...last night during Nicolina's hilarious thread. Actually, I was upstairs editing some Arabic and only discovered a 60-post thread that has sprouted up like kudzu overnight!
Let's set the scene. Here's the cell phone exchange we had about an hour before:
TOO: Hi, sweetheart, where are you?
Nic: Headin' for the computer with a bottle of wine and some cigarettes. I'm gonna post on SW!
TOO: You mean you are going to drunk-post on SW. This is going to be hilarious!![]()
Nic: Yeah, I'm gonna have some fun with it.
So the whole thread was in the spirit of crazy fun. That's why she ended it with a smilie! I thought it was a brilliant, goofy, fun post.
The main point of this thread, aside from providing that context, is to clarify a few things said about me/us in the other thread before it was locked.
I think it's pretty obvious that I did not ask Nic to post that thread. I was as surprised (and amused) at the content as anybody.
I was really surprised by ND's comment, "...TOO's supplications to have Nicolina keep us abreast of what's up with them and her gleeful willingness to comply."
I've never asked Nic to post anything to defend or comment on me, ever -- you really don't think she's going to listen to me, do you?When it comes to personal opinions, she's about as fiercely independent a woman as I've ever known. She does whatever the hell she wants. Why do you think I'm so crazy for her?
And of course, I've never had a "PM relationship" with ND. I think the reason it was memorable to Nic is that I told her once, "You're not going to believe this, but ND actually responded to me." So that sort of puts ND on the other end of the spectrum. I am still grateful for the few exchanges we did have because they were at a time of vulnerability and it's nice when we can help and encourage each other.
And yes, of course I get a ton of PMs from dancers -- there were plenty of intelligent observations by others as to why this is the case. Nic was just having some fun with it. But I also send out PMs when I want to discuss something privately, or have been asked to PM somebody, or when I see a dancer heading for trouble (or right in the middle of it). These are cases where I will offer some kind words, encouragement and, sometimes, support.
Yes, I know, this is all TMI. What you all really wanted to know was details about the Cally threesome that we were going to do last year and now have to reschedule.![]()



When it comes to personal opinions, she's about as fiercely independent a woman as I've ever known. She does whatever the hell she wants. Why do you think I'm so crazy for her?



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