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    question for the more domme ladies

    Last night i did two VIP's with a guy who REALLY enjoyed the kinkier side of things... He just wanted dances, interspersed with me slapping him and he wanted me to spit on him. Kind of weird for in the club... but I remember reading a fair few things about you guys having similar stories....

    I can be pretty domme in my normal bedroom, but I'm not sure what should or shouldnt transfer over to work, when guy plainly wants that sort of thing.

    Would you guys have spit on him? What are some good tips for the "humiliation" fetish? I think i started laughing too much when he wanted me to insult him.

    Any advice on handling these custy's would be helpful... I just dont knowmuch about what's "normall" to do with the fetish-y types...

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    I would have spit on him if he asked me to, and paid me for it.

    I think whatever the customer asks for, that you are comfortable with, and are being paid for, is fine. (Um that does not mean prostitution, anyone who is going to take it that way. I mean in the s&m type deal she's talking about.)

    I think anyone who wants something fetishy in a strip club should be charged more by the dancers, because it's above and beyond what we normally do.

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    Definitely charge more, but these guys will pay it. Remind him that a pathetic loser like him doesn't deserve any attention whatsoever from a Woman like you, unless he pays handsomely for the privilege. The ones who like spitting usually like you to spit in their faces and mouths. I'll tell a guy to open his mouth, spit in it, and then make him thank me for letting him taste just a little hint of my sweetness.

    As for humiliation... THAT's easy. Just think of every loser shithead customer you've ever had, and everything you wanted to say to them, and put it all on this guy. Make fun of what a little penis he has, and laugh at him a lot (a really girlish giggle works well here for some reason). A lot of them like it if you flag other dancers as they walk by and point out something embarrassing about the guy, and get the other dancers to laugh at him too. Remind him of what a stupid, fat, bald loser he is and always will be. Remind him of all the pretty girls who never noticed him at all in high school except when their boyfriends were flushing his head in the toilet. You know... humiliation! It's fun and a great way to blow off steam when you're irritated.

    Paige and Alexxa will probably be much more helpful, but this is what I do.

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    SWEET yek! I did charge him more once he started asking for that sort of stuff, I just felt a little insecure about whether I was going to be "going too far". Like i'm COMFY doing it, but was just not wanting to seem shy or "inexperienced" I just had a hard time keeping a straight face because I wanted to laugh.

    I hope i get more of these guys though, because it WAS therapeutic...

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    He'll let you know if you're going too far, but it's hard to go too far with spitting and humiliation. It doesn't actually hurt them and the guys who like it really LOVE it.

    Another thing I like to do with the spitting is spit right in his face, so it gets all over his face and in his eye if I'm lucky. Then I tell him not to wipe it off, but just to leave it there because it looks like cum. I'll giggle at him and talk about what a gross little fag he looks like with cum all over his face. Then I'll have him stick out his tongue and try to taste it, and make him tell me what my "cum" tastes like. For some reason they really seem to like this.

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    WOW yek... I NEVER would have thought of that! They like that? hmmmm..... i can see i have a LOT to learn witht hese guys!

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    How do I find these guys? Really thats just what I need to take all my stress out on today.


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    Hehehe I dont think you find them-i think they're drawn to you. I dont know WHY people always come to me like that---I dont look particularly harsh or hardcore... Its sortof funny actually.

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    Oh good thread. I have a new custy like this so I was wondering about it. He really likes me to make him nervous, any suggestions on that?

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    Slap him a couple times. Then act like your going to slap him, but don't. When he flinches, giggle and be mean. Then while he's distracted by your giggling kick him in the balls.



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