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    So i am getting my boobies on the 10th of Sept.

    I have announced it to all my friends and my parents.. my parents are disgusted w/ me- they don't know i am a dancer i just told them that i want to work at Hooters lol...

    My boyfriend is acting like he could give a shit..i don't know [email protected][email protected]! He knows how happy and excited i am about this- i have been wanting them for over a year now and the time has finally come and he is acting like he doesn't even care~! It's making me soooo mad

    Even my best friend isn't even acting excited about the news... she works w/ me and she is 1 of the 2 girls at my club that have fake boobies...so i am thinking it is like a jealusly thing or something????? i don't know why everyone is acting so fucking crumy and mean =0(

    only 1 girl at work has congratulated me... my own boyfriend still hasn't..


    WTF!

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    Default Re: no ones happy but me ...

    OMG i could have written this post!
    my parents are irritated that i'm getting mine done next spring, they don't get it.
    i've wanted this for years now, and my boyfriend is being supportive, but def not excited. i bet he wil be once he sees them though!
    and my best friend has fake boobs and really wont talk to me much about it or act excited at all. i think she is jeallous now too.

    seriously, fuck 'em all! we here are all happy for you! and you can be happy for yourself, don't let them 'rain on your parade!' people in your life may not understand or accept it, but thats their problem, not yours.

    congratulations!

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    Default Re: no ones happy but me ...

    While it's a big deal to you some people have the "if it ain't broke don't fix it" attitute then others simply don't really care. It's great that you are happy about it and I am sure once you get them others will notice your confidence. Don't worry about what they think, it's your body and if you can afford it and don't mind having the surgery more power to ya.

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    Regarding the best friends that are negative or at least unexcited..... Maybe they got enhanced before you because they were jealous, and now if you have new boobs they may start feeling inferior again.

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    My bf is very unhappy with the idea of me getting my breasts done. But it's my body and my decision and even tho he says "what if im not attracted to you when u get them?" and "if i wanted a girl with big boobs i would have gone out with someone else" im sure he will llike them when i get them and if no oh well.
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    Whatever...you're doing it for you not them.
    While hubby was excited for me..my friends def were NOT. They were supportive, but it was more "If you REALLY want it then I guess thats nice" kind of thing. Afterwards...they were excited for me and confessed that they were just afraid I would end up with horrible hard as rocks fake boobs. When they saw how great they looked they had a total 180degree turn around and were all excited for me.

    So screw everyone. You'll have the last laugh when you have a great set of gorgeous fake titties!!!

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    Default Re: no ones happy but me ...

    Boyfriends are always happy once it's already done. It's natural for your parents to not want you to get them. After all, they made that body! But you are happy and excited and that's what matters. We're excited for you too! Good luck!

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    I'm happy for you!! New bewbies are the bestest!

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    Ok, yes you're excited now, but when/after you have your surgery you might feel more nervous and overwhelmed. Luckily my friends were supportive, but one "friend" of a friend told me (the day before my surgery) that I was "mutilating" my body. Whatever. This is your decision and they can choose to be supportive of you, whether they agree with your decisions or not.

    Don't worry, you always have your SW girlies. We support you!!! Good luck!

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    I'm so jealous of you, getting boobies on my b-day! I agree that the work friend may be scared of more competition if she believes her boobs have gotten her more money, and they they will get you more too.

    As for the boyfriend thing i really would worry about it. I'm part of a boobie board and this topic has been brought up time and time again and we've come to think that unless the hubby or boyfriend is being negative about it, it might just be awkward for him to say anything. He loves you for you and might fell like you'd start to question that if he was excited about your body getting changed. It can be an awkward situation for him. He doesn't want to seem shallow or accedently hurt your feelings by saying something about the boobs when he'll be safe if he just stays out of it all together.

    anyways, im excited for you! I wish you the best with the surgery and healing

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    Quote Originally Posted by Glamazon View Post
    I'm happy for you!! New bewbies are the bestest!
    What Glam said !

    My SO wasn't supportive when I got mine done either ! He later told me he was pissed that I got them done ! Whatever !
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    I'm excited for you too. Your boobies aren't anyone else's business.

    I only told a few close friends before I did it. Before I'd made the decision my friends and bfs always said "No! Don't do it!" I listened -- THEN.

    I'm much happier now that I did it.

    I never told my parents. I don't see them much and when I saw my Mom I made sure I wore a blousey top. I don't think she knew how flat I was before though. I was ALWAYS in water bras that were too big for me anyways.

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    congrats on the new boobs.. thats awesome. I just so happen to be the only woman in my immediate family who doesnt have implants. heh.

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    congratulations!!!! If you're excited then screw everybody else!!!!

    Yay for you for having the take charge attitute to do want you want and the will power to see it through regardless of the immediate people in your life. This is YOUR decision! Not theirs!

    Congrats again!

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    Default Re: no ones happy but me ...

    Thnx guys for all the support! =0)

    I'm glad i'm not the only one that has been in this situation..makes me feel a little better lol
    I'm deff. doing it for myself and no one else! so screw what everyone else thinks!

    My boobs are my only part of my body that i am self concious about- so getting them done is going to give me that extra boost of confidence(which i need)

    aaaawh i'm soooo excited

    Ya and about my friend at work- i think it is a 'competition' thing..and i would expect her to be one of the first people to congratulate me and be happy for me... it just really hurts to see her green come out. I thought she was bigger then that- she knows how much i have wanted them and it's not like i talk about them all the time in front of her i don't boast about it at work at all! she actually told a few of the girls even before i had mentioned nething to neone! One of the girls at my work came up to me on sat. and was like ' i heard your getting your boobs done' and just gave me a little smirk and that was it...wtf.

    like everyone said though 'fuck um'

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