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    Gentlemen that pay for sex, your views?

    What comes to mind when you know a man patronizing an AMP, escort (not to be confused with a prostitute), etc? Ive always been curious as to what your guys views and opinions are on this. I myself have done this in the past,present, and maybe future. Personally for me i feel that as long as the situation is done so in a safe,discreet, etc manner with 2 consenting adults then its fine. Some of my girl friends and some guy friends have told me they feel its pathetic to have to pay for sex, i feel that there is no shame in doing so. I mean i currently don't have a girlfriend at the moment, i never go out looking for promiscuous girls at parties or clubs due to the fact i never attend those functions. My right hand needs a break and sometimes i just need the real thing. I get horny plain and simple. I have respect for the girls that escort and for the guys that patronize, as long as both parties are keeping things discreet and mutually respectful. What are your views on this ladies and gentlemen?

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    I feel like if woman feels comfortable having sex outright for money it's her business. And if the man isn't married and wants to pay for sex, which honestly a lot men pay for it in one way or another it's his business. I respect people who are honest about what they want as opposed to those that use and hurt others.

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    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1 View Post
    I feel like if woman feels comfortable having sex outright for money it's her business. And if the man isn't married and wants to pay for sex, which honestly a lot men pay for it in one way or another it's his business. I respect people who are honest about what they want as opposed to those that use and hurt others.
    Thanks for your input greenidlady, i agree with your above statement.

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    Personally I haven't used an escort because I like the relationship parts of a relationship far too much to have a good time paying for it.

    For the most part I really don't care what others do as long as it doesn't hurt others or negatively affect me. The escort/customer relationship falls into that category.

    All that said, there are some valid arguments that there is a negative aspect to escorting, all of which I won't get into here, but the general idea is that there is a psychological toll for many who do so, and it often attracts those who are desperate vs those who would otherwise choose to do it if they felt they could choose to do anything they wanted.

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    I wouldnt do it.
    but i dont care if others do.
    its their choice.
    i hate that prostitions is illegal in some places, just in the sense that its unnecessary to put those people in jail ifthey are caught.
    I dont think its right a government wont allow it coz:
    a)they cant regulate for taxes
    b)government people don't like it for themselves so others cant do it either.

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    I like how it's done in the Netherlands and some other countries.

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    I have no problem with it whatsoever... JUST KEEP IT OUT OF THE STRIP CLUBS.

    That's the only time I have an issue with it.

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    I think that people believe that there is a "normal scheme of things", i.e. we find someone, we marry, we have kids. And they believe they have a right to enforce it on other people with laws.

    I had all that for 19 years. My oldest is 30. And that was 10 years ago and it seems like another whole lifetime.

    People say that these things are pathetic: seeing strippers and escorts. But this stems from the belief that everyone must have a companion. But believe it or not, some of us don't want that all the time. Some of us just want someone some of the time. If you pay for these things, then there is no responsibility on either party for anything more.

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    Why separate escorts and prostitutes? Its all prostitution, there is no difference.

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSheEp3 View Post
    What comes to mind when you know a man patronizing an AMP, escort (not to be confused with a prostitute), etc?
    God Bless America!
    IMO, if client and escort are in agreement and no animals are harmed, it can be a beautiful thing. It's typically the "buyer's remorse" that kicks in afterwards and creates "uncertainty" (i.e., moral issues). I've yet to hear about an escort asking a client "Do you think what we're doing is OK?"

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    I have a friend who regularly vacations to Thailand to see prostitutes there. I know another person casually who goes to Indonesia and Malasyia on business trips for the same thing. The only two issues I have is the fact that some of these young ladies may have been trafficked and that their may not be enough other options economically speaking for these young ladies to do anything else.

    Also one of my ex-boyfriend's friends visited Eastern European escorts while in London (because he felt like American escorts, especially in Cleveland, were not hot enough.) Most people that I know personally who use escorts and prostitutes have did it outside of the U.S. I really can't speak about girls who were born in Western countries though.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Darcy Foxx View Post
    I have no problem with it whatsoever... JUST KEEP IT OUT OF THE STRIP CLUBS.

    That's the only time I have an issue with it.
    My second issue is disease control. Get thee to a Planned Parenthood on a regular basis and use condoms if you can. Please don't spread that shit around.

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    I have NO problem with a guy who has slept with a few before me. It's casual sex. I know a few girls who would be bothered by this, but not be bothered if it was a sloppy club chic.

    IMO I think it's better he got it by an escort/legal prostitute, rather than a sloppy club chic from the past, who would even probably start drama if she sees the both of you out. At least with a escort/prostitute it is what is, and it's left there with NO strings.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Vyanka View Post
    I have NO problem a guy who has slept with a few before me. It's casual sex. I know a few girls who would be bothered by this, but not be bothered if it was a sloppy club chic.
    A friend of mine whose working options include porn (a foregone conclusion), VIP dances (YMMV), bachelor parties (some "extras") and escorting (it just depends) concedes that sex with customers occurs frequently during any/all of those circumstances. However, she feels "safest" when having sex with other porn performers, who--like my friend--test regularly in order to work (although there have been HIV scandals here & there)...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    Why separate escorts and prostitutes? Its all prostitution, there is no difference.
    Heres my view:

    Escorts
    *Discreet and not standing out on the corner
    *Utilizes Craigslist and Myredbook to conduct business
    *Majority of the time disease and drug free
    *"Independent" (no pimps or drivers)
    *Accepts "donations" and not drugs

    Prostitutes
    *Hangs out on the street corner
    *Pimped (most of the time)
    *Most of the time on heavy drugs such as coke,heroin,etc...(i dont consider weed a "will ruin your life drug",although ive never tried it)
    *Just doesnt look and seem visually and mentally appealing as an escort would

    *P.S. while im at it heres some lingo:
    1. GFE (girl friend experience)
    2. PSE (porn star experience)
    3. daty (dining at the y)
    4. msog (multiple shots on goal)
    5. outcall (provider comes to your home,apartment,hotel,etc)
    6. incall (you go to the providers home,apartment,hotel,etc)
    7. car date (you get in on in the car)
    8. bbbj (bare back blow job, no condom)
    8. bb (bare back, no condom)
    9. le (law enforcement)
    10. clock watcher (providers always watches the clock)
    11. rush job (provider "hurrys" you to finish up)
    12. spinner (petite provider)
    13. provider (another handle for escort)
    14. donation (the money your "paying")
    15. rob (means provider will take your money which is fine, but not do what she promised)
    16. independent (no pimps, drivers, agency, etc)
    17. No games (serious callers only)

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSheEp3 View Post
    Heres my view:

    Escorts
    *Discreet and not standing out on the corner
    *Utilizes Craigslist and Myredbook to conduct business
    *Majority of the time disease and drug free
    *"Independent" (no pimps or drivers)
    *Accepts "donations" and not drugs

    Prostitutes
    *Hangs out on the street corner
    *Pimped (most of the time)
    *Most of the time on heavy drugs such as coke,heroin,etc...(i dont consider weed a "will ruin your life drug",although ive never tried it)
    *Just doesnt look and seem visually and mentally appealing as an escort would
    Fine, but you're incorrect. AMP providers AND escorts all equal prostitutes. Whatever you want to think of the semantics, you ARE fucking a prostitute. Whether she is in the corner with track marks or in a spa, its the same dynamic.

    Considering I've prostituted myself, I can't say I have a any problem with it. However, I would NOT approve of my man going there while we were in a relationship, unless I could come too!

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    Quote Originally Posted by BlackSheEp3 View Post
    *P.S. while im at it heres some lingo:

    1. GFE (girl friend experience)

    2. PSE (porn star experience)


    What exactly does "Porn Star Experience" mean...facial?
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    Quote Originally Posted by lestat1 View Post
    What exactly does "Porn Star Experience" mean...facial?
    I think it just means getting fucked like you're in a porno. Like, with a GFE you might get cuddling and kissing, but with a PSE you'd just get some wild crazy lacking-in-intimacy sex.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    Fine, but you're incorrect. AMP providers AND escorts all equal prostitutes. Whatever you want to think of the semantics, you ARE fucking a prostitute. Whether she is in the corner with track marks or in a spa, its the same dynamic.
    yeahhhh.. it's been said time and time again that people who are on drugs can be on them in *any* profession. that isn't a distinction, imo. that would be like classifying different things to distinguish a dancer and a stripper.. while some people do, i use the two interchangably for the most part.

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    Charlie Sheen once explained that with a prostitute, you're not paying for sex; you're paying her to get up and leave after. Most people can get sex for free, but it comes with so much emotional bullshit and, no matter what anyone says, NSA is difficult to come by.

    Personally, I have visited a prostitute and would love to do it again. If I were wealthy I would do it fairly regularly. K has been with two prostitutes - one with me (a threesome at a legal brothel in Nevada) and a barroom ho in Mexico. I have no problem with it as long as everyone's safe and a consenting adult. In fact, I have sort of a fetish for prostitutes and strippers; something about the money exchange is arousing to me, and I love the no-bullshit approach. I love women but I'm a bit more straightforward than most and I don't want to play games, so I like the freedom that comes with a straight up financial transaction.

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    I believe prostitution should be decriminalized. A great book on the subject is "Working" by Dolores French.

    I DO hate that many pimps and panderers are using trafficked women...If free-born women were allowed to work as sex providers without stigma (or less, given social mores) there would be no need to force women into servitude as prostitutes.

    Women who hate hookers are unrealistic and insecure. LOL No seriously, women should always be compensated for sex- the feminist idea of f*cking for free is one of the most destructive shoot-youself-in-the-foot actions women do to themselves.

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    Quote Originally Posted by madmaxine View Post
    No seriously, women should always be compensated for sex- the feminist idea of f*cking for free is one of the most destructive shoot-youself-in-the-foot actions women do to themselves.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    Why do you think women should be compensated for sex?
    1) Risk of pregnancy, exposure to disease, plus getting comped for dealing with Male in question.

    2) Like it or not, women and their sexuality are still commodities.

    3) I get SICK AND TIRED of talking to women crying their eyes out and ready to slit their wrists over their disbelief that they've been dumped after much time & love invested in a man. Women truly need to understand how the male mind works so they'll stop getting punked by troglodytes with hard dicks.

    Whether you're getting a night out on the town, a diamond ring or a chunk of cash- Y'ALL are still getting paid for sex.

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    I disagree Maxine, but I can understand where you are coming from. I truly believe that sex can be an important part of a love, partnership bond. And in such relationship, both people should give and receive equally. Then again, I am very independant and don't want to feel that I am giving up the sex in exchange for compensation. I went there and didn't feel good about it.

    But I really, really want to feel positive about love and sex. Otherwise, the world becomes a sad place....

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    Porn star experience is bascialy a porn star who escorts. She ( or he ) can charge more because of their "name"

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