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    Default Not just about the dancing?

    Hello Everyone,

    Ok, so I was talking to some members on another board about stripping (it's a message board to talk about various things.) Anyway, when I said I wanted to go into stripping but not have a lot of physical contact and not do any sexual favors like blow jobs or hand jobs, one member responded with this post:

    I knew a girl who danced. She made good money, but the VIP areas are where she made it at. You don’t make a thousand dollars a night on dollar stage tips. You have to earn the money. In Miami that runs from classy clubs with lap dancing and vip rooms to . . .well full service stations. None are about “just dancing”. Are you seeing the whole picture?

    Would any of you say that as strippers, you can make money giving lap dances that aren't having clothes sex or that don't involve other physical stuff? I am really naive when it comes to this stuff, but I'm still intrigued...

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    Default Re: Not just about the dancing?

    That person obviously has no idea what they are talking about and should keep their mouth shut. Yes, there are places you can dance without contact.

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    Every location is different it seems. One girl's experience in a dirty club will be the complete opposite as another girl's in a clean club. Even 2 different girls can have completely different experiences in the same club. But it is possible to dance with out having contact.

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    Default Re: Not just about the dancing?

    Here's a thought: try looking in the club review section. There are usually review written by custies about how much contact a club allows. If you don't find anything useful, you can always use the handy-dandy SEARCH function to get more info on what is deemed appropriate in most clubs.

    Extras are generally frowned on and only endanger you. Don't do them ITC.

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    Default Re: Not just about the dancing?

    Yeah, I have to agree that even in the seedier clubs I've been too, it didn't seem like any of the girls felt obligated to do extras, although some did do them. Can you still make a decent amount of money just stripping on stage or stripping in private sessions without actually having to do anything sexual with the customer?

    Unfortunately since I'm in Europe it will be harder to have any reviews of the clubs where I'm at...but it's a possibility...

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    My best night was 2500$...and I did NOTHING sexual. I know many girls that can work guys up to the VIP all night long without sucking dick or anything like that. So yes, you can make money without extras.


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    Damn!!!! How did you make 2500??? how many hrs??? mostly from a couple high rollers or something???

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    ^^^

    from one wonderful, rich old man that wanted to pay me ridiculous amounts of money for nothing but the pleasure of my time. It was nuts.


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    Default Re: Not just about the dancing?

    I know clubs in Europe where 2000+ dollars for a girl with absolutely no contact whatsoever is well possible. Then again I also know clubs in Europe where you can get laid for peanuts. It's well possible to earn a lot of money with no contact and a measly living doing full service. Actually more often than not it seems to be that way around. You've got to sell less for more rather than more for less, and it's all about what you settle with.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Asurfael View Post
    It's well possible to earn a lot of money with no contact and a measly living doing full service. Actually more often than not it seems to be that way around. You've got to sell less for more rather than more for less, and it's all about what you settle with.
    Thats so true. It seems like almost ALWAYS its the guys that are cheap, try to bargain or whatever, that want to grab, grope, lick, or want more than that. Where the "high rollers" seem to be the ones that will spend more money and just appreciate you dancing, or your company and don't ask for extras.


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    Default Re: Not just about the dancing?

    i'll keep my response simple.

    point #1 - you can make money NOT doing extras. plenty of us do it. to think otherwise would be to assume we are all whores.

    point #2 - the bizz is full of extras. this means a lot of girls DO do them. that means that (in general) girls willing to do more will almost always make more money than girls who aren't... esp. if they work in the same club.

    summary: don't expect to make a grand+ a night dancing unless you are doing high contact dances (at least) or extras (at most). that's not to say it can't be done, but it's not likely. i work light contact, am a top earner, and (in season) i rarely make over 500 a shift. it's still good money, but a lot of girls come into this industry expecting more.

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