Results 1 to 9 of 9

Thread: Standards at Upscale Dallas clubs

  1. #1
    Member Reiyth's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2007
    Posts
    48
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Standards at Upscale Dallas clubs

    O.k. I want specific info on upscale clubs in the DFW, Texas area (the Lodge, The Men's Club, etc) and their hiring standards. I've heard that they can be picky about the girls they hire. I'm wanting to know how picky... Do they hire newbie dancers at all?? How thin is thin and how fat is too fat? Are they picky about breast size? What about breast saggieness?

    Basically, I'm not perfect. I have about 10 more pounds to lose and I need to tone up my stomach and thighs. Also my breasts don't have true pitosis, just loss of volume from breastfeeding my kids which I plan to get a BA to fix (No money for it atm). I know I could probably get hired someplace tonight, but I'm afraid to go to someplace other than an upscale club b/c of the reputation most Dallas clubs have for extras. Question is: can I dance at an upscale Dallas club yet or do I need to get myself "perfect" before I tryout?

    Here are a few pics so you can see what I'm talking about:
    Attachment 13733 Attachment 13734 Attachment 13735 Attachment 13736

    P.S. I'm sorry if this is considered an "am I too fat" style thread. If it's out of line feel free for the roasting to ensue...
    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    I read once that women have to choose at some point whether to belong to the "lady class" or the "whore class." The first group has respect and protection, but no freedom; the second group has freedom, but no respect or protection. As strippers, we belong to the whore class.
    ^ Never Been so proud to be a "whore" ^

  2. #2
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Sep 2004
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    362
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 7 Times in 6 Posts

    Default Re: Standards at Upscale Dallas clubs

    You look fine. All the clubs in Dallas I've been to looked at me in my clothes, and I was hired. So wear something nice that shows your attributes and do your makeup. I think you're pretty and would love to see some glamour girl eye make-up on you. Don't feel defeated if the first place doesn't hire you, sometimes it's just luck or bad timing. I only say that because I consider myself pretty hot, and I've been given the cold shoulder before.

  3. #3
    Banned LatinaRose's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2005
    Location
    Toronto 4 now...
    Posts
    4,876
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Standards at Upscale Dallas clubs

    I think you'll be fine. I do suggest tanning, it will help you look slimmer overall and you'll feel more confident. Maybe wait till September for when clubs pick up, they are less likely to turn away girls then.

  4. #4
    buffie06
    Guest

    Default Re: Standards at Upscale Dallas clubs

    At the Lodge, you definately need experience, or at least lie and say you are experienced. The main hiring manager for nightshift, will tell you we aren't hiring if he doesn't like your look and if he does, you will have to audition. They are pretty strict, if I were you I would visit as a customer and compare yourself to the standard and see what you think.

  5. #5
    Member Reiyth's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2007
    Posts
    48
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Standards at Upscale Dallas clubs

    O.K. to those of you that give a damn- I ignored the cold hard not my stomach was twisting itself into and went out a got hired last night! I've been working out hard core, I've done a juice fast and I've used fake bake, so I look better than I did in the original pics (I've lost 5 lbs since then). I went to the Lodge first (I figured it was worth a try even tho they'd prolly turn me down). I talked to the housemom and a manager (I think his name was Mike?) but as my luck will go the whole place was without power. They were walking around with candles!! He told me to come back tomorrow (Friday) at 7. I told him upfront that I had no dancing expirience and didnt get the "we're not hiring" line so I guess thats a good sign....

    After there I went to the Mens Club. I got the we're not hiring line there. I didnt even really speak to the manager, he just walked by while I was filling the application out and told the front desk girl to tell her that I could come back for morning shift but night was full. The front desk chick was a rude bitch too, but whatever.

    After there I headed over to the Caberet Royale and applied in the Fare Room (full nude), filled out an app. manager came out and asked if I could start that night. He dumped me on the housemom to fill out paperwork and then I got dressed and one of the floor guys showed me around. I picked Autumn for a stage name. It seemed to fit well. It was super dead and there were like 3 sets of 3 guys in the whole club (at 9pm). I met a fellow dancer (damned if I can remember her name) who was really nice and gave me info on the rules and tips on the club. She told the guys that were tipping on stage that I was brand new when I went up for the first time. I made 8 bucks on my first stage dance! It was sooo much easier to dance than I thought it would be, I thought I would be like shy or something. The guys were like drooling and I was so proud of the body that I've worked so hard to get back after being a mommy. I felt like a retard though b/c I went off stage and got dressed after the first song when I was supposed to do 2songs. Oh well. I ended up selling 3 dances to one of the guys that tipped me on stage. He was cute and polite and kept telling me how perfect I was. He told me he would have to come be a regular of mine. After that like 20million girls came on the floor and the club was still empty, I sat with a few guys but no one was buying. Everyone that I told it was my first night was like "No way! your so professional!" So I just stopped telling people since I didn't think they believed me. I ended up only selling one for dance for the rest of the night. I walked with like $70 bucks after tipping out (no housefee for first night). The nice girl told me that this wasn't typical, she usually made 3-400 a night and when I talked to her later she told me she had sold the same number of dances I had and we were doing better than a lot of the other girls. Still I think I wanna check out the Lodge anyways just in case. The fare room is byob and open till 6am, she told me that it usually gets the busiest after the other places close at 2 I prolly could have made more money if I had stayed till close but I was exauhsted and left at 3 when it was just starting to get busier. I'm not sure I want to be out that late every night anyways

    I was suprised that I didnt see any big stripper boobs walking around. Pretty much all the girls were small and natural with a few larger natural boobs thrown in. I didnt see any boobs I thought were over a D cup though, so I fit in really well.
    Something else I didnt expect- dancing is hard work! Boy did my thights burn and my legs hurt after doing 3 dances in a row. I thought I was in better shape! I am uber tired b/c I've not gotten enough sleep but I think I'm gonna go try out at the lodge tonight just to see if they'll hire me. If they do I'm not sure which one I'll stick with. What do you guys think?
    Last edited by Reiyth; 08-31-2007 at 08:45 AM.
    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    I read once that women have to choose at some point whether to belong to the "lady class" or the "whore class." The first group has respect and protection, but no freedom; the second group has freedom, but no respect or protection. As strippers, we belong to the whore class.
    ^ Never Been so proud to be a "whore" ^

  6. #6
    God/dess Zabrina's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2003
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    2,892
    Thanks
    17
    Thanked 42 Times in 30 Posts

    Default Re: Standards at Upscale Dallas clubs

    Sounds like a decent first night. Congrats on getting hired!

    You went in during the hardest time to make money, and even on your first night you were able to at least get some! The last couple days of the month are always a tough sale because a million girls show up at once to make rent. Once the rent frenzy is over, you can start making the real cash and it will be sooo much easier.

  7. #7
    Banned LatinaRose's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2005
    Location
    Toronto 4 now...
    Posts
    4,876
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Standards at Upscale Dallas clubs

    Congrats on finding a place to work!

  8. #8
    Featured Member
    Joined
    Jan 2007
    Posts
    1,242
    Thanks
    1
    Thanked 4 Times in 4 Posts

    Default Re: Standards at Upscale Dallas clubs

    Good luck at your club. You can always go back to MC or the Lodge and try again. I think they enjoy giving girls the run around.

  9. #9
    Member Reiyth's Avatar
    Joined
    May 2007
    Posts
    48
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: Standards at Upscale Dallas clubs

    I went by the Lodge tonight and auditioned for Mike. He was really nice but told me that if I got in a little better shape and came talked to him again that he'd hire me. I've made so much progress toward my fitness goals already I think I can definately get there (I've lost 32 lbs, 8 more to go!). From what I saw of the Lodge it definately seemed like the kind of place I want to work so I think that that is going to be my new goal. I plan on working at the Caberet for a month or so then trying again (from how much my thighs are killing me after one night I should be toned in no time). Thanks so much for your input guys!
    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    I read once that women have to choose at some point whether to belong to the "lady class" or the "whore class." The first group has respect and protection, but no freedom; the second group has freedom, but no respect or protection. As strippers, we belong to the whore class.
    ^ Never Been so proud to be a "whore" ^

Similar Threads

  1. Scared of Upscale Clubs..
    By Kisca in forum Newbie Board
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 06-17-2010, 06:55 AM
  2. Waitressing in more upscale clubs
    By killingwaitress in forum Newbie Board
    Replies: 11
    Last Post: 11-11-2007, 01:18 AM
  3. Upscale Clubs in Phoenix AZ
    By Sunshine73 in forum Club Chat
    Replies: 33
    Last Post: 04-23-2005, 09:27 AM
  4. any upscale montreal clubs?
    By lillirose in forum Club Chat
    Replies: 4
    Last Post: 01-23-2005, 05:55 PM
  5. A list of Upscale US clubs
    By Tigerlilly in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 7
    Last Post: 07-15-2003, 02:29 PM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •