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    Does anyone else ever get harassed when they go to strip clubs alone? Last night I went to visit a club where I used to work to see some friends dance and while I was at the rack, this random guy started talking to me. He had put down one dollar. I said, looking at the girl, "She's so hot! We should tip her more!" and he said in a very creepy way, "I'm more interested in you. Are you bi?"

    UGH. You know those girls that get dressed up and go into the strip club looking to hang out? I wonder if that's what they get, too. Do they like that attention?

    It's not just last night, either. Every time I go to a club alone just to cheer myself up and grab a beer or check it out for work purposes, some drunk insane guy completely harasses me. One time a guy approached me and offered to buy me a drink. Like a dumbass, I accepted, thinking oh whatever, just a free drink. That's when he unbuttoned his pants, pulled out his dick and started stroking it! I was appalled. That's never happened to me at work. This was at Union Jack's! I told the bouncer and had the bouncer walk me to my car. What a fucked up experience.

    Last night there was also another woman customer that wanted to be "friends" with me in the dressing room. She was chatting at me, and then she told me that she has six kids and her husband beats her! I had no idea what to tell her. I was a little drunk, too. I just gave her a huge hug. Looking back, I should have given her the number for a shelter or something. But I was so floored I didn't know what to do. I saw her with her husband on the floor.

    It's just strange. I expect this kind of behavior from customers when I'm working, but it seems like they act even creepier and weirder to me when I'm clothed and just sitting at the rack or at the bar. Maybe Portland's just full of creeps?

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    When I went to my current club one night to get a feel for the place, I had some guy hit on me repeatedly at the tip rail, and a couple across from me had the dancer give me a dollar (though I folded it in with my tip and gave it to the dancer, discreetly, so the couple didn't see).

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    UGH. You know those girls that get dressed up and go into the strip club looking to hang out? I wonder if that's what they get, too. Do they like that attention?
    I didn't realize girls did that.

    I don't think I'd feel comfortable at all going to a club as a customer by myself. I mean, I'd like too, but it would just be too much attention I don't want.
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    Yes I think those girls go specifically for that attention. Esp. the ones who dance around,flash, and generally act like asses.
    And those girls make guys think that every non-dancer(forget the girls who are ACTUALLY working) are seeking thier attention

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    This is why I never go to SCs alone. Exactly the reason. The only time I have gone alone is to fill out applications, and I was skeeved out the whole time.

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    I went once, when I had a few hours free out of town. I was dressed in jeans and a tank top, not all gussied up at all.

    A guy at the bar bought me waters, and about four dances. The bartender, and dancers all assumed I was "working." It kind of made me uncomfortable, and I left.

    Maybe my last solo trip to a SC.

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    OMG, that never occured to me, to go to a club and hustle some guy to buy me dances. I'm so going to do that now.



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    Yeah it was kind of fun. The girls didn't get mad, because they were making money.

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    It is a strip club, what do you expect?
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    ^ To be left the fuck alone and not have some guy whip his penis out. To not get harassed every single time I go into a place like that as a customer.

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    i've never gone alone, other than to apply. However, when i go with my partner or friends, the second i'm by myself for whatever reason there is always some weirdo who tries to talk to me, ask me for a dance, ask me when am i going up there to dance, etc. i find it extremely irritating and usually just ignore them or give them a cold look and say "i don't work here" and continue to ignore them.

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    Thanks for coming by sun child!

    I've gone to strip clubs alone a few times but only during the day (4-7), so the atmosphere is much different. Going with just one girlfriend is fun, but I also have the sorts of girlfriends that get hit on much more often than I do. (Of course I don't have the most welcoming body language when I go out drinking/clubbing, so I get that.)

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    the only time i go alone is if it's during the day to check out if i want to work there or not.

    and i usually get the "are you gonna work here?" "when do you start?!?" and other such comments from guys at the bar.

    if i go at night it's with my boyfriend and it's to have fun.

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    I'm really surprised at that. I go to clubs by myself all the time and usually just get The Stare. Someone always asks me if I'm off-shift, but no one has ever done any creepy shit to me. I usually hit it off w the girls really well, tho and make great memories.

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    i wish i could go to SCs alone. Clubs here won't allow it, or even 2 girls together! Have to be accompanied by a male

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    ^Same here. I think that's pretty much a TX thing.

    Anyway, I think a lot of guys that go in a SC alone are in there to pick up any girl...whether she's a stripper or not. That's just what they do...even at a regular bar, it's another meatmarket to them. A pretty girl by herself at a SC is no different than a pretty girl at a regular bar or club.

    As far as the other woman...I don't know. Could've just been the alcohol talking.



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    Haha, no thank YOU anomar, you sexy bitch! That was so much fun. It was good to see some familiar faces. (=

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    the couple times i've been to a SC alone I get harrassed.

    That's why I hate going alone, even to just check out a club I might want to work at because one incedent I had guys bugging me at my table, then on the way out one of em was being obnoxious too.

    And, a couple weeks ago when I went into Bombshell's to see about auditioning (glad I didn't seeing as how that place has gone downhill very quickly), as I'm walking in some dude outside was trying to get me to have sex with him and his wife or something like that...I couldn't really tell just what he wanted since I think he was drunk.

    All in all, it's not a pleasant experience for me to go into a SC alone. You're gauranteed to get approached by some moron.
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    I go to clubs alone occasionally when I'm travelling. I wear jeans, motorcycle boots or flats, and a reasonably conservative shirt, and minimal makeup. I make an effort to look nice, but like I'm obviously just a customer. Occasionally a guy will send me a drink, but I do not drink anything I didn't watch the bartender make. I buy my own lapdances and do not interact with the male customers in any way (beyond a "thank you" if someone cute sends me a drink). If any of the customers give me attention, I give them a cold glare, and I remain aloof to the men the whole time. I try to project my strongest dyke vibes and it seems to work.

    My problem is when the dancers use me to sell lapdances to the men. I HATE this and I do not visit clubs in Oklahoma anymore because of this. I'm paying the same money and I expect you to dance for me, not to put on a show for all the men who are gawking for free. I get REALLY pissed off when dancers do this.

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    I never go by myself. I take my bf with me when I'm going on a recon mission to scout a club out, and get hit on when he's in the bathroom. Hell, I've had a guy offer to buy me a drink when my bf is sitting right next to me. Pay attention to the fucking strippers!!
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    I have actually been quite a few times alone and i never really had any problems until the last time I did it.
    Not problems, persay, but every guy in the place was focused on me and I got several free beers (i didn't even drink all of them...I was trying to leave!) and a couple of free dances and I didn't even talk to any of them.
    I also have been to strip clubs with my female friend. Once we were sitting there minding our own business and this sleazy looking guy comes over and sits down next to us uninvited. So, my friend very politely told him "I'm sorry but we don't want any company right now, thank you." and he got pissed off and walked away. We had the bouncer escort us to our car, just in case he was pissed enough to try something stupid. (Then the BOUNCER hit on us! *rolls eyes*)
    I think that maybe the men think we are going there to pick up guys or somehow think we are easy because we go in there.

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    i just dont think it's so abnormal for guys to hit on the girls who come into strip clubs. i really dont. im not saying its necessarily ok, but i kinda agree with andygirl saying 'what do you expect?'

    one of my girlfriends who bartends has come to see me at 2 diff clubs. she hangs out at the bar and drinks and usually guys do hit on her. she went into a vip room with me and a customer who was spending a ton of money on me and it worked out great for me because i didnt have to do much in that room.

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    at my old club I would go in to see some friends dance and it is true that guys will come on to you...I always thought of it like they do this because

    a) they feel like they won't be hustled
    b) they are less intimidated by a girl who is fully dressed
    c) they feel like your a "real" person and they might have a chance
    d) they are either drunk, stupid or both

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    My customer generalization feeling says its pretty much D) all the time.
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