I was wondering how you guys deal with this. i have been talking to someone on-line who has a very negative opinion of strippers. Her reason is that she says her step-son had a very bad experience. He is quite mentally challenged apparently, and ended up spending all his inheritance (which was intended for him to live off of for some time) on a dancer. She says the dancer "led him on" to believe they had "something" (who knows what that means exactly, or if it's true at all).
It made me think back to when I first started dancing. There was this one guy who was obviously quite challenged who would come in and buy dances occasionally (not from me). Never to an extreme excess though, usually just 1 or 2 before he would leave. I remember talking to another girl about it, and she said sometimes situations like that made her uncomfortable because some other people would spend a lot of money, and she wondered if they were as capable of managing their money as you would expect another adult man to do. Then again, is it right to refuse to do a dance with someone because of their "condition?" Would that be more hurtful? Anyway, just wanted to know what other's thoughts and experiences are regarding this, since it's never come up for me and I'm not sure what to do if it did.



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...But I never took advantage of the fact that he was "mentally challenged." He was very sweet...and as a matter of fact, I told him to be very careful not to spend too much money on me, and to watch out for the "sharks."
I wouldn't take one in as a regular, either. That's ruthless IMO.

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