i am a decent looking girl with a ton of confidence, i'm educated, i'm outgoing, i am interesting to talk to..... and then i go to work. I can hardly look people in the eye and i DO NOT APPROACH men. i wait for them to walk up to me, which obviously means that I don't take the money home that i want to be taking home. I get tipped a lot on stage, and then instead of walking up to the guy, i go hide in the dressing room or sit at the bar hoping to get the courage to walk up to one of the tippers.... I hardly ever can. I have been dancing off and on for nearly five years but recently I have decided that if I can't figure out a way to do better at work, I need to just give it up. Is there anything you can suggest to this supershy dancer?



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), for awhile, until I just started "faking it"


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