Something happened tonight that is definitely mild in comparison to some of the things you ladies have experienced, but it didn't set right with me. A little background info, I've spent the last two years working at a NO-contact, dance on the table, no alcohol club, with the exception of a month and half spent at a lap dance/alcohol club where I started drinking too much and decided I wanted to leave before I developed a serious problem, and I also spent about a month traveling to clubs in San Francisco, El Paso, Louisville, Myrtle Beach, and Augusta, all of which were high contact/alcohol clubs.
I recently left my home club for good, too much political bullshit, and I have started working in a club with alcohol and low mileage on the floor and a "no sex acts" policy but whatever else in VIP, and at this point I honestly don't know just how strictly that is enforced. I've been in situations in my two years of dancing where my boundaries were pushed, but tonight I felt they were crossed.
Did a dance for this guy on the floor, another girl had told him about dances in more private areas for 20 instead of 10, he wanted to do a couple of those, so we headed over there, he asks about VIP and decides to do 30 minutes. The whole time we're chatting, he seems really nice, trying to be discreet about heading off to VIP because he's there with people that work for him. Well, we get to the VIP area at like, exactly 30 minutes before close, so the waitress has to run off and make sure we can still go, takes awhile to come back, then has to run and get the keys, etc, so it took like 20 minutes to actually get into the room. So we get into VIP, and I mean, I basically just disperse a little grinding into my normal air dance, and I tell him he can touch my outer thighs, my ass, and my boobs, but he cannot touch anywhere between my legs or my ass cheeks, and he's cool with that, so I'm dancing and while I'm grinding and leaning back against him he says he wants me to grind hard and make him cum. And I'm not really okay with it, but I'm like, he's not asking me to fuck him, so I kind of half-ass grind because I want to keep the money and I don't want to make a big deal out of it, and he keeps holding my hips down on him, and 1) my knees are killing me in this position, and 2) it's my 3rd day at this club and I really don't want the waitress peeking in and thinking I'm fucking this guy, so I stand up and face him and he forcefully pulls my knee against his crotch and has me rub him til he cums. And I was just like "ew".
I love the dancing, I love the socializing, and I usually love the sensuality, the seduction part of it. But this was just not cool to me. Am I whining about nothing? And if I'm this bothered about it when much much worse could have happened, do I need to be doing the job? I really like this club as a whole, and I'm NOT going back to my home club, but I don't know what to think, help me out ladies, and thanks for listening to me vent.



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agreed.

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