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    Default Men who flash big wads of cash

    Ladies in your experience are these type of custies big time wasters?

    This has been happening constantly lately in my club. The custy will show you a huge wad of cash - like in the thousands but they dont seem to hand it over.

    A custy did it on friday night and I managed to get $300 out of him but he had flashed around thousands and he spent $2000 at the bar. However he only gave me $50 or $100 at a time.

    Another night a guy came up to my friend and I showed us what would have been about $5k and asked how much for us to just sit with him and his friends for the whole night. Then when we gave him a price, he said "is that all?" - we were having a pretty shit night anyway and we said $1K each. Then he said he would be back in a minute and never came back.
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    Default Re: Men who flash big wads of cash

    $ flashers are fakers.

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    Default Re: Men who flash big wads of cash

    YUP! Not only are they time wasters but Jazaine brought up the best point--they're sadistic! They're not just trying to get you to sit they want to make you show as much desperation as possible before they blow you off or say no.
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    absolutely

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    These guys are lower-middle-class and they know they're nothing special. And that bothers the hell out of them. So they try to make themselves feel like big men by taking one of their mortgage payments or some other sum they can't afford to actually spend, carry it to the club in cash, and try to make strippers sit up and beg for it. It's the only way they can make themselves feel important or powerful.

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    I'll ask guys flashing their money straight away to give it to me.
    " Wow, you obviously are ready to spend that cash or you wouldn't be showing it off. SO lets skip all the bs and just go straight to VIP"

    Yeah, 95% of the time, they are gonna make some lame ass excuse, but it's better than wasting my time tryign to get to the cash, and it's also better than just ignoring them on the off chance they actually are willing to spend it.

    Oh yeah...and look carefully at that wad. I've seen it a million times. Guys will put 1 $100 bill on top, wrapped around a wad of singles, and then just hold that wad in their hands to look all important and shit...then they won't even order a drink.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kaylinn View Post

    Oh yeah...and look carefully at that wad. I've seen it a million times. Guys will put 1 $100 bill on top, wrapped around a wad of singles, and then just hold that wad in their hands to look all important and shit...then they won't even order a drink.

    Thats my favorite 'I'm pretending to be a baller' cheap guy. Or they order soda at a titty bar. Or as soon as you approach for a tip they won't tip you or make some excuse. Those kinds of guys I avoid. They are in the same boat as the guy who brags about his vacation home, boat and other various useless items unless they are mine.
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    My favorite is when they set their "stack" on the drink rack in plain sight, then place a dollar at a time on the stage. I always go over and say "Hey darlin' can I make a suggestion?" They say yes, and I take couple more bucks from their stack and put it on my stage. In a patronizing tone: "There ya go baby, that's more fitting of such a high roller like yourself!" Say it really LOUD for maximum embarrassment.

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    Any time I see someone flashing money like that , speading it out on their table, overding it on the expensive clothes/sunglasses, bragging about this that or the other thing, I pretty much know that he is full of shit. Usually wealthy men try to downplay or hide their wealth in a strip club, not show it off. Those who show it off are only trying to make themselves feel important. In short, they're time-wasting posers.

    I like what Kaylinn does...the "either spend it on me now or see you never" approach.
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    My experience has been similar with cash flashers. I've seen guys with money layed out on the table say no to everyone who passes by, and a guy with hundreds in his fist, sitting back with his arms crossed. I couldn't even get a yes/no response from him for a dance. The one I love is, "Honey, already spent about a grand in here today...." basically a verbal version of the flash.

    The guys that DO display money and get dances are groups of old men golfers. Those often put their budget out on the table. Makes it easy for us ladies to work.
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    I agree with all above, esp Yek. It's their way of making themselves feel powerful.

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    I hate when they do that. Esp at the stage...making sure to hold the only 100 or 20 bill around a bunch of ones...and tip..one....at.....a....time....
    This guy asked me for a hug the other day,he was sittin up by the dj talkin. Just joking (but really i was serious) i said "u gotta pay ME for a hug!" He pulled out his wallet,said "do you want this,this,this,this,this,this (100 bills) or this this this this this (20's) or this this this this this (ones) had about 2,000 in his pocket.then looked at the DJ and said " I make 350,000 a year"He put his wallet away Then he tried to wrap his arm around me for a hug....with no money...not even a dollar! I threw his arm off me so damn quick! on a night like that,it was like waving a steak in a dogs face. But i didnt show desperation..i never do.thats what they want i think.ASSHOLES.

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    It happens so often...Him and a friend are at the table. They have some rings on and are puffing on the cigars. They sit back like god and watch women giving the effort of a finger lift and expect you to parade over SO excited to see that they are real big spenders. That pile of ones, and holding his folded up 20's... whos ur daddy! Please....the rich guys in farmer clothing that are descreet are the ones who will spend 500$ and not give a damn. I hate having to re-earn my money and prove my stripperness.

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    http://www.stripperweb.com/forum/showthread.php?t=96611

    thats the thread about cheap rich men. some of it applies to this, i think.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post
    I agree with the above posters. I was talking to such a guy yesterday. He made two $200 cash withdrawals from the ATM (while talking about his big house, boat, investments, blah blah blah) and proceeded to get only four dances and BITCHED that I made him tip me a lousy $20.
    I would've bitched too. No matter how much money I have, you don't 'make me' tip you. o.O;


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    my favorite thing is when guys at the stage finger through a wad of 20s while you're infront of them, hoping you'll think you're getting one so you'll do a "show" and then they pull out a 1 from behind the wad.

    i <3 that.

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    ^ I once had a guy put a 20 on the rail and when I did my little show he REPLACED IT WITH A DOLLAR. Ever since then, when I saw a note higher than a 5, I'd slide it in with my hand -before- I did my little show. Prick.


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    i dont know guys. Half the time flashers are big spenders and the other half they are wanna be posers.


    I made a ton of cash off a guy in miami that was a money flasher. Sometimes they will spend money, they just have to find what they are looking for. (they are usually the picky type)

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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    YUP! Not only are they time wasters but Jazaine brought up the best point--they're sadistic! They're not just trying to get you to sit they want to make you show as much desperation as possible before they blow you off or say no.
    Exactly..

    I had a dude like that last night. Bragging about how he rarely goes out, but when he does spends $500. I didn't want to sit and wait to hopefully get some money out of him. Sadly all I got was a drink and a $25 dance.







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    Quote Originally Posted by Lysondra View Post
    ^ I once had a guy put a 20 on the rail and when I did my little show he REPLACED IT WITH A DOLLAR. Ever since then, when I saw a note higher than a 5, I'd slide it in with my hand -before- I did my little show. Prick.

    I alwyas do that. Slide big bills in as soon as I see them. Scared some other ass at the stage might steal it or something.

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    You know what you have to do is say "Look, you've got you're 3 for $100 money (or whatever they have out) all ready to go for me" Nab it into your purse and yank them up to do some dances. If they're really bad they'll complain and you can look at them and pout like you misunderstood the meaning of the money out on the table. At least you've tried and didn't give them the chance to say no!

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    Hah. I remember a group of young, arrogant, stuck-up looking Greek guys that came into my old club once. They sat at a table and lay out at least a couple of thousand in $100 bills right on the table infront of them. My boss turned to me and said, "I'll bet you they don't spent a fucking cent." One by one the girls jumped at them, and one by one, they were turned away. They sat there for about an hour with the money spread out infront of them for everyone to see, and after drinking a glass of Coke each, they picked it up and left.

    Fucking losers.

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    If they're very drunk and showing the money in a casual manner when getting you something they might be a very good customer. If they're just flashing the money, not drunk and careless but to show off, they're rarely good for much.

    I wish I had somebody I knew I could point out those fuckers to who would rob them on the back alley as soon as they exit. That'd show 'em how useful flashing money without spending it is.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Optimist View Post
    YUP! Not only are they time wasters but Jazaine brought up the best point--they're sadistic! They're not just trying to get you to sit they want to make you show as much desperation as possible before they blow you off or say no.
    Yes!!
    a few weeks ago my friend and i were having an absolutely miserable night at work for a saturday night. it was like dangling a bone in front of starving dogs and then taking it away. cruel. it's like their only way of getting back at us for the fact that they cant have us.
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    Oh I get up right quick when the show off flashing starts. Then they look all confused..."why are you leaving?"

    I look very VERY sad...and tell them that I've had guys do this before and it ALWAYS means they arent going to spend any money and since it's been a really bad night(whether it has or not) it's just really really mean to do that. If I can come up with a tear...even better.
    It either makes then fell like complete shit...or prompts them to prove me wrong by spending. Either way I win.

    Or I order a bottle of Dom when the bartender comes over. And watch him stutter. "Oh honey...you were just telling me what a high rollar you are..thats what ALL the high rollars drink.....wait...you wrent going to SPEND any of that??? What did you show me your rent money?? Loser..I'll make sure to tell the other girls not to bother coming over" Then I walk away laughing.

    I figure these guys arent going to spend anyway..might as well fuck with them and let them know they arent fooling anyone/

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