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    Anyone ever notice that the things/people you attempt to circumvent end up biting you in butt. It seems like the more you dislike/avoid something, the more it "catches" you, but when you chill out and "let it go" nothing really happens. Here are some examples:

    1. I park my car in the back of the parking lot by itself to avoid door dings/dents.
    *I come back to find someone has parked next to me and i notice a dent...doh!
    *I just park in the front or middle where everyone else who isnt "car anal" parks....i come back to find no door dings or dents....go figure.

    2. I constantly try to avoid my friend Max, he talks non stop with a passion and tires me out. Every time he calls i cringe thinking what excuse am i gonna make to avoid him coming over to my house...lol. Im always on the "alert" for this guy....
    *I stop stressing over him and i get less calls and he doesn't bug me as much...thank goodness.

    My point is its like the more we detest or dislike something...the more it finds it way to us. Anyone here can relate to this? Just curious.

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    Yes!!! I look very mean when I'm on a SW flight, just to discourage anyone from sitting next to me when the flight isn't full!

    It has a 50% chance of working it seems, which is an "F", cuz some chatty dude sits next to me and talks even when I have my Mp3 headset in!!!
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    Default Re: What you try so hard to avoid you attract?

    I tend to think that the more you detest or dislike something or someone, its not really more likely to happen, its only more likely for you to notice that something happened.

    There are only two types of things in this world we ever really pay attention to.

    Either extreme of the good/bad spectrum.

    If there is a super cool car, you'll notice, if its a super junker you'll notice, else you won't even think to look twice.

    Same goes for people and everything else.



    Though I do know for a fact that parking in the back or further out than is the norm at that moment is a surefire way to get someone to bang up your car for no other reason than they think you are acting like your shit is better than everyone else's. Sad but true.
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    I've always rolled my eyes at people who claim we attract everything that comes our way because we're "like" it too. So I guess I'm a Perverted Sociopath who LURVES to piss people off? Cool.

    Anyway, yeah, I manage to land in trouble/ crazy situations all the time even though I'm just bopping through Life, trying to manage my little plans for myself.

    So I figured, I accept it. I now enjoy it.

    PS To avoid seatmates on the plane, blink a lot and mutter gibberish. Then fall asleep and snore and drool. Works for me!!!!

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    My friend's dad was totally anal about always parking his Porsche on an end spot in the lot where he worked. Somebody sideswiped the whole side one day and drove off. My friend's sister used to also purposely rear-end his car when she'd park in the driveway behind him. Just a little tap.

    I try not to attrach homeless men with no teeth and men that are just total loser, but they always seem to find me. I don't think it's so much because I don't want them that they find me though. I don't think anyone likes a crusty dude hitting on them but they certainly hit on a lot of women.

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    I try to have peace and avoid confrontation but I still end up facing it.

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    Default Re: What you try so hard to avoid you attract?

    COUPLES!!! (at work)

    I don't snub them and i will dance for them if outright asked but i have had some weird experiences so i try to avoid them.

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    what you focus on expands.

    thoughts are energy. if you carry it in the front of your mind, why wouldn't it manifest itself in your life?
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    Default Re: What you try so hard to avoid you attract?

    Quote Originally Posted by Nautilus View Post
    what you focus on expands.

    thoughts are energy. if you carry it in the front of your mind, why wouldn't it manifest itself in your life?
    Definitely some food for thought.

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    thats the law of attraction working in its simplest way

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    Quote Originally Posted by greenidlady1 View Post
    I try to have peace and avoid confrontation but I still end up facing it.

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    My new mantra. Actually, I already feel/think that, so it already is
    Ok. I hope this makes sense. I deal w/a bunch of real neighborhood degenerates. My thing, is to mentally 'keep blinders on'. Meaning, stay aware, but trying as much as I can to mentally & (physically, by body language to block ppl out). By that, I mean keep sunglasses on (lighter lenses in an overcast day), keep cell to ear, (not actually using it)n have head & body turned away from ppl. & I may not even do all the physical things just mentioned, but I always rock the mental ones, thus blocking 'em out. It may not always work, but I have seen a decent success rate.
    As far as the car parking thing, yeah, I sure have gotten my share of parking dings. I know for a fact ( but can't prove) some asswipe loser keyed & put a nail in my tire the year I first bought it. When I park tho, I try to take the spot next to the end where no one can park on my other side. But, even that is not a sure thing, as was stated about the Porsche.


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    Default Re: What you try so hard to avoid you attract?

    When something is on your mind, you just notice it more.

    For instance: You go car shopping and see a neat car on the lot that you've not seen much about. You decide to buy that car, and low and behold! you notice there are a TON of those cars on the road.

    Same principle is at work. When you dwell on something, you are more likely to take notice of the thing you are dwelling on. Dieters notice all the people eating sweets, old people see annoying teenagers, if you are in a hurry all the cars on the road seem to be moving at the speed of turtle.

    If you chill out and focus on something more relaxing, then it isn't as much of a stressor in your life.

    Basically, don't worry about the things you have no control over. It is a waste of energy and will poison your mental attitude.


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    Ha - a certain star sign which shall remain nameless so as not to offend anyone. People of that sign seem to like me WAY more than I like them and I seem to attract them like flies to shit. Its not that I dont like them at all, its just that Im never interested in anything more than a basic friendship.

    Currently I have 4 guys chasing me all with the same name too, the same name thing seems to happen quite often too, does it happen to anyone else?

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    Quote Originally Posted by aussiepunkshocker View Post
    Currently I have 4 guys chasing me all with the same name too, the same name thing seems to happen quite often too, does it happen to anyone else?
    OH God, don't remind me.... That happened to me & the smile STILL drops off my face when I hear that particular name....(& I always have a polite explanation for SC customers- I don't want them thinking they killed my good mood just because they have the same name as Satan Ex.)

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