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    I'm trying to think of positive things, after coming out of some old relationship woes; I am interested in what is the best single moment that you remember from all of your romantic relationships, and why?

    For me, at least right now, it was after days of fixing up a new place--a lot of carpentry--having a woman I felt lucky to be with come over...watching her smile because she understood my efforts were for her. I realize, as I write this, that the whole thing was a metaphor--I want to build a place of protection for those I love. How about you guys? What are your memories and what do they mean?
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    I'm going to cry...

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    I guess that did sound a little corny, Sun Child--but true! This is what you get for stepping right out of the relationship shadows...you sound like a sap!
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    Right now my favorite part of my relationship is the mornings. He always wakes me up spooning me and kissing my neck and shoulders and back for like 5 minutes, whispering sweet stuff about how awesome I am, how much he loves me and what a great mom and wife I am (almost) . Its usually followed by sex if i'm up to it, then i lay in bed and watch him get ready for work. Then he gets back in bed and loves me for another 10 minutes and tells me how much he will miss me all day. Then he goes to work and I get to go back to sleep or do whatever I want. Life is good. I really could barely stand him my first trimester, I'm so glad that has passed!!



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    Nose kisses. Hands down.

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    This might be a bit strange but I use to enjoy getting up and going to eat breakfast with my ex-husband then coming home and going back to bed. My father also use to wake me up to go have breakfast with him in the morning.

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    When they come up from behind and give you a hug and a kiss on the shoulder/neck/head.
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    4th of July 2 years before we got married was the day I realized he was the one and only man for me. We were in a large crowd of people and it was like there was no one else anywhere near. Just he and I sitting there holding hands.

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    I had a moment where I was walking to meet him and I wasnt sure that he was going to be there. But there he was waiting for me, this perfect sexy man looking so handsome and with his deep beautiful eyes that I could fall into looking back at me. I melted and my knees trembled a little. I fell in love at that moment and floated up to him almost unable to speak (-:

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    Quote Originally Posted by aussiepunkshocker View Post
    I had a moment where I was walking to meet him and I wasnt sure that he was going to be there. But there he was waiting for me, this perfect sexy man looking so handsome and with his deep beautiful eyes that I could fall into looking back at me. I melted and my knees trembled a little. I fell in love at that moment and floated up to him almost unable to speak (-:
    Damn... That's so romantic! *swoon*

    Rozz, I agree... "hands down" is one the best parts as well.
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    A candle lit room, Gato Barbieri playing, a bottle of wine with some bread and cheese and he went to all that trouble just for me. Boy did I fall hard that night, he swept me off my feet.

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    Hmm..the first one that pops in to my head was when I was at work down in KW. My husband (boyfriend at the time) had the day off. I had driven my car to work so he had nothing besides his own feet as transportation. I figured he'd just spend the day catching up on sleep or playing video games with his buddies like he normally did.

    Well, when I finally was able to close up the shop, I started walking my usual route to my car in the parking lot. All of a sudden I got this urge to look up (I always had to stare down so I wouldn't trip over the rocks/uneven path). There was a man walking towards me. I freaked out for a minute thinking he was going to bother me and all I wanted to do was to get home and relax after a rough day at work.

    I looked back at my feet and then looked back at the guy who was walking towards me and it turned out to be my man! I was in total shock and stood there in disbelief. He told me he couldn't stop thinking about me all day and he just had to see me. I was like, "Are you crazy?!! You walked like 5 miles to come and see me??!!"

    He said he could have stayed at home and played video games waiting for me to come home but he couldn't. He just got this urge to see me. Him doing that made me feel so special. I've had friends visit me before but none of them walked miles and they only came to see me because they were pretty bored. So yeah..

    OMG.....another..sorry. Early in our relationship..my man was invited along to a night out with his boys. He asked me if I would be okay with it or not. Of course I told him he could go and have fun with them. He wanted me to come with but I told him it was Boy's Night. He later left and was out drinking with them for hours and hours in to the night. I tried to stay up for him but I couldn't any longer since I had to work the next day. It was already 2am and he hadn't called me. I got worried. I called him and he didn't pick up. I didn't want to be a nag or anything so I stopped and tried to fall asleep. (I ended up crying myself to sleep because that was the first night without him there by my side.) An hour or two later he came rushing in and crawled in to bed with me cuddling me for dear life. I sighed with relief knowing he was okay.

    He told me through his drunken slurs that his friends wanted to go to one more bar before heading home. He told them it was getting late and he should come home to me. His friends made fun of him and my man left them to come home to me. He said he started walking and then remembered he had a few dollars left over so he got a cab. He told the taxi driver his story and the guy gave him a free ride! He rushed home to me.

    I told him I called him and told him all my bad thoughts about how I thought he was making out with some chick and that's why he hadn't picked up. He told me I was crazy and almost started crying (extra emotional when he's drunk) telling me how much he loved me and couldn't be away from me for long. Kinda creepy lol but amazing how he told his friends to f- off to come back to me.

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    With K, I love when we're both lying naked in bed in the morning, just cuddling each other and the cat. This cat LOVES to join us in bed in the morning and we all three just cuddle and nuzzle each other all morning. Sometimes K or I will go cut up some fruit and cheese and bring it back to bed so we can nibble our breakfast while we cuddle. Our bed is right under a double corner window so we just soak in the early morning sunshine and enjoy each other and our comfy bed. Whenever we're apart and I think about him, those are usually the moments I think about.

    With my ex, I remember playing Magic: The Gathering and laughing together all night. We'd have the silliest damn games, and he had this awesome laugh. I miss his laugh.

    My best moment with my high-school sweetheart was when we were having insanely intense kinky sex in his room. We'd been going at it so hot and heavy all afternoon that his room was humid and musky, the mirror over his dresser was fogged (seriously!), and there were neckties still tied to the bedpost. We were playing the TV and the radio at the same time to cover our noise, and we were lying there in the afterglow (having just put our clothes back on) when his mother came in to see how we were doing. That room smelled like musk and she had to have seen the fogged mirror and the neckties, and we could not have been more obvious. He made up some great story about what we'd been doing and she left the room, and we just looked at each other for a minute before we fell apart laughing. I can't BELIEVE that guy is a priest now... Father Whatawaste, indeed.

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    My absolute favorite is with my current guy.

    I've always been unable to sleep with someone, literally sleep, even if they are just in the same room with me, let alone the same bed. I guess it's a trust thing, but I just can't. But with this one, I pass out, in a coma-like state *blush*

    Anyway, we were sleeping, and I suddenly woke up for some stupid reason. And I was just laying there, looking at him, because he's so damned handsome and gorgeous and perfect. I very carefully smoothed back one renegade strand of hair on his forehead, kissed him very softly (I barely touched his skin; I was afraid to wake him), then turned over on my side,w ith my back to him, planning to settle back to sleep.

    I don't know if he was awake, or a subconscious thing, but he snuggled closer, wrapping his arms around me, pressing his chest against my back, and kissed my neck and then was still.

    I just have never felt so safe or so happy, just a perfect moment.


    *ashamed to be such a sap*

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    Favorite moment? Aww, my current man wins this one hands down.

    Real simple story: I freaked out in a huge screechy way about driving/car/map-reading stuff (the sort of stuff I always freak out about: super embarrassing ) and unlike every other guy I've ever dated, my sugarplum BF sort of giggled in a good-natured way, and said, "Hey, relax. You want me to navigate? Should we pull over for a minute? Babe, we're not in a hurry. This isn't a big deal. You don't need to worry so much."

    I was astounded. Guys don't generally have a great deal of patience for how I'm a nervous driver and a terrible navigator and a retard at reading maps... they always wind up yelling Sugarplum BF took it in stride and proved himself to be the outrageously nice guy I suspected he was, even under unfavorable conditions.

    He's a good one. I'm keeping him.

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    You guys are all so mushy! Okay, my bit of mush: We'll be out anywhere, just doing whatever-shopping, walking, etc (or at home, too) and the boy will grab my hand and spin me around and start dancing with me. Usually singing at the same time. Sometimes it's funnier ('cause he's drunk and we're at kareoke), but it always makes me go squishy. He's very much a showoff, but it's awesome that he show offs for me.

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    When I put his hands over my chest so the Latin-Lothario guy who was buggin' me would see, "I belong to Hoosier over here.*"

    *He recalls it fondly too.

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    The best is when you're sleeping and all of sudden you feel those kisses on your cheek and back. And a big ol' arm flops right on top of you. Oh and a morning boner poking at you too. Now that's love.

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    Quote Originally Posted by kandie_kitten View Post
    My absolute favorite is with my current guy.

    I've always been unable to sleep with someone, literally sleep, even if they are just in the same room with me, let alone the same bed. I guess it's a trust thing, but I just can't. But with this one, I pass out, in a coma-like state *blush*

    Anyway, we were sleeping, and I suddenly woke up for some stupid reason. And I was just laying there, looking at him, because he's so damned handsome and gorgeous and perfect. I very carefully smoothed back one renegade strand of hair on his forehead, kissed him very softly (I barely touched his skin; I was afraid to wake him), then turned over on my side,w ith my back to him, planning to settle back to sleep.

    I don't know if he was awake, or a subconscious thing, but he snuggled closer, wrapping his arms around me, pressing his chest against my back, and kissed my neck and then was still.

    I just have never felt so safe or so happy, just a perfect moment.


    *ashamed to be such a sap*
    Great image--like all the other anecdotes in this thread. You ladies realize that your hard-won, tough-as-nails, sex goddess personas are being undermined by these sweet romantic posts? Never mind. They are lovely to read.

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    Well, it was right before we started dating, but my favorite moment with my husband was when we we just friends. Well at least the first part. Story...

    R and I were living together at his house because I wanted to move out of my parents house because my Dad and I were NOT getting along. So R allowed me to stay in his guest bedroom. Now at least twice before we had tried dating/ being together, and I ended up breaking it off after a week to go back to my manipulating boyfriend at the time. Well that day I remember, I had finally broken free of the manipulator, with the help from R.

    The day that was the best moment I remember with him (two or three days actually before we became a couple and stayed a couple), we decided to go to the caves, which were called Colossal Caves and they did cave tours and such. We were sitting out on the patio, and since it's in the mountains there was viewfinders to look out at the range. Well there was also this small pond below us where people threw pennies to make wishes.

    We told each other it would be fun to throw change to make wishes, so we got change. We both wanted to make a wish and wanted it to come true, so we figured if we threw dimes instead it would give the wishes more of a chance of coming true We throw the dimes, and make wishes.

    After we tried to get each other to tell the other what the wishes were. We were being very flirty, and refusing to tell the other.

    I can tell you my wish was to get back together, stay together, and spend the rest of my life with this man. Eventually after we got married I told him this.

    But he wouldn't tell me his, and I was dying to know. I would ask him many times over the weeks that followed, and he would just say " If it comes true, I'll let you know".

    Fast forward to a week after we got married. I had stopped asking for a while about his wish, but decided that I'd ask him again. I wanted to know if his wish had been about me, like mine was about him. So I asked him what it was.

    He said " Let's just say everything I wished for came true". He then smiled and kissed and hugged me. He asked me about mine.

    I said "Same here."

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    anybody remember my marine i posted about? this happened with him..

    at the time, he wasnt in the marines yet, just going to school in alabama so i didnt see him much. he was home for the summer and we had been hanging out a lot, this was the summer we acted like we were dating without actually *being* dating. it wouldnt have worked with the distance. but anyway.. we wanted to hang out but couldnt think of anything to do, so we were just driving around. all of a sudden he said he knew what we could do, and he drove back in the woods where the road dead ends. if you walk through the woods, you get to this creek/river type thing. it was early evening, so it wasnt dark yet. i am *not* an outside person. we were walking through this muddy awful grass, with my flip flops sticking and frogs jumping up on us. i kept squealing and running around because like i said, i'm not an outside kind of girl!

    we got to the water and played around a bit, and when it got dark we went back to the car. we were both covered in mud, more because we were wet so it was sticking to us more. he kissed me before we got in the car, and dropped me off so i could take a shower. i went back over to his house and we watched friday the 13th in his basement and made out. we didnt have sex or anything more than kissing. that seems sweeter to me for some reason.

    when i type this it doesnt even sound like anything special, but its one of those things that you just understand, you know? this is the kind of thing i wouldnt have done with anybody but him (and still wouldnt) and he knew it and at one point said it. it was spontaneous and original and just fun.

    its funny how such little, silly things like spending a day with someone doing something so ordinary can be such a good memory.

    bah. i miss him

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    brunette goddess! I felt a tear on that one!

    seriously!

    I love love love these stories

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    I know, it makes me feel all warm and fuzzy whenever I think of it too.

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    right now the best moments in my 'relationships' is waking up ... ALONE !

    right now my preferred evolution of 'relationships' is ... NEXT !

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    I love you Melonie. So up front.

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