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    Lately there have been an increasing number of super fugly looking chicks at my club. They get the occasional dance, but mostly guys say no them. I've found that going up to the guy that just turned them down (like 3-5 minutes prior) they look at me almost with relief, and are more likely to get a dance/buy me a drink/spend$$$.

    I'm not following these girls around, but if I see her get waved off, I go in for the kill. This isn't great for busy times, but it's a good way to start off my night in the first few hours when it's slow.

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    Default Re: approaching a custie who just turned down an ugly chick

    Heh... your stage name should be Schadenfreude.

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    I can't say that all ugly chics do not profit in the club. Sometimes guys turn the better looking ones down because they may believe that the less attractive ones are more attainable. They are all reasons guys choose an less fortunate one in the looks department over the hot chick and vise versa. Good attitude seems to do well with many of those of are able to posses it and display it. I've read on here and the blue side that some guys are not attracted to the hot chick with a bad attitude no matter how hot she was.
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    Default Re: approaching a custie who just turned down an ugly chick

    heh, i've done that. if i see a girl failing miserably trying to sell a dance and then sent away, ill wait a moment and then make my sale.

    Love it!

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    Im in Austin also and I notice it makes me a lot more appealing if he was just approached by a less then attractive lady. Maybe the guys here are just overly superficial

    Last night I was looking around the club while I was facing away during a LD and across the room there was a homely dancer sitting with a 30-ish custy and they didnt look like they had a good connection. Anyways, when I was done I walked past him and smiled and then he just got up followed me and said he wants to go wherever im going!! that sure was an eazy sale!!

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    We have two girls at our club who try to sell WAY to hard... Such a heavy sell that it intimidates guys. When they finally leave the guy after harassing him (they work in a team sometimes), I'll come over and be super polite and they'll be shocked into buying me a dance. It's awesome.

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    ^ yea that's kinda what i mean when i say "failing miserably". like, one girl who continually is all intense and "sexy" but more it's "trashy" trying to grind them (for free) into getting a dance. i actually saw her lick a custy's face once, and i bet you are all SO shocked to hear he didn't buy a dance from her. lol.

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    Quote Originally Posted by TigersMilk View Post
    I can't say that all ugly chics do not profit in the club. Sometimes guys turn the better looking ones down because they may believe that the less attractive ones are more attainable. They are all reasons guys choose an less fortunate one in the looks department over the hot chick and vise versa. Good attitude seems to do well with many of those of are able to posses it and display it. I've read on here and the blue side that some guys are not attracted to the hot chick with a bad attitude no matter how hot she was.
    i'm not talking about average looking or even odd looking (which can be a GOOD thing). i'm talking about the gals that everyone gawks at on stage because they cant understand how she even got hired.

    it's not average/ok-looking/cute girls vs. hot here.

    it's any "semblance of attractive" vs "OMG OW MY EYES"

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    lol @ ow my eyes.

    Love it!

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    Default Re: approaching a custie who just turned down an ugly chick

    i do something similar. It's especially good when the less attractive chicks are wanna-dance girls and i'll sit down and talk. Sometimes it seems like she did all the work for me or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Heh... your stage name should be Schadenfreude.
    Hey, survival of the fittest! (j/k)

    At my club, 99% of our girls are really attractive so the customers are pretty lucky. Everyone likes something different. I'm sure every dancer on this site has been told by customers that she has the perfect body or is the most beautiful girl, and every single one of us have different bodies and looks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Yekhefah View Post
    Heh... your stage name should be Schadenfreude.
    Marry me.


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    I've done it. Even more effective is to get them after they got a really crappy dance. One time I worked in a little club with this girl who was good at selling rooms but did really crappy dances. I'd walk up to them as they came out and they'd just pull their wallets out.



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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    Hey, survival of the fittest! (j/k)

    At my club, 99% of our girls are really attractive so the customers are pretty lucky. Everyone likes something different. I'm sure every dancer on this site has been told by customers that she has the perfect body or is the most beautiful girl, and every single one of us have different bodies and looks.
    You're thinking Darwinism.


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    I know.

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    Hey as long as it works. There are times that I've seen ugly girls do better than the hotter ones! I've had customers tell me "I think the not so hot ones will do more"







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    Wow you sound like a bitch to follow around women who might not be so fortunate in the looks department. You would be surprised that some of those women might have killer personalties and you might be the one with a shit personality. We are all in this together as women you shouldn't depend on others and get YOUR OWN GAME

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    Default Re: approaching a custie who just turned down an ugly chick

    Theres one particularly disgustingly unattractive girl in my club who manages to force men into buying dances.But she gets turned down more often than not. To me unattractive is a combination of looks and mostly personality and this girl has a bad bad attitude,bullies the customers and girls, and i have never seen her crack a smile.

    I often approach men after they have been speaking to her to be told how i am "so much nicer" than her and i do use it to sell dances. i don't follow her around or anything, it's just a very small club and you can't help but approach the same people.

    I have had a similair experience to rdwwet when i was turned down for a dance with a custie and i smiled and told him to have a great night, if he felt like one later to come and get me.

    The second i moved away el scowlo circled in and went straight in or the kill asking for a dance, got refused and then proceeded to harass him and his friend for 5 minutes. All of a sudden i feel a tap on my shoulder and the guy who rejected me asks for a dance. I look over and the poor guys friend is still being harassed. Would you believe it the guy bought his friend a dance after that too lol.

    Maybe ugly girls are good for business in general.

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    Quote Originally Posted by la429 View Post
    Wow you sound like a bitch to follow around women who might not be so fortunate in the looks department. You would be surprised that some of those women might have killer personalties and you might be the one with a shit personality. We are all in this together as women you shouldn't depend on others and get YOUR OWN GAME
    We're all in this together, huh? Okay, if you say so..

    Lol, but seriously, I am always totally nice to the other girls, because it creates a more pleasant work environment. But I gotta make my money. The thing is, you can't go complaining that she's pointing out girls that are "not so fortunate in the looks department" in this industry. If you haven't noticed, A LARGE PART of our selling power comes from our bodies. That's life. Of course a pretty face can't make up for a bad attitude, but a good attitude AND a pretty face are naturally more appealing to a guy than a good attitude and a horrifying face. Crazy, huh?

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    Quote Originally Posted by la429 View Post
    Wow you sound like a bitch to follow around women who might not be so fortunate in the looks department. You would be surprised that some of those women might have killer personalties and you might be the one with a shit personality. We are all in this together as women you shouldn't depend on others and get YOUR OWN GAME
    Um... I'm not a stripper for the female comraderie, I'm in it for me, for the money.

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    I'm going to say something that some people might not like, but whatever.

    There are clubs where even if you are a 3/10, you can still make a living wage, because there aren't enough girls to go around and some guys will pay to see any boobs no matter what they are attached to. Just because you have boobs does not mean you are qualified to be a dancer. If you have to constantly bully men into buying dances, you are not a good salesperson, you are just so annoying that men will give you money and look at you naked in order to get you to leave.

    If another girl wants to follow you around and make money off of the fact that men don't want to get dances from you, then that's her good idea. If she says to the guy, "hey i came over to save you from that ugly girl" then she's rude and unprofessional. If she's not broadcasting her tactic to the other girls and customers, then she can do whatever she wants.

    This is the hustle hut. It's where we discuss how to maximize our money, not how to give the other dancers warm fuzzies.

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    Quote Originally Posted by la429 View Post
    Wow you sound like a bitch to follow around women who might not be so fortunate in the looks department. You would be surprised that some of those women might have killer personalties and you might be the one with a shit personality. We are all in this together as women you shouldn't depend on others and get YOUR OWN GAME
    Wow. Sounds like someone has a chip on their shoulder.

    This business is eat or get eaten. It's just the way it is. Girls who hustle this way do not do it 100% of the time. It's an occasional tactic that works most of the time. Just one more trick in the hustle bag of tricks. Now if the dancer were to go sit on the custie's lap that some fugly girl just sat on and talk shit about her, that's a whole other story, and quite unacceptable.

    My boyfriend's car blew up at an intersection in front of a car dealership. Two salesmen came running across traffic with their ties flapping in the wind to "help" because they saw a sales opportunity. They saw my bf become a potential customer because he was obviously going to be pissed at his current car and in that moment would have welcomed the idea of a newer, better model. Is there much difference in presenting yourself to (an assumed) disappointed customer?
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    it's not that i have a chip on my shoulder. it's just funny that someone has to follow around other dancers to get a dance. maybe some people need to be a little more creative and upgrade their game. i don't feel like i have to lie, undercut or be shady at all. the approach described here seems really petty to me. i sell myself and i don't have to compare myself with anyone else i work with. your right we are all in this for ourselves. i get that. it's just that so many newbie's complain about getting treated like shit their first days or even veterans complain about other dancers airing out their shit on the floor. maybe if we didn't act like animals none of that would happen and the customers wouldn't expect us to act that way either. if you don't like my opinion oh well. i don't need to find the ugly chick to make money. i just have to be me!

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    ^^^ i doubt the OP NEEDS to follow anyone around to make $$$ either. She simply stated that it was an ADDITIONAL useful way, WHEN THE SITUATION presented itself, to make money. If the opportunity is there, why turn it down??? She didn't say she works hard at, reads manuals, and tries every day to poach, scrape, and hiss her way around the club, did she?? then stop reacting like she did.

    sometimes it is not so much the less attractive girls that are easy to trail, but the noobs with 0 sales skills. they may be hot... but if they can't sell....

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    Quote Originally Posted by paintgoddess View Post
    Wow. Sounds like someone has a chip on their shoulder.
    Well maybe she's the ugly bitch that Liz follows around Just a thought...







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