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    Default Very disturbing..

    If any of you are like me and hiding your job, this is especially disturbing. This video had to of been taken with a cell phone cam or hidden camera and this poor lady is just naked on the internet with no idea..

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?search=...&v=FxKupeS5qvU

    Is there some way to get this video taken down?

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    You can flag it as innappropriate. I`m always afraid of people doing this. I actually had a girl straight up take a picture of me once flash and all when i was dancing for her friend!!! Also I couldn`t help but notice that no one tiped her!!!

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    Probably, but I don't know how.

    Agents and bar owners have literally rebutted my complaints about camera phones with the argument that "the quality isn't good, no one will even know its you, what does it matter?"

    That sucks. I'm sure I'm up there somewhere too.

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    This is why im ALWAYS watching the bar for phones and I will take the phone from the guy when I see it, I don't care if hes texting or if hes talking on it. NO PHONES! This shit pisses me off. I've broken more then one phone in half because of this shit.

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    Yeah, that pisses me off so much. Honestly, I don't know why guys even do this. Excuse me...do you not know that there is plenty of nudity available on the internet for FREE? You don't have to go through all this effort!

    This happened to me once when I first started dancing. I guy at the rack looked like he was texting (i know stupid, but it never occured to me). It wasn't until my set was over and he left that a guy who had been sitting at a table behind him asked me if I had consented to letting that guy film me. I can think of very few moments in my life where I've felt so violated. I was really upset, almost considered quitting.

    Luckily, they're very decent about this at my club and if there's any suspicion, they take the phone and look through it for photos.

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    At least she's nto recognizable. Not that that makes it ok in any way, shape, or form. But I am glad that some anonymity remains intact.

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    Default Re: Very disturbing..

    i left a comment. i get -very- pissed off when i see guys taking pics with their camera.

    one time i was dancing for a customer in a group of guys. i had my back to him, doing "my thing" and i turned around -just- in time to see him take a picture of my ass.

    i flipped out and made him delete it. i don't need that on the internet. yes, i model nude, but that is different. i have control over what pictures i allow to be used. not to mention dancing is a whole nother story... and a story most of my family doesn't know.

    i'd like to keep it that way.

    oh and.. tattoos (such as mine) make it pretty fucking easy to tell who you are.. even if you can't see a face.

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    I left a comment too, hehe

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    Yeah it sucks but there will always be some asshole doing this. Luckily she really can 't be recognized. don['t know which is worse, that some ass did this or that she's not beign tipped.

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    ugh, im afraid of this shit too. jerks!!

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    Well, its gone now. Anyone care to explain exactly what the video was?

    Edit: thank you Cally
    Last edited by LuckyOne; 09-01-2007 at 04:35 AM.

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    It was a video of a girl on stage, naked, pole dancing.

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    i didn't get to see it, but i'm glad it's down.

    which reminds me of an incident at my club 2 months ago. the club i work at is topless, but one of my former regular customers (i dropped him after seeing the pics) came in one day and told me about this nude club he goes to a lot, he had never talked about it before. he then pulled out his phone and showed me pics of the girl on stage naked. i went off on him, and he couldn't understand why i was so upset. he even said "they're just pictures"

    men are insensitive, they just don't realize that we have families and lives outside of the club.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alisha101 View Post
    they just don't realize that we have families and lives outside of the club.
    oh they realize. they just don't give a shit.

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    Thats why I wish my club was stricter on phones. If you have yours out at the tip rail and a floor guy *happens* to see it, he'll say something, but its rare that he does...and they don't say anything about you having your phone out elsewhere...it would be so easy.
    I've been to one club where if they even see you take your phone out for anything the DJ will get on the loudspeaker, and if you don't put it away they get pretty nasty about it...I wish my club was like that.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorlila View Post
    I've been to one club where if they even see you take your phone out for anything the DJ will get on the loudspeaker, and if you don't put it away they get pretty nasty about it...I wish my club was like that.
    ditto. I would fucking love it if the DJs at my clubs would call guys out for that on the mic!

    One of my clubs is good about policing guys with phones--a bouncer or manager will take the phone, delete any pics that might be on it, and throw the guy out.

    My other club...most bouncers just give the guy a "warning" ...which does jack shit, as they just pull the fucking thing out and resume taking pics of us as soon as the bouncer walks away. I've seen a bouncer actually take a phone away from a douchebag only once. I swear next time it happens I will get offstage mid-song and personally take the phone away. I wish we had bouncers that would actually do their jobs.

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    As far as I remember mobiles phones, let alone camera phones arnt allowed to be used at U.K clubs. If a Bouncer see you with your phone out just txting he will be glued to you till you put it back. One raise of a camera phone and your told straight.
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    I announce 6-7 times a night "If you need to make a call, somebody's calling you, whatever--take the cellphone outside--come on back in when you're done. We do not allow cellphones or cameras to be used in [name of club]."

    Guys are still constantly using their phones, texting, etc.--and some of them probably trying to take pictures, too.

    If our bouncers see anyone deliberately taking pictures they get the guy and make him delete everything, or take the camera if it's a camera with film.

    I really don't understand this at all--with all the porn on the internet, the vast majority of it shot with much better equipment, lighting, etc.--and a model who wants to be photographed--why the hell bother with fuzzy pictures taken on the sly?

    But then the whole dressing room thing doesn't do a thing for me, either. It's not the same as when a woman is putting on a show for you because she wants to, not even remotely in the same kind of experience. I guess some guys just get into the whole invasion-of-privacy thing. I think it's weird...
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    This is why I'm opposed to camera phones. Seriously, they are evil and should never have been invented.

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    They are not allowed, but you never know what some idiot in the back may do. I've heard of videos being posted also.

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    My current club is okay enough with all of this... some bouncers are 'on the ball' more than others. What really shocked me was one afternoon (okay early evening to be more technically correct) when a guy was standing at the back of the room with his mobile phone.

    I stood near-by as I don't trust anyone with phones one bit (I've had plenty of bad experiences to make me weary). The idiot had the gall to take a photo of the girl on the stage!!!!!! It was pretty obvious too ...

    Since there were no bouncers in sight (which infuriated me more) I promptly stepped over, took his phone and tried to find a bouncer. Gave the bouncer the phone and told him about how the bastard had taken a photo of the dancer on stage.

    If I hadn't been there to intervene, he would have easily walked out of the club that night with that photo. I don't just look into the audience because I'm trying to make eye contact... I look into the audience because I trust no one. I've learnt I can NOT rely on the bouncers in re mobile phones.

    Even tho' I would have LOVED to have "had my way" with his mobile phone (IOW delete all his multimedia files) I wouldn't have been able to do so without suffering maybe being fired. This club doesn't want us to take care of the situation... we have to find a bouncer or manager.

    *sigh*


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    It seems like people have the attitude: Oh, they're strippers, they don't mind getting naked for anyone in the club, why would they care about a picture?

    We had a female customer sit at the tiprail with a big professional digital camera hanging from her neck just firing at will pic after pic. I was on stage and had to flag over another dancer to get her to send over a bouncer. The gall. The rules are the same if you're a female custie. You don't get away with it because we have matching junk. Go do your school projects elsewhere!!
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    I remember I was sitting with a customer once and I saw a flash by the stage. I thought about getting up, but the DJ had already called the manager. The guy was holding the camera up, getting ready to take another picture when the manager came up behind him and yanked on the camera (the camera was around the guys wrist, so he nearly pulled his arm off). The douches' camera was confiscated, and he and his friends were kicked out. The later found out that there were at least a dozen pics on there.

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    I HATE this!! In many sports clubs, gyms, spas, locker rooms, casinos (obviously casinos for other reasons) etc., NO CELL PHONE USE signs are posted everywhere. However in the clubs, guys have their phones out 24 freakin 7!!

    I'm in a thong, giving some guy a LD, and the guy behind us is sitting there with his phone out pointed straight at my topless lil self! It FREAKS ME OUT. I'm surprised that more CUSTYS don't have a problem with ppl having their phones out. Here in Manhattan, we often get high profile guys in the club...

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    Our management will confiscate cell phones if anyone is taking pictures and/or video on them. I HATE that they can leave with pictures of us naked, but my managers and staff are zero tolerance.

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