I'm a pretty down to earth kind of girl, been working in the industry for a while now and used to do a lot better, but now I've hit a bit of a slump.
On one hand I know it's mostly me because other girls are out there making good money. I get by alright in the end but it's quite tedious.
I've never succeeded or even tried to rip anybody off and only take what's owed to me (aside from tips of course and provided the customer knows what he's doing).
If a customer asks me a question I answer it honestly, aside from the 'do you have a boyfriend' bit from time to time. Sometimes I just say yes and many times guys have found this admirable and still had dances.
Unfortunately the guys who do appreciate my honesty are not the biggest spenders. The big ones seem to want the bullshit stories that I can't seem to bring myself to give them what they're after. I'm a good dancer, a good conversationalist if I do say so...
So where am I going wrong and how do I overcome this fear of talking shit, as it seems to work for everyone else! I quite often get customers coming back asking for me, 'oh she's such a lovely girl' etc.
Also, seem to have a bit of an issue with asking. I guess I'm too proud and find it hard to swallow. Don't ask, don't get - right? True but sometimes I go over things in my head and when I say it out loud I just think, 'oh god, did I just say that out loud?' CRINGE!
What to do girls?
Custie opinion would be good too!



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