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    Default I Need Your Help.

    Hi, I'm new to this site but I thought this is the right place to ask for help.

    How do you stop a guy from marrying a manipulative emotional vampire?

    Its a bit complicated. My best friend, lets call her Eve, is really into this guy. Lets call him Adam.

    Adam just got engaged. He used to flirt with Eve all the time. They had lots of fun and became really good friends. Untill Adam found out that Eve is in love with him. So now Eve cant tell him that this girl is not good for him because he will think that she is only jealous.

    The problem is I've seen this with many of my friends. They find this girl everything seems fine and then one day they start pushing them around. The guys are helpless. And I know if I say anything to them like "Leave your girlfriend." they're not going to listen.

    So I have no Idea how to help my friends out here. Could I stop this wedding? Adam is only 19 years old. I dont want him to make a mistake. And he doesnt seem happy at all.

    I apologize for my bad spelling and gramar. English is not my mother tongue.
    I would really like to hear all the thoughts and opinions that you can give me.
    Thank you.

    -Ben

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    Default Re: I Need Your Help.

    Are any of them strippers?
    If they are maybe we can offer advice, if not look up loveline and ask the question there.

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    Ask God. He knows Adam and Eve much better than us

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    Default Re: I Need Your Help.

    ^ Actually, one could, very easily, make the argument that he doesn't know them at all.
    People are not ruled by their memories.

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    Default Re: I Need Your Help.

    Unfortunately you have to let your friends make their own decisions even if you dont approve of their decisions.

    I think my best friend married the wrong guy but I shut my mouth because friends dont usuallly like being told that the person who they are in love with is the wrong person. Then if it doesn't work out, a good friend will still be there for the friend.
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    Quote Originally Posted by BenS View Post
    How do you stop a guy from marrying a manipulative emotional vampire?
    I believe that the Van Helsing stake is powerless against Cupid's arrow
    Only the vampire herself can end your friend's enthrallment...

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    Girl that puts guy on lock down = teh suck.

    Offer him advice, if he doesnt listen then let him make his mistake.

    Just my 2 cents.

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