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    Default I retired but a custy got my #! Help.

    I finished college and stopped stripping.

    I worked at one club from Sep 2006 till July 2007.

    I just did it to get myself through college without missing my little guy so much.

    My sons father was over and my phone rang a number I didnt reconize. I picked it up and it was a custy. Asking for me by stage name. I was so shocked I was like "what, what are you takling about"

    I hung up and I was so shocked. The ONLY people who had my number was a girl I went to highschool with who worked there and one other girl. Besides that the manager had my number in file.

    My sons father called the dude and told him not to call me and that I'm not a stripper.

    I'm so scared. I'm done stripping. I'm done with the club. Should I change my number? Should I go to the club and try and get answers?

    Or do I just leave this alone.

    I was *considering* going back to make extra money for xmas but I have a career now (I graduated college) and I cant deal with this kind of shit. My sons father looked at me sternly and told me I couldnt go back.

    Ugh. Please tell em this is OK. If not tell me what to do! I'm scared of getting stalked or something.

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    Default Re: I retired but a custy got my #! Help.

    I'm sure that your boyfriend scared him and that he won't bother you again. If you see his number come up in your phone, don't answer it. He'll get the hint. Unless he calls you again, I wouldn't worry. Though it is fucked up that someone would give out your number without your permission.

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    Default Re: I retired but a custy got my #! Help.

    It's nothing to be afraid of. I have customers who call me too. Granted I gave them the number, but it's all in the course of business. There's is usually no reason to fear most of these guys. It's really no big deal. No one at the club will know what you are talking about. Guys stop calling when they get nowhere with you.

    As LA Chloe said above, the guy will get the hint. Don't let this stop you from dancing part time if you choose. The guy may have asked your friend about you and she gave him the number for some reason.

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    Default Re: I retired but a custy got my #! Help.

    Save his number in your phone as DNA (for do not answer) and don't answer if he calls again.



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    Default Re: I retired but a custy got my #! Help.

    ^ I do that too !

    Collegegirl, don't let the custy's call trip you out. Go back to work and make your cash. I remember after I graduated from college I felt like a failure going back to dancing. But, honestly I'm glad that I did. I have more time and money to do what I when I want to. Just keep your number to yourself, I've had a many a co-worker give my number out. Hell some custies even buy numbers from other dancers, bouncers, etc., it's happened to me and many other dancers.. Good luck.
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    Default Re: I retired but a custy got my #! Help.

    Instead of refusing to answer if he calls again (which will only make him think you are afraid and give him a creepy satisfaction), pick up and tell him very firmly that you are calling the police and giving them his # and full name (which you can get from your former club if he ever used a credit card or was a well known regular), as well as filing a complaint for harassment just as soon as you hang up with him. Unless he is serious about stalking you, that should do the trick.

    Doing nothing is just that: NOTHING.

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    Default Re: I retired but a custy got my #! Help.

    What exactly did he say/want? Was he a regular?
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    Default Re: I retired but a custy got my #! Help.

    happens to me when I lend a custy my phone and they use it to call their house to get my number (a holes), usually the bf takes care of that.. He told a guy that it was downright dirty to do that to a girl, guy never called back. I would stress it. phone stalkers are irritating, but they usually just stick with the phone.
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