Ok my husband and I are about to have to go to court again over my 13 year old step-son. We have custody of him right now and Have for about 7 years. His mother doesn't ever and hasn't ever wanted him. Before William had custody of him and his mother had custody she didn't even have her with him then. He lived with his grandma. Our son hasn't been wanting to go over to her house on weekend and about a year ago when he did go over there she and her BF beat him so bad that when they dropped him of at school the next day DFS was called!!! She told them that he was out of control and that they were just trying to restarin him. ( He had bruises on her back scratch marks on his face and a huge knot on his head. there were lots of bruises on arms legs and back) Keep in mind that she is 5'10' and weighs at least 240 and her man is 6'1' and weighs over 200. Our son was was about to turn 12 at the time and weighed about 100 and was shorter than me and I am 5'4". So long story short. She has used drugs in front of him drank and drove when he was in the car with her and also beat him. She told him about 2 1/2 months ago that she didn't want anything to do with him and that she didn't want him even in her house. She told him that she was writing him off. She also told my husband and I that. Well My brother-n-laws ex knos her and has told her now that I am huge whore and that I am nothing but a 22 year old whore,skank,cunt. (whatever she can think of) She tells me that I have no right to interfear with her relationship with her son and that she can't wait to take us to court to tell the judge I'm a ditry stripper. I don't think there is AnYTHING WRONG with what I do. I support my family very well and I also and going to pay my way through dental school to be a dentist by doing this. I also have paid to start my own buisness by doing this. SO I guess my point is... Do u think what I do for a living is going to cause problems with us in court??? I know I don't do anyting bad and I know that she does HORRIBLE things. I just wanted to know if there are any moms in here that have been trough this? I know that I am not his biological mother and that she is. But I love him like he is and I take damn good care of him. He flunked school this past year. Despite the fact that I grounded him when to school with him and even took all his clothes away except for the old walmart ones that he owned. (not that there is anything wrong with Walmart but at there age it's all Hollister and Abercrombie and stuff like that) When I did that he broght his grades up form f's to straight A's in a month and a 1/2. He is jsut really stubborn and didn't want to do it. So she also has that as ammo. But whe have sent him to Therapist and they all say that all his problems stem from his mother. I just don't know what to do I love him so much and I don't want him to get stuck over there! Any suggestions??? PLEASE HELP!!!



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