I think I've lost my hustle. I'm still making money but it's been SO MUCH HARDER and taking so much longer to do it.
I know it's summer and it's slow but the club is packed. Now, I've justified this by saying to myself that there's no quality customers, just partier's coming in for a looksie.
I've had to suck it up and do more lap dances than ever to make money, but the customers I've encountered have been SO DAMN RUDE and grabby. It's like they're out to deliberately sabotage me, pulling over to their table chatting with me, all the while saying they want a dance, asking questions about the VIP and then NO GO. After I've wasted my time. It's making me ruthless!
Example 1
One guy pulls me over to his table and wants a dance, but needed to go the bathroom first and wanted me to wait. I made him give me $60 as a "deposit". He comes back, says, "never mind, I don't have a half hour to spare anymore", I give him a dirty look so he hands me $20. Whatever I go on my way, but I notice he then pulls another dancer to his table and they hang out. WTF!
Did I handle this situation right? Did he just all of sudden decide he didn't like me? Was I too pushy about the deposit thing? I mean the club was packed so I needed to make money or move on.
Did I do something to lose the sale or was he just playing some kind of retarded game?
Example 2
Talk to these very nice guys for about 10 to 15 minutes, they are very interested in the VIP, so we get up to go and I ask which room he wanted to go to. He wants to know which is the best..."of course the Champagne Room blah, blah", as we enter it he all of sudden wants to know, EXACTLY what goes on in there, I reply with the typical, you get me all to yourself uninterrupted, it's quieter and a more intimate dance...he's like "what I don't get laid? $450 is a lot of money!" I was like," No we don't do that here..." He said," then never mind". I was so infuriated, I laughed loudly in his face and yelled, "What you thought you got laid in a Strip club what kind of pathetic hard up loser are you?"
What's happening to me? What am I doing wrong? It's making me so mad! I think I need another club doesn't attract these kind of young, partiers that think they are so cool. It's messing with my head.
Normally I can just brush these situations off, and move onto the next customer, but it's practically eveyone I approach! In order to make any money I have to tolerate so much BS.
Here's the problem, I've become to so used to my hustle there, I'm scared I won't know how to make it at a more upscale club that requires more of a "talking hustle".
How do you know you're not wasting your time sitting with a guy and hoping he will spend? I've gotten so used to the quick, one song convo that ends with "wanna dance", I've lost my skills, seriously.
I need a change off pace, bad, but I don't know where to go.
I want to try more rural areas closer to home and not return to LV until November, but my confidence is so battered I'm worried I won't know how to hustle different clientele. I think every customer is out to waste my time while trying to grope me and screw me over. LV has turned me into a ruthless little bitch!
Has my club ruined my game?



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He explicitly expected to get laid for $450 and wasn't going to settle for less without yelling, screaming 'n demanding a refund.

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