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    I throwing in the towel. I have been to meeting after the meeting with the city council and two with the mayors of surrounding areas, they plan to fight me every step of the way if I try to open another club. An offical in Wellford said that if I am successful in opening a club he will see to it that it will be shut down in less than 90 days.
    My attorney can only do so much and he has been so dilligent in working with me on this and setting up the meetings I needed, but I just dont see any positive resolution coming out of this.
    I havent even been dancing in the past three months, just trying to get everything in order...but I guess now I can go back into it. I guess I really cannot change the atmosphere of the clubs. I enjoy dancing but I hate knowing the only thing I can do is ignore the extras, and go about my night. Sorry, I just needed somewhere to vent.

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    Are we supposed to know the background on this?
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    Default Re: I guess its not meant to be

    I apologize for the vague post, I have had alot to take in lately so I have been bad with details.

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    I missed your original post, but now that I read it I think this is probably better for you.

    How do you know if you opened up a club it wouldn't just degenerate into the same thing after a while? Did the other clubs open up striving to be extras clubs? Probably not.

    Don't totally give up though. Go back to your life for a while, but keep your ears open for other opportunities. Maybe in a year one of the clubs in your area will be looking to sell.

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    I'm sorry that things havn't worked out well for you. You seemed very diligent and hard working in make this come about.

    Have you looked into buying your way into an existing club?

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    Buying an existing club is really the ONLY way to go in out conservative, sexually repressed society.

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    In my city, the ONLY way you can legally open a strip club is by buying an existing one.

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    I would love to buy an exsiting club and improve on it, but currently no one is selling. I worked tonight at a different venue than Im used to, so that took my mind off of the bad news for a while. I lied, Im not going to give up, Im going to heed the advice given and definitely keep my eyes and ears open for a rising opprotunities.
    I still believe a dancer owned club is what is needed to make a change in the current atmosphere of this industry, maybe its just this area, I dont know.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MostOutOfLife View Post
    I still believe a dancer owned club is what is needed to make a change in the current atmosphere of this industry, maybe its just this area, I dont know.
    I believe it's what we need too. Maybe you could change locations? Or become a manager THEN later on go toward your dream of opening a club. It is time for a change, and I feel like you could make your mark on that..one step at a time.

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    Good on you for not quitting. Believe me, I know the "fuck-this-I-quit" sensation really well, but I've found that when I grieve a little bit and then pick myself back up and get back on the horse, I can make almost anything happen. You can too. This is a setback, not the end! We're cheering you on!

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    I agree with CK said about managing first. That way, you could become for familiar with how to run and operate the club before jumping into owning your own. These things take time...Lots of time. Don't get discouraged so quickly!

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    Default Re: I guess its not meant to be

    Just read through the original thread as well as this one... No one seems to have brought this up, unless I missed it....

    Why can't you buy one of the brothel/dives and change the place for the better? Just use it as the bones of YOUR club how YOU want it run. I do believe that owners have the final say in management, etc so you could hire and fire at will to get rid of the mgmt that allows drugs and prostitution.
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