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    Dating a Male Dancer?

    Would you current dancer ladies ever date/get involved with a male dancer...or do you think that it would be a match made in Hell?
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    Default Re: Just Out of Curiosity...

    i don't know if i would, but the place i worked at in illinois one of the girls there was married to a male dancer and they had 2 kids and seemed to be doing just fine. i guess is depends on the person.

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    Default Re: Dating a Male Dancer?

    I know a couple of girls who dated male dancers. One girl seemed to have a pretty good relationship with the guy, and they lasted for awhile. The other girl and her guy broke up because the guy couldn't decide if he'd rather be with a man.

    I wouldn't paint all of them with the same brush though, just like I wouldn't stereotype all female dancers. Just feel it out like you would with any guy.

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    ^Oh, I know. I'm asking because you hear stories about porn stars dating other porn stars and actors dating other actors, etc, with some issues involved. I've never heard this combo talked about (female/male strippers)...So I am interested in hearing the girls's views, opinions, experiences, stories, etc.



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    Okay...since we have male dancers out there. I'll just change the subject to "dancers dating other dancers male/female". Maybe a male dancer would/wouldn't want to date a female dancer, etc. Urrgghh...I dunno. It just came to mind. I did meet one, I'll admit it...but I dunno...I'm not sure...that's a lotta ego!



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    I dated a male dancer in the past. Obviously I was fine with his job... he asked me to go along to a show to watch him perform one day and I didn't like that... he did the male version of a XXX show and let me tell you, it's rather uncomfortable watching some other girl give your boyfriend a handjob on stage. After that, I just told him that I did not have an issue with his performances, just that I didn't want to watch them again!

    We didn't stay together long though... which had nothing to do with our occupations, and more to do with the fact that he turned out to be completely insane.

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    Wow, Darcy! I could imagine that being rather "different!" See...I've never even been to a male SC before. Just never had the desire. I know I need to go one day just for the hell of it...to see what goes on. I'm fucking clueless on the "politics" of male stripper stuff, their shows, dances, etc.



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    It's generally a LOT more touchy feely than female strip shows. The guy I was seeing didn't work in a club, he did private parties and performed at a big male stripper function once a month.

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    ^^ What she said. Male dancers allow a lot more than female dancers, for some reason..it's just accepted...


    At one club I work at, we have male dancers on weekends in a different room, and occasionally if it's slow, we'll go watch them. I've watched the guys pick women up( wearing dresses!) and put the girl on their shoulders, with the guys face in her crotch. Or grab her by the hips and hump her doggystyle with her dress lifted. Crazy shit goes on in there!



    I woudl never date a male dancer for 1 reason.

    They wear glitter. On their chest. It freaks me out.

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    no!!!

    not because of the job just because I have no attraction to guys who know they are hot.
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    I would date a male dancer with no problem, I think it would make for a great match considering the male stereotype of dancers, he wouldn't look at it the same way because he is a dancer as well. I would go for it, yes, as long as neither of us have jealousy issues btw.

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    ^^
    dont count on that. i know some male dancers who think what they do is better than what we do and we are sluts coz we spread our legs etc.

    I actually dont find it very masculine as a profession for a man. I would feel the same about a male model, I would not be attracted either.
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    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post
    I woudl never date a male dancer for 1 reason.

    They wear glitter. On their chest. It freaks me out.

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    My old roommate dated a male dancer for awhile. He danced in a GAY stripclub and said that made him a lot more money than dancing for women. I'd be weirded out that my bf spend the whole night swinging his cock in dudes faces, but it didn't bother her. He never gave her any shit about talking to customers on the phone b/c he understood. He'd have customers calling him and taking him shopping. Also, he always had money and never mooched off her. She said they had a fun, adventuresome sexual relationship. I think the best thing for her was that there were no arguments about going to work, no jealousy. They'd go shopping for work clothes together and pick outfits for each other, they went tanning together, and would meet up for 3am breakfast at Dennys or IHOP, lol.

    They didn't last more than a couple months tho for one reason or another.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LatinaRose View Post
    My old roommate dated a male dancer for awhile. He danced in a GAY stripclub and said that made him a lot more money than dancing for women. I'd be weirded out that my bf spend the whole night swinging his cock in dudes faces, but it didn't bother her. He never gave her any shit about talking to customers on the phone b/c he understood. He'd have customers calling him and taking him shopping. Also, he always had money and never mooched off her. She said they had a fun, adventuresome sexual relationship. I think the best thing for her was that there were no arguments about going to work, no jealousy. They'd go shopping for work clothes together and pick outfits for each other, they went tanning together, and would meet up for 3am breakfast at Dennys or IHOP, lol.

    They didn't last more than a couple months tho for one reason or another.

    He let the customers call him and take him shopping, wow , sounds like they did have a good relationship, more like friends except they had sex. My guess is that he must have "turned" gay or "admitted" that he was gay, just makes sense.

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    I could only do it if he worked in a low-contact environment. of which, other than chippendales/showclub establishments, there don't seem to be many.

    if we both worked in high-mileage places... no way

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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    no!!!

    not because of the job just because I have no attraction to guys who know they are hot.
    haha, the stripper i dated was sooooooooooooooooo in love with himself. i mean, yeah, he was fucking HOT, but he totally knew it. and he was so cocky and arrogant.

    but hey, i was like 19 and silly at the time so i just kinda put up with it. it didn't take long for the novelty to wear off though!

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    I have never met a male dancer I'd touch with a 10 foot pole. Although I hesitate to assume they're ALL that bad

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    I married one!

    We have been together 8 years...married 2!

    He was a dancer when we met...so was I. He knows he is hot...but so do I!! LOL.

    He worked Europe (Crazyboyz Revue), Canada and the US. Chippendale style only towards the end...that is all they have here in Alberta.

    He had worked in full contact bars, as well as gay bars! I remember going to one of his shows at a gay bar...I went straight to the washroom and started bitching about how I hated when my "brother" would drag me to his shows when I was in town!!! It worked to get him thick tips!!

    The one thing about him that differed from the norm of male dancers, is that this was actually just a job for him...not his lifestyle! He did not need to be the centre of attention, which made it easy for him to leave.

    He is well educated...economics and psychology....which made it easier to make money if you know the type of customer you are dealing with.

    He has been out of the biz for 3 years now, and is a real and down to earth as the day I met him!

    I have dated a number of male dancers....and I will be the first to admit that I prefer dating a woman!!! With the exception of my husband, that is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jaizaine View Post
    no!!!

    not because of the job just because I have no attraction to guys who know they are hot.
    LOL! I'm the same way, jaiz! This would probably be my biggest issue. UUgghhh. I like witty, fun-loving, humble, down to earth men that always let me be The Star. Is there such a man???



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    Yeah I dated one, very briefly. He was hands down the dumbest guy I ever went out with, but damn he had a nice body! After I slept with him, I never called or answered his calls to me. I guess that wasn't too nice of me...but shit.... he was sooooo stupid.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zabrina View Post
    Yeah I dated one, very briefly. He was hands down the dumbest guy I ever went out with, but damn he had a nice body! After I slept with him, I never called or answered his calls to me. I guess that wasn't too nice of me...but shit.... he was sooooo stupid.
    LOL!! This just sounds so much like something a guy would say. ha

    Although, I personally can't even stand to be around stupid guys long enough to bang them, hot body or not. They've just got to have something up top.



    When I say I haven't met a male dancer I'd touch with a ten foot pole, I mean because they've all been some serious fucking SKANKS. Yuck. I can't assume they're all like that though, so I'd say if he were a cool guy, I'd date him. Or at least bang him. haha

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    Damn, y'all, this is some mean shit. This is exactly the kind of crap and judgment that we deal with and yet we are so quick to dish it out.

    I never dated a male stripper, but I never really met one who was my type, which isn't that surprising. Though I think Paris' hubby is an ex-dancer and he's a pretty cool dude.

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    ^Whooopsies!!!



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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    Damn, y'all, this is some mean shit. This is exactly the kind of crap and judgment that we deal with and yet we are so quick to dish it out.

    I never dated a male stripper, but I never really met one who was my type, which isn't that surprising. Though I think Paris' hubby is an ex-dancer and he's a pretty cool dude.
    Im not judging coz of the dancing just the ego. I said I wouldnt date a male model or even a really hot guy who knew it. I find a sense of humour far more attractive. My man is hot to me but he doesnt think he is hot and I find that very humble.

    As you said Mily let me be the star!
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    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

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