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    Okay, I know that everyone gets these types of customers, but in my six days of working I seem to constantly get the type of customer that falls in love with you and wants to follow you around all night and hold hands and cuddle and shit.(Personally I find gropers more tolerable.) This type of customer is so suffocating, and they think that I want to be on their arm the whole night and hang out with them? Once I've gotten a lap dance out of them I'm done with them lol, but no, they want to still sit around with me and cuddle and it makes me sick! Why do I always get the ones that become emotionally attached and how can I ditch them more tactfully lol! It is so awkward. They are dead weight and put a major damper on my hustle, what do ya'll do about those kinds of guys?

    And BTW, I constantly get customers that want to mess around outside of the club. Well, most customers would love to mess around with us for real lol, but I constantly get the ones that really try and negotiate. 9.5 out of 10 I would say. I know how to shoot them down and everything, but what makes these not-so-appealing guys think that they have a chance? Omg I sound like such a snooty bitch right now.

    Some old guy I was giving a lap dance to tonight was very into me, and I did my job and all, but then he was like; "Do you work tomorrow night?" I told him the truth; no. So he was like: "What are you doing tomorrow night?" and I told him I was staying home. He asked if I had to stay home, and I told him: "I want to." So he laughed but then asked if I'd like to show him around the town! (He's from Minneapolis) WTF? Does he honestly think that I am interested in him enough to do this? Or interested in him period? Where do they get this completely blind confidence from lol! I told him the truth, I don't know the city at all and then he just wants to 'hang out.' I told him I never hang with customers. He still tipped though!

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    Default Re: How to Deal with Saps Ruining My Hustle?

    You've only been working 6 days? Well I'll be honest, I get alot of guys who "fall in love" with me. Those are the ones who turn into regulars.

    After dancing for a customer, you need to ask if he wants to do more dances or not. Whether he wants more dances within the next 10-20min doesn't matter. Just excuse yourself to freshen up, hustle a new guy, and then repeat. After dancing for guy #2 ask the same question to him. Then go back to guy #1.

    Don't let these guys drain you. I am very polite and I try very hard to not offend. But work is work, and I have to work.







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    What gives them blind confidence? ALCOHOL. Get used to it. customers always try to ask us out. There's a good thread on the stripping board regarding how to respond to this.

    As for the guys who want to hang onto you all night, tell them you need to be paid to hang out and chat. That'll either get rid of them, or you'll at least be as well compensated as you require for your time.

    You can either be more subtle about this if you want. You can sigh and say "well, I'd love to hang out and chat, but I better get back to work! Gotta make that rent money you know!" with a cute smile. This gives them a chance to offer to compensate you for sitting with them, if they still wish.

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    Par for the course honey. You'll get used to it and become a hardened old hag like the rest of us, lol!! Just kidding of course.

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    I do the whole 'gotta go make money' thing, sometimes they'll at least tip but usually not lol. They'll let me go (not like they have choice lol), but as soon as they see me alone at any point during the night, they come right back over and attach themselves to my hip. What the hell? Drunk ones or the sober ones, what makes them think I really want their company lol. Why do they think that getting a lap dance makes us so much more closer. Don't they figure that I lap-dance plenty of guys and that they're not special?

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    Quote Originally Posted by cinammonkisses View Post
    You've only been working 6 days?
    Yup, I'm a newbie. Although, 6 days in a row I might add lol! I'm so happy to have Wednesday off! I was supposed to have Thursday off too, but I'm covering for someone now. Thank God I have fun at work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    I know how to shoot them down and everything, but what makes these not-so-appealing guys think that they have a chance? ... Where do they get this completely blind confidence from lol!
    You're doing your job well, that's what makes them think they have a chance.

    You being as nice as you are, they just want to hold onto that feeling a little bit longer. So they indulge in some girl friend fantasy that you actually do like them, and maybe they are special from all the others that you dance for.

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    A lot of guys figure that since you're a stripper, you must go out with everyone and be easy, so why wouldn't you go out with them? Also since you are new they figure you don't know anything and will be interested in dating and hanging out for free instead of getting paid. Since you realize it's about getting paid you're already ahead of a lot of new girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Danielle_4370 View Post
    You're doing your job well, that's what makes them think they have a chance.

    You being as nice as you are
    What befuddles me the most is that people usually tell me I look pretty moody or upset a lot, my natural expression is honestly really solemn and sullen. It's not like I'm very inviting and bubbly looking, people tell me I look cold and aloof when I'm in a good mood! But the customers are just that blinded lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by anabella View Post
    Since you realize it's about getting paid you're already ahead of a lot of new girls.
    All thanks to this site and being lucky enough to have discovered it before I actually began stripping.

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    The only way I can think that you can't dump the guy or get paid is that maybe you're allowing yourself to be flattered. I did it with one guy -- I kind of liked him but wouldn't admit it to myself until I lost hundreds of dollars wasting time with him. When it hits you in the wallet, you realize you're not there to flirt, you're there to work. It was a hard lesson for me. I think that the advice about getting those guys to pay for your time is excellent. If they value you, really now, they'll pay for more dances and then ask you out. I know that if I wanted to go out with a girl and I respected her, I wouldn't be cheap with her. I'd lavish her. That's what I finally decided -- that the guy was using me for attention and a little groping and touch. WTF?

    And what about custies ripping you off? That was the hardest lesson for me so far. You know, when they know you're new and waste your time getting dances and then don't pay you in full. A nice girl has a hell of a time arguing about money with someone who she was just humping. It's hard to keep your head striaght in this business. Mostly it's great, and the money is wonderful, but when you lose, you lose big, too.

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    Trust me, I didn't care for a single one of them lol! And I know not to take anything personally, good or bad. Our customers have to pay up front beforehand so they can't try to not pay in full after the deed, whether they decide to tip or not is a different story.... although I would say that a decent percentage do tip. Especially when they're wasted.

    I just don't understand why I always get these customers, throughout my life I've always been told that I come off as very stand-off-ish and distant, so why the heck am I attracting all of the love-sick puppies?? Because apparently I do not radiate warmth and sweetness lol.

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