If a homeless person asks me for money, I start talking in Chinese and say I can't understand them.



If a homeless person asks me for money, I start talking in Chinese and say I can't understand them.
He and a few others that posted on this ( well maybe one other ) are trolls.
This is why the block feature is so awesome.
we've been reinvaded by some trolls that have been lurking for awhile.





Did I miss something? Is there something wrong with stripping at 31? Is dancing something your parents have to "keep you away from"? If that is your attitude, then what in the world are you doing on this site? A SUPPORT site for strippers?
And I give my daughter everything she asks for as well. But she also went to school and has a fantastic job at 20. I would be horrified if she turned out like you. 31 and still taking help from Mommy and Daddy is DEFINITELY something to be proud of.![]()



Alright this thread is getting out of control...
^ honestly I think we NEEDED a thread like this. A lot of personalities and attitudes have shown forth in this., and in doing so it sorta brings new light to some of "their" issues they ask for advice on.
I didn't read this except for the main question. Ever since my mother admonished me when I was little for giving cash to homeless people ( I gave out all my money I'd saved for souviners from the zoo to them lol.) I've just given them left over food instead. Once when I was feeling charitable there was a 2/1.00 pretzels and there was a homeless man outside so I bought 2 one for him one for me. I am sad to say I don't really go out of my way though.
I think this thread was very educational about some people's true nature's. And I think it helped some, who were honestly unaware, break stereotypes of homelessness.
Sidebar...When did being a stripper at 31 become something to be embarassed about, and taking pay-outs from your parents at 31 something to brag about?





Number of times Rickrolled on stage: 6
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Marasmus ... "Ladies don't fart. They butt-laugh."
Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."
Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."
Well, to be honest Paige, you are an oddity. Women aren't supposed to be as hot as you!
But seriously, as long as a woman keeps her body and her attitude rocking, I don't see an age limit to stripping.
I never give money to homeless people. I do, however, regularly donate time and money to shelters and assistance agencies. I think that is a better way of combatting homelessness.
This website is especially telling. http://snowsuit.net/





Well, as a kid I remember I always use to ask my dad to buy me restaurant food & would never eat it all. I use to be a picky eater as a child (Barely ate dinner at home, didn't like anyone's home cooked meals).
That always bothered my parents(my mom always struggling for me to eat at least half of my dinner), and they always told me to remember that there are other ppl out there, who are dying of hunger. And that I was fortunate to have a roof over my head with a hot meal on the table. And i'd ask for this food & never finished it & just threw it away like nothing.
Well, that guilt trip got me one time. One night after my parents took me to eat Chinese food my dad drove under this bridge where this homeless man use to sleep. Huddle, with his dog and cane. And on my lap, I had left over Chinese food that I barely touched. It was a red light, and my dad suggested for me to give him my food. He rolled down the window, I called him and said here. That man was the sweetest thing, and thanked me so many times. I felt real good about it.
Every time we saw him, we'd give him Mc'Donalds(the bridge is across the street from it), or whatever I barely ate. lol.It never failed, until we never saw him again.
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So yeah, til that day I give whatever I can give. Whether it be pocket change, or offer to buy something from the corner store.





BTW Paige and Tart, i'm so sorry you girls went through that.Your stories touched me too, esp. that card part. Made me teary eyed as well.





I've gotten to the point in my life where I look at the bad shite I've been through, and hope to be able to use those experiences to either help others in similar states of being, or to at least enlighten those who might just not know. My curses have become semi-blessings. I feel like a much stronger person due to it too![]()
Number of times Rickrolled on stage: 6
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Marasmus ... "Ladies don't fart. They butt-laugh."
Marasmus says, "Oh no, that wasn't gas, it was merely a rectal chuckle."
Marek says, "A friend of mine got punched in the face by a dominatrix stripper about two weeks ago and I thought of you."
I still give money unless they are very very rude(although i would rather buy food)..There is this one guy that hangs out outside the club. I give him socks, those fruit of loom(?) t shirts in bags(he likes them), boxers, etc. He LOVES getting new socks. it really makes his day. Every now and then when i see him I get him a room at this motel across the street..its only $27 a night and you get free breakfast so he orders 3 orders eats 2 of them and then saves one for the next day. Good guy..fell on some real hard times![]()
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The stories I have read here have humbled me.
I feel ashamed for the lack of compassion I have shown.
I want to thank everyone who shared their stories for opening my eyes.
Seriously. I'm proud to say I work HARD for my money and support MYSELF. And I'm still hot enough at almost 34 to get paid a LOT for being pretty. Not something I feel mommy and daddy should save me from. Please..save me from having to work for a living and let me sit on my fat ass..wandering next door behind a bar once in awhile...and just support my grown adult able bodied ass.
And what exactly is the differance between taking handouts from mommy and handouts from strangers? I hope mommy makes you dance or SOMETHING for your money. After all..she worked hard for it so so should you.
This thread has been sadly enlightening.





Also: who the hell can't support themselves after so many years of stripping? No back-up job plan? No savings? No investments?
Look like a woman
Think like a man
Act like a lady
Work like a dog
- My Great Grandmother Bessie's Recipe for Success
This thread has inspired me to go volunteer in a soup kitchen. Sadly, most of the soup kitchens here are run by religious nuts who always try to convert me whenever I try to help out. The project becomes less about feeding the homeless and more about "let's save poor little heathen Alia's soul". I have had th same issues when I worked as a wedding photographer for a year as well as when I would play the piano in a church on Sundays. (They can't deal with a non-beliver pianist but I just love to play.)
Any other ideas of how to help? It's far too warm in my area of the world right now to deliver blankets. Maybe food and water bottles would be a good idea? Give out bags so the homeless can carry stuff?
So it's OK to get paid for "being pretty" but me running my family business and actually working my ASS off isn't ok because my family helps me? Half of the things I bring to my current position I learned throughout my career as a dancer.
I do work hard. I work a hell of a lot harder than I do in the strip club being pretty getting handouts, maam.
I thought this thread was about homeless people?
If y'all wanna bitch about me & my life & the way I think & live then so be it. Start a new thread.
C ya.
you girls inspired me also...I haven't been able to sleep so I've been thinking about this all night. Someone mentioned things like getting light blankets, backpacks ect were really helpful when you were in a bad position. I was thinking if each of us strippers went to walmart and filled a backpack with stuff like shampoo, soap, q tips, bottle water, protein bars, underwear, socks, a blanket..whatever, it wouldn't be that costly to us, less then 100 but it would help some people. I am going to try to do this once a month. Thanks for this thread because sometimes I forget about everyone but myself.
That's a good idea.
Actually..backpacks are kinda expensive, but the other stuff is ratehr cheap. If you could get donated backpacks, it would be much cheaper to fill them, then you could help several people at once, instead of just 1 or 2.
Espicially with school starting soon, all the kids are getting new backpacks and throwing out their old ones. If you could somehow organize a donation of old used backpacks....
You could go to the dollar store and fill them for under $20
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