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    Last night, this haggered old stripper who just started at my club came into our dressing room while I was getting dressed and asked me if I would leave so she could EAT HER FRIEND'S PUSSY. I Seriously thought she must be joking...until she hiked up her friends skirt and started muff diving right in front of me (while she herself was sitting on the toilet peeing). I'd also like to add that our dressing room is the size of a small bathroom. So this made for wuite an intimate experience among the three of us and I high tailed it out of there.

    I went out and whispered in my friend's ear what was going on and she looked horrified, and told me I should tell the owner/manager. I said I was nervous to look like I was tattling, because she was a friend of his. unbeknownst to me, she ran off to tell him, he went back there, and caught them.

    After I get off stage I go back to the dressing room to freshen up. Drunk hagard stripper (hereafter known as "D&H") stumbles back and starts pulling passive aggressive bullshit snearing and shouting angrily while I'm on the phone with a reg "Have a good night!? HUH?!!" Then when i get off the phone asks "What are you? 19 or 20 or some bullshit?!" I respond that they don't hire minors here, and tell her my age (24). She demands to know how long I've been dancing and then responds "Oh, that explains some things!" I asked if she's like to say something to me. She snorts. I ask if she'd like to try to get off to a better start. She says "with you? NO." I calmly suggest she lay off the passive agressiveness and step over her to leave (she's drunk and wobbling right in the entrance and has her money spread out all over the floor) She screams "Excuse me, bitch!! I don't have time for this shit! I'm 37!!"

    I told the owner about it at the end of the night. Turned out my friend had overheard it and told him. He told her not to mess with me and to stop pulling that shit in his club.

    Anyway, this was my first horrible dancer interaction (I know, I've been lucky). I'ts a really small intimate club and I worry about working with her in the future for an hour or so during shift change, or god forbid, they give her a night shift while it's slow. Ugh. Anyway, how would you have handled it? And how do I handle it if I have to work with her?

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    Eating her friends pussy and peeing at the same time? That is so nasty.

    I don't have any advice, just sympathy. I hope she moves on soon.
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    Well, you definitely handled that situation with a lot more class then I would have. You ought to be proud of yourself.

    Just ignore her if you have to work with her again. Or even better, wait until she does something else freaky and come tell us about it. We love horror stories!
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    You handled it better than I would have! Dancers like her don't usually last long in one club, hopefully she'll be gone soon.

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    Gawd, that's disgusting.

    My club has inexplicably hired this older dancer who looks like she's had a very hard life. She's working dayshift. I get there at 6 and dayshift stops at 7, so there's an overlap.

    Anyway, this was her first day and she asks another dancer if she wants to "do" a Percocet with her. I'm thinking, how do you "do" a Percocet? Well, as I soon found out, her idea of a great buzz was to snort them. I found that hilarious. I'm a pillhead from way back (I know that makes me sound like one of these old dancers, lol) and everyone knows you don't snort pills of that size unless you want some serious sinus blockage. Later that night she asked me if I wanted to "do" one. I declined.
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    ^^ I hope not. However, I'm a little worried they'll be lenient on her since she is an old friend of the owner's wife (used to be dancers together).

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    Omg thats so gross!
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    I think you handled yourself well- you stood up for yourself and made it clear that you will not be walked upon- but kept your cool and didn't instigate any more shit.

    It's not like you even said anything to the manager yourself. Try not to let the bitch rent any more space in your head. It's beyond your control when and if she works at your club.

    I just started at a new club myself that has a tight knit group of girls and several of them seem standoffish if not downright hostile towards me, and I just go about my business and don't say anything. There are a couple who I think could be cool, but I think it just takes time to be recognized as not just the new girl. It's kind of like throwing cats together some of them will come to accept each other, and others will always carry an air of contempt for the "intruder".
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    Quote Originally Posted by Andygirl View Post
    and everyone knows you don't snort pills of that size unless you want some serious sinus blockage.
    thats odd. everyone in florida snorts their pain pills. i dont do(and yes they use the term do lol) opiates so i dont know about the sinus thing.

    sorry for the thread jack. you did handle yourself well. the only other advice i would give is to mind your own business next time and dont tell on people.

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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    thats odd. everyone in florida snorts their pain pills. i dont do(and yes they use the term do lol) opiates so i dont know about the sinus thing.

    sorry for the thread jack. you did handle yourself well. the only other advice i would give is to mind your own business next time and dont tell on people.
    She didn't tattle on them. Her friend did.

    You handled that well.
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    First of all, that's disgusting that they were doing that at work. I don't care what people do at home, but at work? Eww! I feel sorry for you that you had to deal with that at work. From what you said, I think you handled it maturely.
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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    thats odd. everyone in florida snorts their pain pills. i dont do(and yes they use the term do lol) opiates so i dont know about the sinus thing.

    sorry for the thread jack. you did handle yourself well. the only other advice i would give is to mind your own business next time and dont tell on people.
    With something like a percocet, it's made in different sizes. Some sizes are pretty much pure percocet. Some of them have up to 500 mg of acetometaphin (sp) in them. So, some of them can be snorted with much, much less damage than other ones.

    fifi, could you pm me and let me know what club that is? I'm intrigued now!

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    Quote Originally Posted by anomar View Post
    With something like a percocet, it's made in different sizes. Some sizes are pretty much pure percocet. Some of them have up to 500 mg of acetometaphin (sp) in them. So, some of them can be snorted with much, much less damage than other ones.

    fifi, could you pm me and let me know what club that is? I'm intrigued now!
    ok cool. thanks for clarifying

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    A situation like this has happened at my club. Honestly, i would have just finished getting ready and left the room with out saying anything about it to anybody. i find it less stressful to avoid drama and mind my own business.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkkitten View Post
    A situation like this has happened at my club. Honestly, i would have just finished getting ready and left the room with out saying anything about it to anybody. i find it less stressful to avoid drama and mind my own business.
    thanks..... that is what i was trying to say

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    She sounds like one of those busted old morons who blew her fortune back in the day on crack, booze, and abusive relationships... and now has hell to pay for it since she didn't age well, never invested her $ wisely, and didn't have a backup plan. Obviously she left her maturity level back in the 80s, along with her looks! Chicks like her are just jealous of the gals who 'have it' and have better attitudes, and consequently have a much higher earning potential.

    Don't even bother trying to be cool with her, she doesn't need her ego stroked. Just do your best to ignore her, keep being your badass self, and keep making that $$$. Success is the best revenge!

    If she goes out of her way to fuck with you though, definately tell a manager. Unless she's giving 100 blow jobs a night, chances are you make more $ for the club that her. Money talks. They'll take your side.

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    Quote Originally Posted by velvet View Post
    thats odd. everyone in florida snorts their pain pills. i dont do(and yes they use the term do lol) opiates so i dont know about the sinus thing.
    People snort oxycontin, morphine, stuff like that, but Percocet pills are made up of about 88% (non-scientific speculation, lol) tylenol, which would be pretty bulky to snort. That doesn't mean people don't do it though. I was just surprised to see her doing it right there in the dressing room in front of everyone. People don't typically do their drugs right out in the open like that. I don't see her lasting long, lol.
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    Just ignore her. Why do you care if she licks her friends pussy, even if it is while peeing? It's not like she's trying to drag your pussy over to the toilet.

    If you just ignore stuff like that you'll have a lot less drama.



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    Blech. I think you handled it well. Just avoid the bitch and I'm sure she'll be gone soon anyway.
    With all the stupid things guys will say, stay cool.

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    Hmmm...Maybe I should have just ignored it. But damn, it sure is annoying to get kicked out of the tiny dressing room when you're trying to get ready at the beginning of the shift. In fact, it's pretty rude to insist other girls give you "privacy" in the dressing room for anything non-essential.

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    But now that you guys have mentioned it, I think you're right- she probably won't be around much, or for long. I think the owner was just throwing her a bone since she's an old friend of his wife. It's clear she's not going to be a big money maker. And he seemed pretty pissed at her.

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    Am I the only one who at certain clubs sees colleagues eat eachother out on stage almost nightly? For apparently nothing but the fun of it? They have boyfriends too usually. It's just like a 'thing to do'. I guess I'm not as disgusted or shocked by it anymore. I figure it's their business.

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    ^ I'm not surprised and I have a similar story. When I used to work at Cabaret in downtown Portland, we used to do "two-girl shows" that consist of just two girls dancing around seductively on stage. We did the fake eating out thing, where you just use your hair to cover up the fact that nothing is going on, but not once but TWICE the other girl I was with actually licked me. Not like full on eating out, but just a tiny, slight lick. It was annoying. (One of the girls was on ecstasy.) As a customer said, they were wilin out. Anyway, there's no point to this. It's amazing how little money it takes to get girls to do some things. Grr...

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    We have the fake licking going on sometimes as well, with one girl on her back and her legs up and the other girl's hair covering things there's just no way to tell whether something's actually going on or not.

    I'm probably the only one here who would've personally told the management straight away. I'm done with the catfights and druggie/alcie bullshit, I want to keep the club clean so I do tattle on anyone I see acting inappropriately.
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