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    The other night while I was dancing on stage this customer came up to me, tipped me and asked me to join him at his table when I got a chance. He also told me that he asked another girl as well so if she was sitting with him at the time to make sure to come by and see him and he really stressed to make sure to come by. (She and I happened to be dancing on different stages at the same time). Well I made it over to his table before she did and he and I were in the middle of a good conversation. She then just comes up and plops down and starts interrupting us. I of course was polite but was furious inside, I HATE it when another dancer comes up to the table you're at and rudely plops down. Our club has this rule that if there's 1 customer and 1 dancer, DO NOT approach unless invited. I feel that if a customer invites you over to at least either ask if you can join or say something like "I can see you're busy with her right now, if you like I can come back later...." then that gives him the opportunity to ask you to stay or say "yes, please come back"

    So anyway, while she's sitting there (ruining my hustle) I bring up the VIP room, explain the prices and everything and ONLY because she was sitting there I didn't want to look bad so I even suggested that he take both of us (double the fun, hehe *rolls eyes*). He was kinda hesitant so we both took him on a tour.

    To make a long story short, he decided that he only wanted to take one of us and he chose me. When he chose me this is what she said "Well, if you had chosen me I'd agree to go with you only if you took both of us, that's just how I am". I'm like, WTF?!!!

    So later on in the night after the VIP is over with I run into her in the DR. She starts going on and on how rude that was of him to have both of us take him on the tour of the club and to only pick one of us. She then mentioned again about what she said to him that if he would've picked her that she would've only gone with him if he would take both of us. She then also said "well, I understand that you need to make your money and everything, I just would've made him take both of us, but that's just me." Again, I was like WTF!!! I've never worked with you before, I don't know you and no, you wouldn't have said that and if you did, you're an idiot!!! Hell, you wouldn't even do that for your best friend as you shouldn't, you're there to make money.

    Anyway, I just wanted to share/vent that. I thought that was a weird thing to say to the customer but even weirder to say that to me considering I don't know you, we're all there to make money and most of all, I was sitting with the customer first, not you!!!!!

    Have any of you had a dancer say this to you? I've heard a few doozies but this one is very high on the list. Ok, vent over, thanks for listening.

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    Fuck her Leo...Trust me, had he picked HER over YOU she would've been smililng ear to ear while dragging him back there. Forget that it's: "both of us or nothing" approach.

    You got your money and that's that. Hell, you were nice for even SUGGESTING she attend the tour with ya'll.

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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876 View Post
    The other night while I was dancing on stage this customer came up to me, tipped me and asked me to join him at his table when I got a chance. He also told me that he asked another girl as well so if she was sitting with him at the time to make sure to come by and see him and he really stressed to make sure to come by. (She and I happened to be dancing on different stages at the same time). Well I made it over to his table before she did and he and I were in the middle of a good conversation. She then just comes up and plops down and starts interrupting us. I of course was polite but was furious inside, I HATE it when another dancer comes up to the table you're at and rudely plops down. Our club has this rule that if there's 1 customer and 1 dancer, DO NOT approach unless invited. I feel that if a customer invites you over to at least either ask if you can join or say something like "I can see you're busy with her right now, if you like I can come back later...." then that gives him the opportunity to ask you to stay or say "yes, please come back"
    he told you both to come over. she doesn't need to ask if it's ok. if he really stressed it to you, he might have stressed it to her, too, you know? you say she shouldnt come unless she was invited, but she was.

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    Geez... maybe she forgot how this job works. But yea, it sounds like he ruffled both of your feathers by asking two girls to come over. It sounds like he may have been on some power trip. I've had tons of customers do that. However, she should have just moved on to another custie.
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    Normally I'd say she was being a bitch...but, didn't he say he asked another dancer to come over also? Do you know if she was the other dancer? If that was so he was kinda a dick for having both of you come over with no intention of spending money on both of you. Thats like, just trying to start drama between girls.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorlila View Post
    Normally I'd say she was being a bitch...but, didn't he say he asked another dancer to come over also? Do you know if she was the other dancer? If that was so he was kinda a dick for having both of you come over with no intention of spending money on both of you. Thats like, just trying to start drama between girls.
    I cannot stand when customers have to choose btw two girls... i have had it happen before and its incredibly annoying to get shiested....

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorlila View Post
    Normally I'd say she was being a bitch...but, didn't he say he asked another dancer to come over also? Do you know if she was the other dancer? If that was so he was kinda a dick for having both of you come over with no intention of spending money on both of you. Thats like, just trying to start drama between girls.

    Yeah, I guess....I guess I didn't see it that way. It was her that he invited over as well, I don't know, maybe I'm different, even if I was invited over I would've approached it differently. If he hadn't told me, I wouldn't have known she was also invited. I guess what irritated me was that he and I were talking and she plopped down and rudely interrupted us and then bitched to me about it later that she would've made him take both of us.

    I honestly don't think it was a power trip for him, it was his first time at our club and honestly think he was planning on getting just a couple of dances and not a VIP. I could be wrong about it all but I think his mind was changed once he saw the VIP room and honestly think he chose me over her because he and I clicked better.

    I don't know, I just think that was really weird on what she said to the customer and me, she would've been grinning ear to ear and gladly would've walked off to VIP with him WITHOUT me without any hesitation as anyone would. Ughh, drama in the SC, what are ya gonna do?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    Fuck her Leo...Trust me, had he picked HER over YOU she would've been smililng ear to ear while dragging him back there. Forget that it's: "both of us or nothing" approach.

    You got your money and that's that. Hell, you were nice for even SUGGESTING she attend the tour with ya'll.

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    Yeah, no worries. I've had girls flip out on me over similar issues and I just give a vague smile and pretend to agree... like, "Yeah, totally rude of him, these guys, what are you gonna do, it's his money and it's a shame these guys get so rude with it, uh huh, 'scuse me, I have to use the restroom." She can't fight if you don't fight back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    he told you both to come over. she doesn't need to ask if it's ok. if he really stressed it to you, he might have stressed it to her, too, you know? you say she shouldnt come unless she was invited, but she was.
    Yeah...

    I do feel though that if he invited you both over then he should be willing to spend money on both of you. Obviously he wasn't thinking.
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    Sounds like a power-tripper.....I hate it when there are multiple girls all fawning over one guy. Chances are he's only gonna go to VIP with one of them, then the other feels stupid. Man if that happened to me I would have been a bitch and just walked away. Fuck them both.

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    Well, if you had chosen me I'd agree to go with you only if you took both of us, that's just how I am".
    Yeah, fucking right.

    If he actually picked her, and she had a couple hundred dollars dangling in front of her, she would not have turned it down and said both of us or I won't go.

    Your at work to make money. For yourself. While you don't wanna fuck anyone over....if money is offered to you, you take it. Plain and simple.

    This girl worked the situation all wrong. She alienated a customer.

    Had that been me, I would have said, well, since you did ask me to come over, and I spent time with you instead of someone I could have made money from, maybe you'd ike to tip me for my time?
    I would have also said, when that VIP is over, if your still in the mood for more, come see me so I can have my turn rockin your world.

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    I used to work at a massage parlour, and we had to "line up" for the custie to choose his partner. I never touched his things and he never touched me, the most I did was get down to a thong, BUT, Most of the customers chose me over the other girls. Well, coming to that, shit hit the fan after a bit. And it was the girls making up ridiculous rules about "fairness" and such, well, it wasn't because all they wanted was their money, and I was there for mine.
    Turns out that they started telling customers shit about me, and the owner got complaints so I left.
    BUT, shit happens when you're picked and someone else isn't. I agree with above, just make your money the best way you can, and forget her. Wait, agree, smile and nod, and then walk away!

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    Maybe he liked both of you but was having a hard time deciding. Maybe this was his sneaky little way of testing to see who would handle the situation gracefully, and who would act like an ass. Clearly you passed the test. Score

    I wouldn't waste 2 seconds worrying about this twat. Obviously she doesn't know how to handle herself.

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    Even if she was the other girl he invited over, she still didn't need to be rude and start interrupting. I've had customers do this, and normally it works fine. Once or twice I've had it go down much as you describe, and usually it happened that way because the other girl rubbed the guy the wrong way once he got to really spend some time with her. It sounds like a case of sour grapes on her part and she just tying to make you feel bad.

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    Maybe if she hadnt interrupted and acted like that he would have taken you BOTH. He may have decided the way he did because of that.

    And yeah right she wouldnt have taken the money...she came over like gangbusters being rude and trying to butt in on you...and then tries to act like SHE'S the one with class? HA!

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    Quote Originally Posted by leogirl876 View Post
    So later on in the night after the VIP is over with I run into her in the DR. She starts going on and on how rude that was of him to have both of us take him on the tour of the club and to only pick one of us. She then mentioned again about what she said to him that if he would've picked her that she would've only gone with him if he would take both of us. She then also said "well, I understand that you need to make your money and everything, I just would've made him take both of us, but that's just me."
    Update: Karma is a bitch.
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    Quote Originally Posted by StrayStripper View Post
    Update: Karma is a bitch.
    Im confused? lol

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    That dancer is an idiot trying to make u feel guilty over what was the customer's choice. Yes it's embarrassing to have this happen but I always cover my disappointment by saying "oh well have fun" to them so that I still look happy and friendly.
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    Im confused? lol
    She's wondering why I'm not inviting her into rooms anymore. Guess she doesn't read SW.

    She pulled the same shit with me and it bit her in the ass twice this week. I don't go out of my way to be mean. It's just that if try to fuck me over, I won't help you out. The cruel thing is that I don't let anyone know I dislike the way they work. I'll let her scratch her head until she figures it out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    Maybe if she hadnt interrupted and acted like that he would have taken you BOTH. He may have decided the way he did because of that.
    This is what I was thinking. If she had made an effort to get along with you as well as him, maybe she could have sold him on the fantasy of seeing the two of you together, since he obviously liked you both.

    It's so weird when girls are rude to each other out on the floor. I know we're in direct competition with each other, but there are ways to handle it without making enemies. In this case, she was so obvious about it it obviously turned the customer off from her as well. I'm glad class won out.

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    Quote Originally Posted by StrayStripper View Post
    She's wondering why I'm not inviting her into rooms anymore. Guess she doesn't read SW.

    She pulled the same shit with me and it bit her in the ass twice this week. I don't go out of my way to be mean. It's just that if try to fuck me over, I won't help you out. The cruel thing is that I don't let anyone know I dislike the way they work. I'll let her scratch her head until she figures it out.
    K, wait...what?

    Who are you not inviting into rooms anymore? The OP? Or the girl the OP was talking about? Or are you the girl the OP was talking about?


    Eeek, this hurts my head!




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    K, wait...what?

    Who are you not inviting into rooms anymore? The OP? Or the girl the OP was talking about? Or are you the girl the OP was talking about?


    Eeek, this hurts my head!

    This is what I'm thinking...







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    I do the two girl approach pretty often when my hustle-buddy is around. Sometimes guys pick me, sometimes they pick her, sometimes we both get a room.

    The bottom line is that the other gal was being a baby. She needs to grow up.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ExoticEngineer View Post
    K, wait...what?

    Who are you not inviting into rooms anymore? The OP? Or the girl the OP was talking about? Or are you the girl the OP was talking about?


    Eeek, this hurts my head!
    She's talking about the girl that I had a problem with too. The girl that's in the posts that said "well, I wouldn't go to VIP unless you took both of us". She said the EXACT same thing to straystripper this week at work and turned around and went to VIP!!! This must be her mojo or something, maybe trying to get people to think she's this nice, sweet little thing when she's really an annoying, back stabbing bitch. When straystripper called me this week to tell me the story, I began to tell my story about her and she was like "OMG, that post was about her? She did the exact same thing to you!!!" Hahaha, karma is a bitch and I knew she'd do it again to someone else!
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