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    So, a bit less than a week ago I posted about my ex calling my mom and telling her that I'm a stripper. He's STILL calling. She called me today and said that he texted her like over five times last night and then called her between 4 a.m. and 5 a.m. This is like six days after he initially told her via text, email and phone calls. My mom's a hardworking lady who doesn't deserve to be distressed in the wee hours of the morning, so this shit is starting to seriously piss me off. A few of my male friends have offered to "talk" with him, but that's childish and not what I want. I mean, I wish I could sincerely wish him well in his life and think of the memories fondly or some shit, but I can't and I won't be able to.

    Well, now he's really "circling the drain" because he's telling my mom exactly where I worked, that I worked in another city and also pulling out all the stops and telling her that I'm a prostitute.

    Good news is my mom is now 100% convinced he's psycho because he's texting her all night and calling her in the wee hours of the morning, so there's not going to be a huge family "My daughter is a stripper!" blowout that he was going for. And he no longer has anything "on me" so I'm not living in fear.

    In the meantime I've been making better money than I usually do (season is better perhaps) and I've been hanging out with a very cool nonjudgmental member of the male species who isn't pressuring me for sex in any way. We've been just cuddling -- it's been amazing for me. But yeah, I can't believe that my retard ex is still fucking calling my mother. Just had to share...since it's fucked up.

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    Isn't it amazing how you can go from someone that you want to spend time with and have sex with to someone that you wish would drop dead?
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    I'd tell your mom to offer to call the police and file a harassment charge if he doesn't quit it. 5am? That's just disrespectful.

    Oh, and btw SC, I am so sorry I haven't PM'd you back. I've been sick and really busy in this last week with moving next Tuesday. I promise I will get to you soon!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bella21 View Post
    Isn't it amazing how you can go from someone that you want to spend time with and have sex with to someone that you wish would drop dead?
    LOL! So very true!



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    Wow. Has she told him to stop contacting her?



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    It's not a permanent solution to the problem, but she could get her number changed or see if the phone company can block him from calling. And if someone was calling me in the wee hours of the night I think I'd turn my phone off before bed.

    He sounds like a psycho. Good luck.
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    are you considering a restraining or at least putting his harassment on file at the police station?

    I am glad that things are looking up for you. thanks for the update, and keep us informed. =)




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    Ummm, yeah.....harassment charge, seriously.
    Good thing you got rid of that one!
    With all the stupid things guys will say, stay cool.

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    Yes, call the police, or have your mom do it. Harassement charge. That'll probably scare him straight. It might be the only thing that gets this to stop or keep it from escalating. Vgilante justice will just drive him more crazy. What a complete and total freak. At least he totally shot himself in the foot. Of course she doesn't beleive him now, he looks like a total nut job. Which, of course, is exactly what he is.

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    thanks for the update also. I think she needs to be firm with him and let him know his calls are not wanted. My mom is les than 5 foot, but when she gets mad, YOU know it. I swear moms have super powers.
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