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    well, they were more like aquaintances. i got so embarrassed! am i the only one who reacts this way? i hid in the dressing room. and i'm pmsing, so that doesnt help. i felt bloated last night from attacking reeses. they tried to come tip me at stage and i even told them 'hey look, i'm not cool with you watching me dance so if you want to keep the cash, go ahead' one of them approached me and started naming people i knew (i didnt know him, but he was with people i knew). he begged me for some dances, which i declined. i just couldnt do it. i got awkward, and even told him he must be thinking of another girl.

    i keep work and my personal life seperate. some people i dont even tell them i dance. i do this job sober and always have. i dont hate what i do, i just get REALLY awkward if people i know in my personal life see my work life. it's like i have a split personality or something.

    i get these fears. it's based mostly on past experiences of not being treated very nice when this job comes into discussion. so to protect myself, i keep the two seperate. or i get this fear that they may say something personal about me to another patron that could put me in harms way, like where i live or something. people do stupid shit.

    looking for people who can relate. ever freak like this, ladies?

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    i can completely relate, this has happened to me a couple of times; i have been in the club and suddenly clocked someone i know... i always run and hide in the dressing room while i work out what to do (ignore them, go over and say hi, continue hiding til they've gone, go home - depending on who it is and how i know them). i keep my work extremely quiet as i'm in a healthcare course at college and they'd throw me out or unprofessional conduct if word got out. i have quit working in my home city and am thinking about driving an hour to the next one to work to avoid this very situation!

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    story of my life. i dance in the same city i've always lived in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by bite View Post
    i keep my work extremely quiet as i'm in a healthcare course at college and they'd throw me out or unprofessional conduct if word got out. i have quit working in my home city and am thinking about driving an hour to the next one to work to avoid this very situation!
    What the hell??!!! Your job is not illegal!! Would they fire a prof for going there for entertainment too?!! Somehow I doubt it! That's BULLSHIT! How 'bout they reduce tuition so a waitress could afford it, then pass judgement.
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    I've hidden in the dressing room and snuck out the club...i can't let people know what i do so i freak just like you do...i'm jealous of people who can just be because i think in terms of trading time for cash, this makes soooo much sense...it's great work if you can get it!!! i'd love to be able to say i am stripper hear me roar!!!
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    my friend come into my club alot, kinda annoying but it's nice on slow nights to have someone to talk to.

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    i had people i knew from high school come in, including a girl i was friends with. they bought their friend i didnt know a dance, haha. if they weren't cool about it it might have bothered me more but i wouldnt have turned down money like you did.

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    I had my weirdo neighbor come in to the club. He tipped me on stage and asked for a dance. Talk about creepy. I told him I didn't dance for people I know....
    I'd grab my trumpet and I'd do a stripper sound, like the old Louis Armstrong, real raspy. And the people would go nuts! Then I knew that the sexual, sensual, guttural sound, that throbbing sound, is where it's at.

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    I've had one friend come into the club. He didn't get any dances but he tipped me well for my stage show, lol. I was like.... "Um, ookkaayyy" and took his money, lol.
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    Quote Originally Posted by bite View Post
    i keep my work extremely quiet as i'm in a healthcare course at college and they'd throw me out or unprofessional conduct if word got out. i have quit working in my home city and am thinking about driving an hour to the next one to work to avoid this very situation!

    Huh? I'm in nursing school and I keep my job a secret as well, mainly because it's nobody's business. However, is it written in a handbook or something that you can't be a stripper? PM me if you want.. But I'm in a really weird situation and want to know what you know

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    doesn't bother me, they always seem more embarrased that I am.. I just grin and take thier tips and THEY better tip me, ha ha..
    Then again, I'm pretty up front about my occupation. I win them over and then tell them what I do. I like that it helps bring down the stereotype that we are all sleazy drug addicts. I think of it as changing the idea of strippers, one person at a time.
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    Quote Originally Posted by austinatalie View Post
    story of my life. i dance in the same city i've always lived in.

    You and me both so i'm not so embarressed more like annoyed esp. if they havn't told me before-hand that they will be coming in to the club !

    I'm okay with them seeing me naked etc on stage. Whatever. It's just a body. Just that I don't want them taking up my time AT WORK unless it is a really slow boring night or I want the break thus the reason I really prefer to know before-hand if they are coming (or "in town").

    Granted, had an ex show up at work one night not too long ago. Grr. Fucked with my whole night the rest of the night as he stayed there for so long (in the sports bar section yet still around). He always "wants to be friends" when he sees me and everything ... and I don't want to have anything to do with him. If I wanted to be friendly or friends with him.. why the hell havn't I talked to/with him for many many years? Sheesh.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gypsy_girlchild View Post
    doesn't bother me, they always seem more embarrased that I am.. I just grin and take thier tips and THEY better tip me, ha ha..
    Then again, I'm pretty up front about my occupation. I win them over and then tell them what I do. I like that it helps bring down the stereotype that we are all sleazy drug addicts. I think of it as changing the idea of strippers, one person at a time.
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    My father's boss came in on my third night dancing. Needless to say, I spent the majority of it cowering in the dressing room.

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    I wouldn't much care here but I don't think I could ever ever work in Annie's Tavern in Astoria because it's a 10,000 population town and I lived there for 18 years. I'm sure most of the custies are probably tourists but still. It would be SO awkward to see someone from high school or something. I'd never hear the end of it because believe me out of the 750 people in my school I'd be the LAST one anybody would ever expect to become a stripper.

    Even worse is that I'm really bad with faces so I might not recognize someone I don't know well but they might recognize me and maybe they know my parents... ick.
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    I can relate. I like to keep work and personal very separate too and I don't like when people "force" co-mingling of the two. I am not ME at work; I am BRIDGETTE. Bridgette has many of my own traits, and vice versa, but ultimately they must be kept separate for my own sanity. I'm sure it's very similar to actors who have to become another person for a show - the audience only sees the character, and that's the way it should be. I'm sure actors wouldn't want their friends/family to confuse THEM with the characters they play. Neither do we.

    That said, depending on who it is I'll often take their money and laugh. The fact I strip isn't a secret at all, so it's not like I'm being outed or anything. It's just weird for me, mostly because I don't want to come out of BRIDGETTE mode at work when someone I know shows up, and then if I don't come out of "mode" for them I have to deal with them ribbing me about it later Ya know?

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    i imagine how you must feel, i would just die of embarassment if anyone i knew came into the club. My family and closest aquaintances know i dance but they also know that they are to avoid any clubs in the area. So i'm not scared of being found out, i just don't want to be see in action. Outside of work i'm so shy and quiet and i try to blend into the wall, and at work i just act so diferent and i don't want to get out of character. Like for sure it would throw me off for the rest of the night.

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    I always thought i would die of embarrassment, but no. I have danced for my highschool US history teacher and just lastnight danced for my boss of 3 years at my previous job, talk about weird. It wasn't too bad though, as he wasn't directly incharge of me, it was a large company and he was one of the high ups, so i just milked him best i could.

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