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    Default Help! Strip club virgin! What do I do?!

    Allright, so here's the dealio: My 19th birthday is a month and the plan was to hit up a strip club before going out to the bars. Aaaand it just so happens that I, of course, have never been to a strip club and have NO idea what to do! Just imagine a complete spaz So I know there are a million variables (country, city, kind of place, and whatnot), but how much money is good to give? Like I would hate to give too little, so if I could get a rough estimate on how much to give for tipping stage dancers, how much for a lap dance, etc it would REALLY be appreciated!

    ...or now that I think of it, I guess a girl would tell me her price for a lap dance, wouldn't she? Oh my God I'm completely useless
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    Default Re: Help! Strip club virgin! What do I do?!

    Well, as you've already alluded to, it depends...and it depends on how much you want to get involved. Not everybody who goes to a SC goes for the same purpose.

    But for a short answer to your question, I don't know of too many places where a gal is going to turn down $2 at the stage.

    Dance prices are usually set by the club. Ask the dancer of your choice what the price is. A lot of girls are just happy to make the sale, but if you really liked the dance throwing on an extra $5/song will be appreciated, or buy another dance if you have the money.
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    As for pricing..ask.
    As for tipping...if you sit at the stage or other tipping area...rule of thumb is at least $1 per girl, per song. EVERY girl....not just the ones you like. Unless they are rude to you...tip every girl if you are sitting up front.

    Have fun!

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    I remember my first time.... "Lie back" she said "I'll be gentle"

    I bled from the wallet for weeks, and was addicted immediately.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Default Re: Help! Strip club virgin! What do I do?!

    it depends on the club (obviously) but lap dances on the floor are generally somewhere between 10-40 bucks each (which is per song), with 20 being the average. the VIP is totally different and varies much more greatly from club to club.

    drinks are more expensive than in a regular bar, so keep that in mind in your budget. yes, even non alcoholic drinks.

    if you see a girl you really like on stage, tip her at least 5 bucks so you'll have a better chance of her coming to see you after her set, at which point you can ask for a dance.

    you can even ask her at the stage, while you're tipping her. just say you'd like her to come see you for a dance (or dances, depending) after her set.

    just do not sit at the stage without tipping EVERY girl, and if you want them to "do something" for the money, it's generally nice to give more than a buck. don't give her a dollar and then expect a "show" and don't tell her to "work for it" either.

    but you prolly would have guessed that.
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    Take to the club as much as you can afford to spend and u will have a great night.
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    Default Re: Help! Strip club virgin! What do I do?!

    keep your hands to yourself unless she puts your hands on her...

    if you dont want a dance from a girl politely let her now right away...

    if a girl sits with you for a while tip her.. if you dont like the girl ask her kindly to leave at the beginning "well.. thanks for checking on me.. have a great night" kind of thing..

    treat the girls good and they will do the same to you.

    you seem nice enough.. Im sure you will have a good time.

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    Default Re: Help! Strip club virgin! What do I do?!

    Quote Originally Posted by SummerRaen View Post
    but how much money is good to give? Obviously I'll give more than this, but what would you say is the minimum amount before it starts to seem insulting? Like I would hate to give too little, so if I could get a rough estimate on how much to give for tipping stage dancers, how much for a song for a lap dance, etc it would REALLY be appreciated!
    Oh, I wouldn't worry about giving. Mostly, you just need to control what's taken.
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    Thank you guys so much! I'm super-pumped to go to my first club, since I've been a fan of the whole industry for as long as I can remember, but I did't want to insult any of the dancers by not knowing what to do! Soo feeling a little more confident now. Wow this all must sound totally bizarre, I've just been reading these forums for a while and kept thinking "Oh my God! I would never want to be like one of those shit customers!"
    At some point, most women (hopefully) realize that "the number" doesn't matter one iota and the notion of "slut" is just socially-generated bullshit meant to keep us "in our place". I will fuck who I please when I please and I don't give a rat's ass what anyone thinks about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback View Post
    Oh, I wouldn't worry about giving. Mostly, you just need to control what's taken.
    Oh wow, someone's jaded. Just kiddin. I can totally relate to this. I feel bad tipping less than 20 dollars a song when I'm a strip club. Whenever I leave, I feel sort of unappreciated. So dumb! If all else fails, to the sweetheart OP, tip two dollars per song if you're at the rack. Get a few dances if you care to.

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    Default Re: Help! Strip club virgin! What do I do?!

    ^^
    I'm the same way!!! I'm going to a club tonight with my bf to do an amateur night, but we're going t hang out for a while. I like to sit at the stage, because I get bored otherwise. And I can never tip just a buck each song. I hardly ever get dances...but I end up losing so much money on stage tips. Oh well...it's fun...and those stage tips just went from one mans hand, to my thong or cleavage...to her thong or cleavage lol. The Circle of Stripper Life.

    But you seem polite and willing to learn so follow everyones advice and you'll have a grand old time.


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    Quote Originally Posted by SummerRaen View Post
    ...Wow this all must sound totally bizarre, I've just been reading these forums for a while and kept thinking "Oh my God! I would never want to be like one of those shit customers!"
    There's another currency that always goes down well with dancers - and that's called politeness.

    As you've seen from these boards, they spend a significant part of their working lives being treated rudely, fending off groping hands and turning down requests for phone numbers.

    Being courteous and polite will actually get you more attention for your $$$'s because most dancers will spend a bit longer with someone who's treating them decently. From their POV, it's far better than having to deal with Mr Groper.

    Enjoy.....

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    Default Re: Help! Strip club virgin! What do I do?!

    -Don't talk shit about the dancers. You don't know who's friends with whom, and yes, we CAN hear you.

    -Wear underwares. Thank you.

    -Don't get up and start dancing at the stage, or giving lap dances to everyone and his brother.

    -Smile and be courteous, and remember not to be shy or scared, we are here to show you a good time!

    Some girls won't dance for other women, while others love it. If you want a dance, ask for one! We can be hesitant to approach women/couples sometimes as it can lead to drama.

    In general, back your complements with tips, if you know what I mean. I'll have girls rave on and want me to sit with them and talk, which is fine, but I am at work, y'know? Or they'll stop to tell me how wonderful I am, and go on with it, but give me nothing at all, not even a dollar. It sounds like you know better than that though!

    Happy birthday and have fun!
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