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What's a "gtg"?
get together.
Yuppers.... love em.
Watch politely. Don't speak, add commentary, or otherwise distract anyone who is "in scene" as it is considered extremely rude. Most people can tell, though, as most people get silent when in earshot of someone sceneing.
The tone of the gathering will be pretty apparent. It's hard to make too big of a mistake.
If it is a heavily M/s thing, depending on your region most places it is rude to speak directly to the slave without the Master/Mistresses consent. Make eye contact with the partner without a collar first, and you will know how to proceed.
Expect to get hit on, a LOT, if there alone and especially if you let slip you are new. Lots of guys who are too unsafe or too unethical in their practices troll for girls with no experience who won't know what they are getting into.
Have lots of fun! It's a fun, fun event. I got hooked after my first!
Well my husband and I will be going to one in NYC. It was our anniversary and well we have discovered new adventurous play and we enjoy spanking, bondage and other things. Anyway, he's made toys and collars and he's very handy with leather and he also does woodwork so working with his hands is his passion and it has given us a bit of a closer kinda more special thing.
I'm kinda nervous and no clue what to wear and what to expect but I want to go, silly?





<<Is jealous. I'm guessing something of fetish attire.
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you can only survive by clinging onto trees
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Ohhhhhhh nevermind! It's a fetish club! Oh honey say hi here for God sakes stop lurking!
Not at all, everyone starts somewhere.
As far as what to wear - the whole spectrum is there. Anything from very casual to blatant fetish wear. Some places have a dress code but if that is the case, then they would let you know.
Word of warning from a lifestyle slave that has seen TONS of relationships implode: work out your boundaries first.
If a Master wants to see your tits/panties/ or spank you/scene with you/ etc, will your husband be okay with that? Would you, if he says yes? Can he scene with another girl? What level of touching is okay, if asked?
Seems obvious, but isn't sometimes.
We're going to Paddles in NYC tomorrow. Not just a spanking gtg, this is a full-on fetish club. They do do spanking, and whipping, and bondage, and...well you get the idea.
Oh thank you, ladies meet my husband, sheesh took forever to have him post. Funny thing, he's sitting next to me on his computer lol yeah we are pathetic lol
WEll Cherry I'm not sure, I don't think he will be ok with all that, are ya Bri?
They're apparently "friendly" to newcomers, and I gather many people just go to watch, but certainly participation is welcomed. I just missed chatting with the owner (Michael) on yahoo, but he left me a message to the effect that there was no invitation necessary. On Friday, TES () is having a party there, and I thought it would be fun to go.
WEll I just want to watch, it will be our first time. I am the submissive and he's the master in our relationship, why? I am in charge of it all, the house and kids and so on and he's more calm relaxed and his job well he's a software developer so not being in charge is such a great feeling and for him having that control and I dunno power at that moment makes us very excited. I don't think I want to get it from anyone else or have him give it to anyone else just yet at least.
Paddles is AWESOME!!!
I went after last years slave auction. The people are great, and fetish wear is welcomed. The players are pretty experienced, and the scenes are awesome. I did a suspension/clothes cut off with a knife while suspeneded scene with some cropping.
It is a definite yes in that club to respect the scene participants. When I was there there was some talking, but just a quiet murmur when in scene earshot.
Definitely, as your Dom, have your husband be respectful of the other Master's property - don't speak to the slaves/subs without first addressing their Owner/Master. There are a few people who will call you on it, but not all.
Wow thank you so much. He's been reading all kinds of books and doing research, I'm just freaking lazy about reading so I follow his lead lol but I wanted to ask here cause for some reason I can read on here but not a freaking book. Stupid internet lol
No prob. Try the slave register - .
I'm on there alot, and I blog (see my sig) a lot - I'm a lifestyle slave.
TSR is a great place for info.
You ROCK!! :smooches: who would of thought I would ever be in to this but after watching instructional vids and other stuff I love it!! LOVE IT! and it works out great cause of our relationship and how we are. He had to overcome some things cause well he was told never to hit a woman and me "never let a man hit you" but it's no the same as getting the crap beat out of me with anger, it's a pleasure thing and well it took 6 years for us to discover this and I'm so glad.
uhh your blog is fabulous!
I know exactly what you mean. It's really freeing, too, to give up control, and very strengthening to a relationship.
If you ever need anything, feel free to PM/email me. Have fun! I'm off to the shower.
Thank you. Will let you know how it goes.





spanking gtgs sound like shit. where in nyc do you go?
on the other hand, I'd be too nervous to go solo.
Should I wear this?
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I miss Paddles, seriously. It was a lot of fun, and quite laid back. Not 100% strict at all... lots of folks just mingling. They don't, however, mess around there... so folks are safe!
Number of times Rickrolled on stage: 6
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OOO, I want to go.I've never been to a fetish club yet, dammit.
And yes, wear that dress.![]()
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