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    I know from my conversations with UK dancers that, once they've been in the business a year or two, they tend to get proposals of marriage from custies that have only ever met them ITC. Something on the lines of:

    "Marry me and I'll take you away from all this".

    So, do you get proposals of marriage in the US as well?

    Phil.

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    Indeed, I have. A few times at this point.

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    Oh, yeah, all the time. Some men..... o_0

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    Yes, but strangely enough, not in the SC. I've had guys tell me if I was their girl I wouldn't 'have' to strip But no out and out marriage proposals. I DID however, get proposed to numerous times working at 7-11. Go figure.
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    I have but only one time. And it was more of an I want to marry you, than a will you marry me.

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    I had an Arab dude I had never met come into the club and strike up a conversation with me. He started talking about how he wanted to marry me (remember, I had never met this guy before) and take me back to Saudi Arabia. He put this gorgeous diamond/pearl ring on my finger and said I would have my own house, a car with a driver, and everything I wanted. He already had two Saudi wives but as the fair-skinned blonde one, I would be his favorite wife and the other wives would have to answer to me.

    I indulged the conversation for a bit, smiling, and gave the ring back. Told him I appreciated the offer, but I didn't want to move to Saudi Arabia. He asked why, and I said, "Because I'm Jewish." His eyes almost fell out of his head and he had nothing more to say to me after that.

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    Yeah I've had quite a few. Even one guy who told me the whole plan for our life, what our wedding would be, what our kids would be named....I got rid of him right quick. Even a few who told mom all about me(wonder if the strip club part was left out!) and wanted to arrange a dinner so I could meet mom and dad.....

    I'd say at least a few a year...serious proposals. That doesnt count the guys with White Knight syndrome that just say they want to take me away from all this...

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    Nope, never had any. Obviously I was doing it wrong.

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    A sweet, older, cowboy gentleman proposed to me last night.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Mily View Post
    A sweet, older, cowboy gentleman proposed to me last night.

    I always thought the older guys were gross and perverted

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    Quote Originally Posted by Mily View Post
    A sweet, older, cowboy gentleman proposed to me last night.
    Lol, If you dance in Providence RI I know who the guy is....

    Quote Originally Posted by FBR View Post
    I always thought the older guys were gross and perverted

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    Nope, never had any. Obviously I was doing it wrong.
    Kat, I never met you while you were in full-blown stripper mode so I hope you won't take this the wrong way as I am just guessing based on NATO's and such. You never struck me as the "Marry me and bear my children" kind of gal....More like the "Wow, you must be a handful" type....

    Trust me, this is a good thing!
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    Yeah, I get guys that propose to me at work. There was a guy that actually CRIED and wanted to know why when I said no. I actually felt sorry for that guy, because he was actually upset over it.

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    Most of those marriage proposals are pure BS. This is in the same catagory as the drunk who tells the dancer he loves her.

    Most of the time it's just harmless teasing by the customer.

    Most of what the dancers says is BS and most of what the customers says is BS. Nothing wrong with that, that's just the way it is.

    I'm sure someone will come up with one example where someone said "I love you" or "will you marry me" and they really meant it, so I'll give you this much.

    1 out of 40,000 marriage proposals in a SC are real. That's .000025%
    1 out of 30,000 "I love you"s in a SC are real. That's .0000333%

    If the dancer were to call the drunk's bluff and ask for an expensive engagement ring, the customer would back down from his head games and would suddenly get a case of "cold feet."

    It's funny how the dancers complain about how hard it is to find guys who are willing to date them because of their line of work, but the SCs are just chock-full of guys who say they love them and want to marry them.

    Most everything that goes on in a SC is one big mind-fuck.

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    ^Somebody took this thread a little too seriously.



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    Quote Originally Posted by James Bond View Post

    1 out of 40,000 marriage proposals in a SC are real. That's .000025%
    1 out of 30,000 "I love you"s in a SC are real. That's .0000333%
    Thank you for the statistic. Where did you conduct this groundbreaking study on strip club marriage proposals?

    Really, I want to know!

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    Default Re: For the ladies - proposals of marriage...

    i've had aprox 20 of these, but i think only 1 was serious.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gingerlee View Post
    Thank you for the statistic. Where did you conduct this groundbreaking study on strip club marriage proposals?

    Really, I want to know!
    Gingerlee, that was just an edjumacated guess. That's for every 40,000 times that "will you marry me" is said in all SCs across America, not just one dancer or one SC.

    I just wanted to show the absurdity of some of what the customers says. Some people on SW actually believe that when a guy says he loves or wants to marry the dancer, that he really means it, because why would he say it if it wasn't true.

    They believe that what the dancer says is SS or BS, but somehow the SCs are spiking the beers with truth-serum, and the customers are being honest-to-god truthful. It's just head-games, but some people think they're real.

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    Not a proposal but ive had guys say "I'd marry you".
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    Quote Originally Posted by James Bond View Post
    They believe that what the dancer says is SS or BS, but somehow the SCs are spiking the beers with truth-serum, and the customers are being honest-to-god truthful. It's just head-games, but some people think they're real.
    Some custies get WAY too attatched and DO think the relationship is real. I have had several who truly thought I was their girlfriend even though they never saw me OTC and had to pay for my time. See the guy who has spent YEARS searching in Brazil(can someone cite the thread?) for his "true love". Most are BS-ing or just caught up in the moment...but a few are serious. I"ve gotten diamond rings from custies...I woudnt accept an actual engagement ring...but they have been offered sincerely.

    And it isnt JUST finding someone willing to date a stripper that stops many girls from dating...its finding someone willing to date a stripper that she WANTS to date...thats the catch!

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    Ha, yes a few. One guy even came in with an engagement ring and $1,000 for the champagne if I said yes. he was ready to wisk me away to some god awful mining town in the middle of nowhere, arrrgh, help! Lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by aussiepunkshocker View Post
    Ha, yes a few. One guy even came in with an engagement ring and $1,000 for the champagne if I said yes. he was ready to wisk me away to some god awful mining town in the middle of nowhere, arrrgh, help! Lol.

    And what's wrong with mining?!
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    Quote Originally Posted by Silverback View Post
    And what's wrong with mining?!
    Nothing crankypants

    Just outback mining towns that are days away from anything mildly exciting...

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    Ugh, whats with those butterflies Silverback? >shudder<!!! O-:

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    Yes. But they were not limited to when I was dancing. LOL.

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