Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast
Results 1 to 25 of 36

Thread: cheap rich men

  1. #1
    Featured Member mina loy's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2006
    Location
    san francisco
    Posts
    970
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 5 Times in 5 Posts

    Default cheap rich men

    my newest pet peeve is men who are very wealthy but are so cheap...

    case point:

    this week i meet two men. one says he owns two houses and a sailboat and is getting a motorcycle. he says he makes $250/hour and has no family. sure, he'll do ONE two-for-$60 dance. that's it. he tips me one dollar onstage. says that VIP costs too much for him.

    the other guy tells me that he's only visiting the club to kill time and that he only gets $40,000 per month from the rent on the building he owns, wishing it could be $100,000. i suggest a dance from a fabulously sexy woman like myself. he supposes that VIP costs too much and i manage to twist one $20 dance from him. he outwardly admits to being cheap and seems almost proud of that fact.

    what's up with this? i ask the top earners at my club if they have this same problem: wealthy guys (we're talking middle-aged ones) who just aren't willing to spend. they didn't have any solutions for this situation.

    do any of you?

  2. #2
    God/dess jaizaine's Avatar
    Joined
    Jun 2006
    Location
    melbourne australia
    Posts
    10,144
    Thanks
    328
    Thanked 219 Times in 133 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    I find that suits and professional guys are very cheap in the strip clubs.

    The best customers are:

    drug dealers, criminals (i know i know but it's true they support this industry)
    blue collar workers
    Quote Originally Posted by Corgan View Post
    when regulars turn cheap, it's time to kill em off.
    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    You're still a vagina.
    There are many stereotypes about the industry that I work in. Sometimes they can be true but human beings are very diverse creatures and cannot be pigeon-holed into one category.

    Some of the most effortlessly beautiful, kind, intelligent, successful, motivated, driven and ridiculously hilarious women that I have ever met have been dancers. I've met the best friends that I've ever had in this industry.

  3. The Following User Says Thank You to jaizaine For This Useful Post:


  4. #3
    God/dess Lysondra's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2005
    Location
    Another Country
    Posts
    18,664
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 148 Times in 100 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    They're not rich because they spend all their money... that's my only validation for that. Other than that, fuck you, you have money, give it to me! WOOOOOO... money!


    Look like a woman
    Think like a man
    Act like a lady
    Work like a dog

    - My Great Grandmother Bessie's Recipe for Success

  5. #4
    Featured Member mina loy's Avatar
    Joined
    Jul 2006
    Location
    san francisco
    Posts
    970
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 5 Times in 5 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    well, that's good to know except it doesn't offer any solutions.

  6. #5
    God/dess Lysondra's Avatar
    Joined
    Apr 2005
    Location
    Another Country
    Posts
    18,664
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 148 Times in 100 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    Oh I misread the question. I thought you were asking if you had any solutions as to why they behaved like that.

    And not really.. just walk away.


    Look like a woman
    Think like a man
    Act like a lady
    Work like a dog

    - My Great Grandmother Bessie's Recipe for Success

  7. #6
    Veteran Member
    Joined
    Oct 2006
    Location
    Las Vegas
    Posts
    207
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    yesterday i had a guy tell me he was retired military so he's on a budget, i can see that since i've been in the military and i know that the pension isn't that great. he gets a $20 dance and then afterward i ask him how long he's been in vegas and he told me that he's only here to sell a major corporation and that he owns houses all over the US. that second part just contradicted what he had told me 10 minutes before. i got up and left.

    they don't want to spend money. even they supposedly have a lot, they are tight with it. or like the guy i had just totally contradictory.

  8. #7
    God/dess Corgan's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2006
    Location
    Southeast Texas
    Posts
    4,735
    Thanks
    10
    Thanked 35 Times in 20 Posts
    My Mood
    Brooding

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    i've had a custy that would tip me generously, buy dances... but took me to breakfast one time and didn't tip the waitress... WTF!

    i know what you mean by the braggers. i usually just get as much as i can out of them and leave. i do not stay for another 30 mins in the hopes of another dance. i call them on it, if they start getting cheap on me. example:

    custy: you should come out on my boat sometime.
    me: oh, i dont know if i can.
    custy: of course you can! why do you say that?
    me: because i don't know if it exists... you say you have all this money but you've only got ONE dance...

    he will either take the bait and get more or be cheap. if he acts cheap, i'm gone.

  9. #8
    God/dess Chrissy68's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2004
    Location
    Over the hills and far away
    Posts
    4,902
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 368 Times in 56 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    i find that the wealthiest guys are often the cheapest. i either have to HARD sell them, and i mean hard, or win them over with my intelligence. but, i find that the guys who talk about the money they make, they aren't willing to spend it. i only met one, once, who spent it. and he was a royal pain in the ass.

    lastly, a lot of those guys who are wealthy and come to the club, brag, and dont spend, are the guys who get off on putting people "beneath them" down. so, read carefully whether he's the type to put you down and brag abotu his money, or not. if he is that^, avoidx3.

    Love it!

  10. The Following User Says Thank You to Chrissy68 For This Useful Post:


  11. #9
    God/dess ahmeerah's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2007
    Location
    Center of the World.
    Posts
    3,128
    Thanks
    66
    Thanked 82 Times in 51 Posts
    My Mood
    Breezy

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    In life, the braggers are the ones who don't like to spend. THey expect women to fall at their feet just because they have a lot.

    But if you're just telling me about all the money you have, of what benefit is it to me?!

    I haven't worked at a strip club for a ffew years but I've noticed this in real life too.

  12. The Following User Says Thank You to ahmeerah For This Useful Post:


  13. #10
    God/dess krchab99's Avatar
    Joined
    Mar 2004
    Posts
    3,233
    Thanks
    100
    Thanked 43 Times in 30 Posts
    My Mood
    Breezy

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    They're not rich because they spend all their money... that's my only validation for that. Other than that, fuck you, you have money, give it to me! WOOOOOO... money!

    this was my exactly my thought when i read the post lol

  14. #11
    cameron_keys
    Guest

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    First of all..you dont know if they actually have that money. It's amazing how many guys magically become rich when they walk through those strip club doors!
    Second..I've learned that the guys who brag about how much they have are NOT going to spend. They are obviously trying to impress me with how much they have...and if they really had it, they'd impress me by SPENDING it. Not talking about it. So when they start this BS I ask 1) can I have the house,car,whatever they are bragging about and 2) when they say no or look at me like I'v egone insane...I tell them that I dont care even a little what they HAVE...I care what they are giving ME. While it's lovely for them to have a buttload of cash...if it stays in their pocket...it does me no good. I dont worry about alienating them..because as you've seen..these guys rarely spend anyway.


    Funny story though....th eother day I was sitting with two guys who spent a little bit..got several dances each and bought me drinks. One was from Venuzuela, one was from Mexico(this is important I promise). They started talking to me about how they always see guys talking shit and lying to girls nad they think it is SO stupid. I agreed and told them about all the guys who come in bragging about their house, Ferrari, expensive jewlery....and all the other things they supposedly have to try and impress us.
    The Mexican guy thinks hard for a second...then turns to me..with a total straight face and says "I have a donkey...!!" They way he said it had me cracking up!!

  15. #12
    Veteran Member hearts's Avatar
    Joined
    Jan 2006
    Location
    PDX, OR
    Posts
    447
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 22 Times in 8 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    Cameron, you are so right. Most of these guys are LIARS!!! Especially the ones who are all dressed up. I swear, the key is to look at their watch. Yup, the watch on their wrist. It has never failed me--even if a guy is in a tshirt and flip flops, if he has an expensive watch on, he has money.
    Somehow, my sarcasm works to get more money: if they aren't spending more, I say "High roller, aren't we?" and then laugh. It comes off as gentle poking fun at them, and it can get them to keep buying. Or, "The least you could do is help a girl get drunk!" to get them to buy me a drink. (never a real drink, and I get the $).

  16. #13
    God/dess Zabrina's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2003
    Location
    Texas
    Posts
    2,892
    Thanks
    17
    Thanked 42 Times in 30 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    Sounds like a bunch of 30k a year "millionaires." The clubs are full of 'em.

  17. The Following User Says Thank You to Zabrina For This Useful Post:


  18. #14
    madmaxine
    Guest

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    This is a fave topic of mine because I now live in a region full of very wealthy people. I can BARELY relate to them.

    The way I will deal with them from now on in the club is to level with them- "Don't waste my time...If we were in any other scenario you wouldn't be messing me around. Are you SO lacking in masculinity you have to hassle a pretty girl to feel good about yourself?"

    I'm also not above sitting with a blue collar guy or an illegal immigrant laborer so I can point and laugh at the Yuppie Dudes with an amused audience...The Yuppie Scum at Buffalo Station were nicknamed "Pinche Gabachos/ Those F*cking Jerks" & we all had a great laugh.

  19. #15
    Moderator Optimist's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2004
    Location
    House of Aion
    Posts
    8,074
    Thanks
    7,881
    Thanked 5,705 Times in 2,127 Posts
    My Mood
    In Love

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    Quote Originally Posted by alisha101 View Post
    yesterday i had a guy tell me he was retired military so he's on a budget, i can see that since i've been in the military and i know that the pension isn't that great. he gets a $20 dance and then afterward i ask him how long he's been in vegas and he told me that he's only here to sell a major corporation and that he owns houses all over the US. that second part just contradicted what he had told me 10 minutes before. i got up and left.

    they don't want to spend money. even they supposedly have a lot, they are tight with it. or like the guy i had just totally contradictory.

    I think I talked to that guy at Men's Club. He had me believing him too. When he told me his whole story I just assumed he was BS-ing me.

    I walk away from that type because their supposed money is beside the point. I think they are sadists. The point is to make you feel you're not worth their money. Otherwise it would simply be rude to go to a salesperson and say "I'm rich but I'm not spending".
    “What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE

  20. The Following User Says Thank You to Optimist For This Useful Post:


  21. #16
    Moderator Optimist's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2004
    Location
    House of Aion
    Posts
    8,074
    Thanks
    7,881
    Thanked 5,705 Times in 2,127 Posts
    My Mood
    In Love

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post


    The Mexican guy thinks hard for a second...then turns to me..with a total straight face and says "I have a donkey...!!" They way he said it had me cracking up!!
    That is so cute!! I like his sense of humor!
    “What a caterpillar calls the end of the world we call a butterfly.” - ECKHART TOLLE

  22. #17
    God/dess cinammonkisses's Avatar
    Joined
    Aug 2002
    Location
    Some Fat guys Lap!
    Posts
    9,647
    Thanks
    11
    Thanked 90 Times in 67 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    I usually avoid the suit types. I prefer a man with khaki's and a nice polo shirt.







    Some Douchebag: "[Pimp C] 12:43 am: its true we got to stick together the black people on SW CK you is teh condoleeza of SW"


  23. #18
    God/dess
    Joined
    Oct 2006
    Posts
    8,427
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 30 Times in 22 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    yeah, if theyre bragging that much about money but not spending it, there's a good chance they don't have it. last week, i called a guy out on this. he kept talking about his "mansion" and money and i said "you know what? when guys talk about money so much it usually means they dont have any." he gave me $300 just for talking to him and doing a dance or two. i was with him for 9 songs. works for me!

  24. The Following User Says Thank You to britt244 For This Useful Post:


  25. #19
    Yekhefah
    Guest

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    Maxine is so totally right on Montana, it's a trip! We get rich golfers all the time who never spend a penny, and tons of Mexican laborers who drop $400 in an hour. I've made plenty of money by getting the Mexicans to help me pick on the gabachos too!

    NOTHING pisses off a white businessman more than a stripper and a Mexican giggling, "Cheap, cheap, is there a bird in here?"

  26. #20
    Newbie
    Joined
    Aug 2007
    Posts
    7
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 1 Time in 1 Post

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    I always get irritated when I tell a guy that it's 100$ for a fifteen minute show, and then he hassles me about it, and I bargain it down to 75$, and he pays me with one of many hundred dollar bills in his wallet, making sure I get his change.

    soooo irritating.

  27. The Following User Says Thank You to Foxy_Roxy For This Useful Post:


  28. #21
    miss marina
    Guest

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    ^ Ugh, i would just have kept the 100! I hate cheap men. There is this guy i met before i even started dancing, and i knew for sure he had money(My mom worked at the courthouse at the time and got one of those public records for me) I seen what his house was worth, he taxes for the last 5 years, etc. He was always SOOO CHEAP. i mean he would even do the entire "steal alot of packets of ketchup from mcdonalds and squeeze it into a big bottle"


    Anyway, he started coming into the club i worked at a year ago, and he would always try to get 5 dollar dances. Yeah, im going to give you a 5 dollar dance when they club takes 10 anyway, so I would owe 5 dollars outta my own money to do that for you! Yeah right! He was one of those "you should just dance for me for free" guys! I FINALLY got a 20 dollar dance out of him once. to this day when i randomly see him, he still bitches about that 20 dollars. Coming from a man who makes over $300,000 a year. PUH LEASE! -ok rant over-sorry guys!

  29. #22
    God/dess
    Joined
    Aug 2002
    Location
    Phoenix is home, work in Upper Midwest Boonies
    Posts
    3,274
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 107 Times in 61 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    Guys that leave their money on the table, or who boast about making "good money" don't really have any money. And when some of these guys come in the club after leaving the golf course or a sporting event, they are in groups and are embarrased to spend a chunk on dancers around their friends. Maybe one guy out of the group will buy dances.

  30. #23
    Featured Member tootsie's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2005
    Location
    on my couch
    Posts
    1,305
    Thanks
    26
    Thanked 38 Times in 19 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    i hate men like that! there is a guy who comes in my club that has a ton of $, expects someone to sit with him for a while, then gets 2 dances and leaves. it is so annoying.the long time dancers don't bother with him, the new dancers do.

  31. #24
    Senior Member dawnr1101's Avatar
    Joined
    Feb 2007
    Posts
    106
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    It depends on the city I am in. In MD. I get money from the blue collar workers..you know, the one's who don't look like they have any money. In CT. I have always had luck with the young guys (the type that I would NEVER talk to in MD because they are so cheap). IMO I would not waste my time with guys who do not want to spend and just want to get something for free or very little money. There are to many guys out there to waste my time with "rich" guys who want to be cheap.

  32. #25
    God/dess
    Joined
    Apr 2007
    Location
    The Diner State
    Posts
    5,085
    Thanks
    0
    Thanked 0 Times in 0 Posts

    Default Re: cheap rich men

    Last night:

    Young kid: How come none of these girls come around and talk to the guys? I have $1000 I brought to spend on dances. Blah blah blah, glad you came by, prettiest girl, etc.

    Me: You. Me. VIP. (okay, a paraphrase, I was much more charming)

    Young kid: Nah, dances aren't really my thing.

    I hate the guys that mention how much they have. HATE.

Page 1 of 2 12 LastLast

Similar Threads

  1. Maryland TRIED raising taxes on the 'rich' ... but the Rich Go Missing !
    By Melonie in forum Forum Games, Quizes, and Surveys
    Replies: 66
    Last Post: 06-16-2014, 07:58 AM
  2. Cheap men...
    By Amy Lee in forum Other Work
    Replies: 9
    Last Post: 03-19-2011, 06:17 PM
  3. Good Places to meet REAL rich men in Los Angeles
    By krystel_gotti in forum Other Work
    Replies: 14
    Last Post: 12-10-2010, 09:11 AM
  4. Rich men prefer women with dark hair
    By LadyLuck in forum The Lounge
    Replies: 58
    Last Post: 08-12-2009, 03:56 PM
  5. Replies: 7
    Last Post: 06-17-2009, 03:18 AM

Bookmarks

Posting Permissions

  • You may not post new threads
  • You may not post replies
  • You may not post attachments
  • You may not edit your posts
  •