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    ok, i moved clubs out of the city. ive never been a 'wanna dance?' girl, but it seems like thats what girls here do. i pointed out to one girl last night that this new girl was just sitting down onthe guys lap and not even talking, just sitting there, and she goes 'well what is she supposed to say?' umm...

    especially on the weekends, a good majority of the customers are mexicans who speak little english, so conversation is pointless anyway. i've always had a very strong hustle and knew how to close a sale. but not here!

    what can i do to start selling more dances when 'wanna dance?' is really how i have to do it? later is the answer theyre practically programmed to give!

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    Default Re: i've had to drastically change my hustle - help!

    Maybe you can do the quick, sit on lap or sit next to and touch arm "How are you tonight, whats your name, blah, blah, I'd love to take you outback (or wherever) to play." It give you a little more than the wanna dance, but only takes a minute.
    If they don't speak english, they don't speak English. I find the mexican guys to be some of the quickest sales because of that.


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    the guys are so well trained to knowing the girls ask for dances, it blows. last night before i could even get to the 'lets go play' part they were saying later.

    me: are you having fun tonight?
    them: later.


    me: hi, what's your name?
    them: no/later/shaking their head.

    i dont even ask for a dance and they want me to go away! i hate weekends because theyre mostly mexicans (that isnt being racist either, they dont spend a lot here!) but thats mainly all i can work with school.

    oh, and i forgot. a lot of guys dont tip, either. they arent required to tip at the stage (bullshit! but i barely ever go up. you dont have to if youre busy). on dances, i get a few guys who give me 40 instead of 30(i get 20) because thats whats in their wallet, but most want their damn change right now. whatever, you need it more than me, but last night a guy gave me 40 and i didnt have change and i was like 'that can be my tip' giggle giggle and he goes 'ten dollars!?" and was glued to my side til i gave him his change and then gave me 2.
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    Quote Originally Posted by britt244 View Post
    the guys are so well trained to knowing the girls ask for dances, it blows. last night before i could even get to the 'lets go play' part they were saying later.

    me: are you having fun tonight?
    them: later.


    me: hi, what's your name?
    them: no/later/shaking their head.

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    Oh...yeah I hate that. I get that even more because I have to sell shots to, so I carry my shot bucket...so I don't even get to say a word before a guy says I'm all set, then I have to say "oh well I'm a dancer too" and it fucks up the whole hustle.

    I don't know what to tell you then. We get lots of Mexican guys, but they're usually good for at least a couple dances. That club doesn't sound that appealing to me, bad tippers too ick I'm sorry.


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    i do like the club though, i just need to adjust my hustle. plus i cant base my earnings off of the last month and a half ive worked there, its still really shitty around here. i like the people i work with a lot and i looove not having to go on stage if youre busy. the only way to be taken off stage at most places ive worked is if youre in a room. here, even if you're called next to stage and you sell a lap dance, they call someone else.

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    this is funny because I am currently making the opposite adjustment and it is hard! When I worked at more of a wanna dance kind of club, I would just go up to people, put my arm around them and my boobs close to their face, introduce myself and ask their name. THen I would make conversation for 30 seconds, "ever been here before?" If they haven't I explain dance prices, etc. if they have, I would ask if they've having fun, and then say they could be having more fun and they must be ready for a dance.
    I personally think it is easier to act sexy for a short period of time rather than for longer like at clubs where you're trying to make a bigger sale like a room.
    Also, (I'm sure you do this already) I always make sure to ask if they'd like another once they get a dance. Usually I say something like, well since we're already back here I'm sure you'd like a few more dances.
    Oh yeah and for spanish speakers I would always ask for a dance in spanish: "quieres un baile?"
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    Default Re: i've had to drastically change my hustle - help!

    brit where are you working now? did you change clubs again? i'm confused

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    I would seriously ignore it if the guy says "later". (The majority of the Mexican guys around here do the same damn thing.) Pretend you don't hear it when they say it, because they're expecting it to work. They're a hard hustle. Stick around and give em a hard time. Pinch some nipples. Shake your boobs. Hustle it hard. When they realize that you're not a push-over, you will sell a few more.

    As for the language barrier, you can flirt without talking. And many of them understand english way better than they speak it. Talk to them as if they understand, because they probably do. Learn stripper spanish. Learn to ask for a dance, learn the dance price in spanish (because a lot of them have pretended to not understand how much it is even though they're not stupid), and learn "uno mas?" which is "one more?" Below is a helpful website for those monolingual spanish-challenged ones like me:

    http://www.worldlingo.com/en/products_services/worldlingo_translator.html

    Lastly, never underestimate this demographic. They can be a pain in the ass, but they have money. And you'll meet that well-spoken business owner that looks like all the rest. And that gentleman. And the guy that just got paid.
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    Quote Originally Posted by betterthaneden View Post
    brit where are you working now? did you change clubs again? i'm confused
    again? huh? i'm at showcase. thats where i went after ggc because they dont serve alcohol. it'll look good in court.

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    Default Re: i've had to drastically change my hustle - help!

    You have to kind of gather your presence and project it at them... I'm not sure how to explain it, but that's what I do.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Starfire View Post
    this is funny because I am currently making the opposite adjustment and it is hard!
    i thought of you because i know you'd like this club when it comes to the hustle, haha!

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    Quote Originally Posted by paintgoddess View Post
    I would seriously ignore it if the guy says "later". (The majority of the Mexican guys around here do the same damn thing.) Pretend you don't hear it when they say it, because they're expecting it to work. They're a hard hustle. Stick around and give em a hard time. Pinch some nipples. Shake your boobs. Hustle it hard. When they realize that you're not a push-over, you will sell a few more.

    As for the language barrier, you can flirt without talking. And many of them understand english way better than they speak it. Talk to them as if they understand, because they probably do. Learn stripper spanish. Learn to ask for a dance, learn the dance price in spanish (because a lot of them have pretended to not understand how much it is even though they're not stupid), and learn "uno mas?" which is "one more?" Below is a helpful website for those monolingual spanish-challenged ones like me:

    http://www.worldlingo.com/en/products_services/worldlingo_translator.html

    Lastly, never underestimate this demographic. They can be a pain in the ass, but they have money. And you'll meet that well-spoken business owner that looks like all the rest. And that gentleman. And the guy that just got paid.
    thanks i do ignore the laters sometimes, i try to pull them along with me or something. my managers tell me to just make them go. and i always go back, but again, my normal hustle for a 'maybe later' doesnt apply when they won't listen/can't understand.

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    Default Re: i've had to drastically change my hustle - help!

    oh, i thought maybe you went to a diff club.
    silly me! :-)

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    Stripper spanish:

    Quieres un baile? Want a dance?
    Veinte dollares. Twenty dollars
    Treinta dollares. Thirty dollars
    Cinquenta. Fifty
    Cien. One hundred.
    Como estas? How are you?
    Me llamo ______. My name is_______
    Me gusta ______. I like________
    tus ojos. Your eyes
    tu camisa. Your shirt
    tu sonrisa. Your smile
    Eres muy guapo. You are very handsome.
    Quieres jugar? Want to play?
    Yo solamente hablo un poco de espanol. I only speak a little spanish

    Just post or pm me for any more that you want. I can also do a little Japanese, but I don't think you get many Japanese customers anywhere other than Hawaii.

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    I knew you were talking about showcase. I made really good money here for about 2 days and then I couldn't get above $100. Plus the black girls were assholes to me. So I say fuck you to that club. But good luck!
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    REALLY? the girls here have been really nice to me (most of them) or at least friendly. there is only one girl who hasnt been very friendly. the black girls seem sweet.. but obviously im looking at that from a diff perspective. that sucks i'm starting to do better the more i hustle and the longer i work. i'm used to $30 a dance from the gold club, so it was easier than 15/20 a dance. i could be lazier there, haha.

    but that's how i feel about the gold club. i know my friends who are there still love it, but you could pay me millions of dollars, i could be guaranteed a $1000 night every time i worked, and i still wouldnt go back. fuck em.

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    Yeah for me the white girls were sweeties abut most of the black girls hated. But I really hope you find your stride and the club works out for you.
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