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    Default And you thought I'd disappeared....

    ...last night during Nicolina's hilarious thread. Actually, I was upstairs editing some Arabic and only discovered a 60-post thread that has sprouted up like kudzu overnight!

    Let's set the scene. Here's the cell phone exchange we had about an hour before:

    TOO: Hi, sweetheart, where are you?

    Nic: Headin' for the computer with a bottle of wine and some cigarettes. I'm gonna post on SW!

    TOO: You mean you are going to drunk-post on SW. This is going to be hilarious!

    Nic: Yeah, I'm gonna have some fun with it.

    So the whole thread was in the spirit of crazy fun. That's why she ended it with a smilie! I thought it was a brilliant, goofy, fun post.

    The main point of this thread, aside from providing that context, is to clarify a few things said about me/us in the other thread before it was locked.

    I think it's pretty obvious that I did not ask Nic to post that thread. I was as surprised (and amused) at the content as anybody.

    I was really surprised by ND's comment, "...TOO's supplications to have Nicolina keep us abreast of what's up with them and her gleeful willingness to comply."

    I've never asked Nic to post anything to defend or comment on me, ever -- you really don't think she's going to listen to me, do you? When it comes to personal opinions, she's about as fiercely independent a woman as I've ever known. She does whatever the hell she wants. Why do you think I'm so crazy for her?

    And of course, I've never had a "PM relationship" with ND. I think the reason it was memorable to Nic is that I told her once, "You're not going to believe this, but ND actually responded to me." So that sort of puts ND on the other end of the spectrum. I am still grateful for the few exchanges we did have because they were at a time of vulnerability and it's nice when we can help and encourage each other.

    And yes, of course I get a ton of PMs from dancers -- there were plenty of intelligent observations by others as to why this is the case. Nic was just having some fun with it. But I also send out PMs when I want to discuss something privately, or have been asked to PM somebody, or when I see a dancer heading for trouble (or right in the middle of it). These are cases where I will offer some kind words, encouragement and, sometimes, support.

    Yes, I know, this is all TMI. What you all really wanted to know was details about the Cally threesome that we were going to do last year and now have to reschedule.

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    Quote Originally Posted by The Other Owner View Post

    Yes, I know, this is all TMI. What you all really wanted to know was details about the Cally threesome that we were going to do last year and now have to reschedule.

    NOW we're talkin

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    I totally missed all of this!

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    I must have missed something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    I totally missed all of this!
    Which is probably for the best.

    Um...Yeah.

    I just want to apologize if that thread upset anyone. Honestly, it was meant as a silly little drunken love note, nothing more. It was not intended to be taken seriously. TOO and I met here on the board, and we play here sometimes. I am sorry if some of you find it irritating; if I weren't me I'd probably be annoyed too. But I don't mean any harm.

    I confess that I was caught off guard by the mean-spiritedness of some of Nina's posts, and didn't understand what had inspired such nastiness. I should have ignored them. I didn't. If a mod cares to nuke that thread completely, that's perfectly fine with me.

    I really should clarify what I meant by "PM relationship." I simply meant an exchange of PM's. We all have our PM relationships here; it's part of the fun of SW, and I never meant to seriously imply that I have any sort of problem with anyone's indulgence in the fun.

    I know we only post about caviar & champagne & mind-blowing orgasms, and I understand that many of you find it tedious. But in fact we've been through some rough times over the last year. I don't talk about it here for obvious reasons. I'll just say that my lack of possessiveness has been an issue in the past. Sometimes I just like to let him know that things are different now.

    Once again, I apologize for starting trouble.

    *goes back to nursing wicked hangover*

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