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    So I was working Friday night and doing really good. I started talking to this one guy took him back into the VIP room where he spent $400 in dances from me. Then he starts going on that he wants to date me, and I am like sorry I don't date. And he keeps going on and on about how he wants to date me and kiss me, then get this he even offers me $100 to just let him kiss me once. I was like no!

    This just drives me nuts, why do men in these clubs think that just because we give them sometime and dance for them that we want to date them?

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    Quote Originally Posted by icey View Post
    This just drives me nuts, why do men in these clubs think that just because we give them sometime and dance for them that we want to date them?
    Because we are there to be saved fro this horrible life and find our white knight who will take us away from it all...

    Seriously...too many guys just cant seem to wrap their brains around the fact that a woman is willing to get naked for someone they are NOT interested in.

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    Same thing happened to me... "I'll get another dance if you just let me make out with you... i came all the way out here to get a show from you, you know..." he actually tried to make me feel guilty for "not getting his money's worth.

    If I didn't think i'd get fired for it, I'd tell him off.

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    They do it because they are simple animals who believe the fantasy being sold to them. If they didn't ask these things, I'd be very surprised. As long as a guy isn't being pushy, and as long as he is spending money, I will entertain his questions of OTC activity and whatever else. He can talk about it all day long, but that doesn't mean we'll ever actually buy his bullshit. It's all just part of the job, not even the worst part or second worst part, IMO.
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    You sound like you're fairly new.... get used to it... OTC pesterings are part of the job, as are customer bargaining techniques to try to get what they want while giving you the bare min. in dances.

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    $100 for a kiss??? wow.

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    That's why I tell anyone who asks that I have a boyfriend. I may have lost a little money over time to that, but I've saved myself countless hours of bullshit from pestering guys.
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    I just tell them that I have to save something special for my personal life, most guys tend to respect that (and it reminds them politely that you're WORKing).




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    I don't know why they think it's acceptable to do this. I think they are just trying to see if anything would ever happen. As one of my favorite bouncers from the East Coast said, "You can't blame them. They're men." You have to understand that sometimes decorum and logic aren't part of their plan for the strip club visit, and deal with them accordingly. I don't even mess with these guys by saying "Oh maybe we should get to know each other better here" or whatever. I just say I don't date customers for safety reasons, and they get it. I have heard a lot of resulting whiny, "Why do the psychos have to ruin it for the rest of us?" type rants, though.

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