddling is often a no no.
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    At my club you can sit with one of your legs in between their legs and the other on the outside but just not flat out straddling.

    My boss said it's coz of how it looks on tthe cameras and to other people looking.
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    Yes..actually when i first started at my club my boss yelled at me for NOT straddling a customer(while in vip, counting my dances)

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    I've worked in clubs where its full on two way contact, straddling and grinding... i've worked in clubs where you stand 3 feet away from the customer and do an air dance, i've danced in clubs with one way(dancer to customer) contact no grinding and i've worked in clubs where private dances are done on a stage at the side of the bar, the customer sits in chairs 2 feet away from the stage and pay you $30 to dance on the stage(it even has a pole). I've also worked at clubs where your paid x amount of dollars per show to go on stage and there are no private dances at all, all your money is made in tips(i've made anywhere from $30 to $900 in one show from tips)

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    At my club, straddling isn't allowed anywhere but in the booths where customers have to pay to sit, as opposed to all the chairs that are free to sit in.

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    Back in the hey-day of a certain club on the Gold Coast I did many a straddling type of lap dance. Alot of grinding and so forth going on back then and I was definately a much raunchier dancer back then compared to now. I learnt that I don't have to be so raunchy in my lap dances in order to 'hook' the customer for an extended amount of time.

    Of course these days it isn't allowed in that nor any of the Gold Coast clubs.

    Current club is one foot on the floor.

    If my memory serves me correct (it might not), also The Club in Mt Isa and Teaze in Rockhampton was also the only two other places I could straddle ... I think?


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    Out here..it's not allowed, the rule in every club Ive worked at is 1 foot on the floor...but that rule is never abided by...I don't even follow it....I don't like, straddle and ride...I straddle but by body is not touching his...the boobie tease....Or if he's not grabby I straddle and lean back so he gets the nice boobie/stomache view. I won;t do it with grabby guys tho, cause it leaves me to exposed and defenseless if he woudl try to touch.

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    HAH! We have a 3 foot rule in Texas, but there are so many extras girls in this town...the girls kinda have to straddle to make money. It's pretty much expected here.



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    Default Re: Straddling??

    In the US it's allowed more places than not, but there are a lot of exceptions.



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    It is allowed in South Florida...not much isn't though.
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    I worked on the west coast of Florida, and it was not allowed where I worked. We had a one-foot on the floor rule too. Not sure about some of the full-contact clubs in the Tampa area though.
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    Im just curious are those of you from the US, Canada and anywhere else allowed to straddle a customer?
    Not meaning to nitpick, but where US clubs are concerned this question immediately raises another question ... 'allowed by who ?'

    If you mean is it allowed by clubowners, the answer is typically yes in 8 out of 10 clubs.

    If you mean is it legally allowed under the law, the answer is typically no in 9 out of 10 clubs.

    If you mean is it 'allowed' by local cops who choose not to enforce the law, the answer is typically yes in 8 out of 10 clubs.

    The reason that it is typically allowed by 8 out of 10 clubs is that straddling / grinding lets dancers sell more private dances, which generates more 'cuts' for the club - plus the fact that under US laws the clubowner faces essentially zero bust risk if dancers do wind up being busted.

    The two reasons that it is typically not allowed by 2 out of 10 clubs are either A. that local anti-strip club laws and state prostitution laws are vigorously enforced by local cops i.e. local politicians and bible thumpers have an axe to grind, or B. that the club is trying to project an upscale image. Of course, even in clubs with an upscale image which maintain zero contact in the main 'room', all sorts of things can happen in more private areas.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunnie View Post
    It is allowed in South Florida...not much isn't though.
    same withmyrtle beach.

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    I've never even heard of the one foot rule. My club allows straddling and all out grinding, but only in the couch room or up. On the floor we can't even sit in laps, which is a little different than the clubs I've been in before (mostly as a civvie).

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mileia777 View Post
    HAH! We have a 3 foot rule in Texas, but there are so many extras girls in this town...the girls kinda have to straddle to make money. It's pretty much expected here.
    There no Texas-wide 3 foot rule. And straddling is done in every Texas city I've been in a club. When I started in Austin, almost 10 years ago, it was a no-no, and I got in trouble a few times when guys would "pick" me up off the ground. When I exited the industry, it was the norm to straddle.

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    Oh ya, it's all over main floor and VIP...YeeHaw!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Melonie View Post
    Not meaning to nitpick, but where US clubs are concerned this question immediately raises another question ... 'allowed by who ?'

    Same with Canadian Clubs.

    The supreme court of Canada has ruled that lap dancing is legal, as well as breast touching. Prostitution is also legal. There are so many grey areas in the clubs now though its insane.

    It is now broken up by Municipalities. Toronto for example allows minimal grinding, stradling, breast touching but no heavy grinding and no touching of the genitals. Yet in the end it breaks down by clubs. Some Toronto clubs allow anything and everything to go on, others will freak out if you even grind a bit.

    Then outside Toronto there is Vaughn. There are two clubs there. The Vaughn City By-Law states that at no given time is a dancer to sit on a customers lap and the customer is not to touch the dancer at all.

    One club will strictly enforce this rule, the other one allows full on prostitution in the club.

    Head to Mississauga/Brampton where just about every club is a whore house minus one. Mississauga by-law actually states there is to be no contact between dancer and customer when the dancer is naked... there are only two clubs that slightly enforce this rule...

    In Canada it comes down to who has who paid off and what owners want to deal with what shit.

    A lot of places leave the dancers to police themselves in the VIP...

    Winnipeg is great... Winnipeg actually has a bylaw that states when two dancers are on stage they must be three feet away from eachother. Private dances are done on little side stages and the customers are not to even touch the side stage and when the customer pays the dancer the dancer must be dressed and the customer is to sit it down and then the dancer picks it up. Yet there is one club that has a full on lesbian show night and the manager encourages the girls to give lap dances. Go figure

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    There no Texas-wide 3 foot rule. And straddling is done in every Texas city I've been in a club. When I started in Austin, almost 10 years ago, it was a no-no, and I got in trouble a few times when guys would "pick" me up off the ground. When I exited the industry, it was the norm to straddle.

    I almost got arrested one time for straddling. TABC told me about the 3 foot rule in the state and I almost got a $1,000 fine. So I got this info from TABC. This happened only a year ago.
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    All the clubs I've worked at here in Oregon have a "one foot on the floor" rule. Some places enforce it more than others. I don't do it but at the place I'm at now, I see girls doing all the time.
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    One of our night managers doesn't care about straddling, but our weekend night manager doesn't allow it.

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    Melonie I meant more of the club rules rather than the law because as I have found in my club what is law and what is allowed are two different things.

    I was just wondering how many clubs openly allow/turn a blind eye to it.

    Many melbourne clubs will allow more contact than the law allows for but it seems ALL Melbourne (city) clubs enforce the no straddling rule. I was told this by a dancer who has been in the industry for 12 years and has worked at every strip club in melbourne.

    We have one foot on the ground rule but that is no enforced. I dont do it coz it's stupid IMO.
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    Most of the clubs I've worked have had local laws about such things. However it was the norm and expected in every dance.

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