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    I couldn't believe this happened to me, but hell with me, if it can go wrong it will!

    So I've newly acquired the house featuring gig in my home club in Toronto. I was very nervous, because I know all the dancers well and had a little guilt that I got the job and blah, blah, blah. I was very nervous about starting to feature because I thought I might look stupid with all the costumes, the girls wouldn't like me anymore, all that stupid shit that comes with insecurity of a new job like that.

    Anyway, I'm three weeks into the job and this past weekend I had to do a two song stag show on stage...my first one as the house feature. I had not talked to the bachelor at that point, our club handles all of that and the fees, etc.

    So the plan was to arrest him, (I was in my cop costume) handcuff him to a chair, write all over him, put ice down his pants then to move him to the front of the stage where the pole was, handcuff him to the pole and continue to humiliate him there.

    So at one point I'm sitting on him, facing him and stradling him, torturing him with ice where I decide to unhandcuff him and move him to the pole. Just as I finish handcuffing him though, I am still stradling him and he grabs my legs and stands up, thus carrying me around the stage, dancing around with me.

    The bachelor: About 5'6", maybe 160 lbs (I think that's being generous) little Indian dude who is so hammered he couldn't walk straight.

    Me: 5'10" with my shoes on, 125lbs but I'm built like a shit brick and completely sober.

    As the guy is parading around with me on stage, I'm screaming at him to put me down, because I don't like being picked up (I'm usually dropped) and kinda wondering where the bouncers are, but the bachelor either can't hear or is too drunk to understand English at that time and continues for about another 10 seconds to carry me around, where he looses his balance, drops me on my back and falls on top of me.

    Oh yeah, btw, this was Saturday night during a full house - lots of people to see my humiliation.

    So I'm lying there, Indian guy on top of me. I was very winded but he gets off of me and helps me up and can you believe it, asks to pick me up again. There was only probably about 30 seconds of the song left so I wrote something very rude on his back, got my stuff and walked off the stage.

    To add salt to the wound: As I walk off of stage the DJ says over the mic(talking to the bachelor) "Dude, I've seen lots of girls picked up on stage before, but not once have I ever seen one dropped!" Like at what club do you see girls willingly picked up on stage and carried around like a horse and rider game????

    Where the bouncers were I have no clue...but I'm not happy with them either. And yes, I have taken all the appropriate measures to resolve this with my managers and make sure it won't happen again.

    Turns out I'm okay, but have a really big purple bruise on my left butt cheek.

    I don't think the club will be complaining about this bruise!!
    -Toronto Baby!

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    Wow I'm really sorry to hear this has happened to you. It's total crap that the bouncers didn't do anything/didn't see anything. I'm not trying to sound/be racist, but in my experience the Indian custy's have always given me the most problems when it comes to being overly touchy-feely and aggressive. I don't know if the language barrier or culture differences have anything to do with it, but nonetheless it's annoying and dangerous.

    Well, look at it this way: most people sounded like they were shitfaced anyways, so in a couple of days I bet everyone will have forgotten all about it.

    Hope your bum heals fast!
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    Oh screw THAT!! I'd have full on punched him out. What an asshole....what the hell makes him think he has the right to manhandle you? Oh right..alcohol..the worlds enabler...

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    Quote Originally Posted by absolutbliss View Post
    I'm not trying to sound/be racist, but in my experience the Indian custy's have always given me the most problems when it comes to being overly touchy-feely and aggressive.
    Ditto! My worst lap dance incidents have been with Indians, and the other night I had one kicked out for biting my nipple when I was on stage! And they always come to me specifically too.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    Ditto! My worst lap dance incidents have been with Indians, and the other night I had one kicked out for biting my nipple when I was on stage! And they always come to me specifically too.
    I'm going to have to jump on the "not to sound racist" bandwagon here, but when I first tried contact dancing in Toronto the club manager himself specifically told me to stay away from the Indian men. Apparently, pretty much every dancer assault that occurred in VIP had been instigated by an Indian guy. True story. Terrible, but true. After that I never went within ten feet of them unless I was totally desperate for cash and felt like taking a chance with my personal safety.
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    Awwww...thanx guys.

    Yeah, I was really mad. I just went upstairs after that show and changed and went home.

    I think the bouncers/managers/DJ knew they might be in trouble for the whole thing, because everyone avoided me like the plague after that. They didn't even come over to ask if I was alright, only the bachelor party full of drunk guys did.

    But yeah, I told our Entertainment Manager about it, (he wasn't at the club at the time) and he was pissed and said he would take care of it. So hopeully, it's taken care off.

    Next time I'm not going to take their handcuffs off, I'll just push the chair their sitting on to the pole, uncuff one cuff from their hand and cuff it back up again around the pole. Maybe that's paranoia, but I'm not fucking getting dropped again!
    -Toronto Baby!

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    Incredible story. The things we deal with in this job....

    I'd be more angry than embarrassed. I'm sorry that happened to you. Where are the bouncers when you need them?!?! What if you got seriously injured, as in more than a bruise? LAWSUIT!! Stupid on the club's part.
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    Default Re: Dropped on Stage !!! :-( (rant)

    I'm a little curious to know which club this happened in. Obviously they have a serious issue with security.
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    Wow, I'd be MAJORLY pissed. It's a good thing you didn't get seriously hurt, though bruised is hurt, and not good when your job is to be flawless. Hopefully your ent. mgr. will kick some ass on your behalf!

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    You are lucky that was "all" that happened.

    What if he decided to finger-bang you up there?

    Or what if he held you down or did something else sick?

    What if he fell OFF the stage and you broke your leg?

    The club would not pay your salary while you are off work, you know.

    Those bouncers took a huge chance with your safety.

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    same here not to sound racist but i have had so many issues with indians ( native i mean no red dot kind) i used to live with 2 and soon as they start to drink shit hits the fan one chaised me around with a tomahawk ( no joke!) and tried to push me down a flight of stairs. i was yelling so loud 2 sets of neighboors came over with guns to make sure i was ok.

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    My God - at my club the bouncers stand at the side of the stage watching the whold thing when you do a bachelor show. Theres NO WAY theyd get away with that.

    Altho the money sucks and its small and ghetto the one thing the club in Sac has is GREAT security. Now the one in Reno is a whole other story...

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    The club this happened at was Filmores in Toronto.

    I meant Indian like India - Indian, not the feather headress kind. I also didn't mean anything racist by it, just that these aren't normally huge guys and was trying to describe size.

    I told the entertainment manager, but nothing really seems to be done. So I went around to the bouncers myself and told them that if they saw me being picked up anywhere to come and help me....but they all looked at me as if I would be putting them out. Like wtf??? Anyway, so I'm still pissed. Not sure what to do...maybe I should just tell them that I won't do stags anymore....but then again shouldn't the house feature do the stags? And the pay for a stag is absolutely ridiculous so it's not even worth it....I don't know....I'm rambling on....my ass hurts....
    -Toronto Baby!

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    You don't need to do stags. I never did them when I was there. I think I did like one because I was requested to.

    Leave them to Lily n the crew.

    The pay isn't worth it for the stags.

    Congrats on the gig btw.

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    I've been trying to get a hold of you but my MSN Messenger is not working for some reason...says I have to update or something.....

    Yeah, I not a big fan of doing stags but I was requested to in the middle of my set to do a stag at the end so I was like okay, show pay plus stag pay in 4 songs, not a bad deal, why not? Murphy's Law I guess.

    Anyway, check your inbox...
    -Toronto Baby!

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    Quote Originally Posted by tattoogoddess View Post
    same here not to sound racist but i have had so many issues with indians ( native i mean no red dot kind) i used to live with 2 and soon as they start to drink shit hits the fan one chaised me around with a tomahawk ( no joke!) and tried to push me down a flight of stairs. i was yelling so loud 2 sets of neighboors came over with guns to make sure i was ok.
    umm.. chasing you with tomahawks? and i kinda think saying 'red dot kind' is very racist.

    anyway, yuck! those bouncers would not be getting single penny more than the minimum from me ever again.

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    Default Re: Dropped on Stage !!! :-( (rant)

    Same here, I've always had problems with Indian men also (Indian meaning from India) They've always been super grabby, very disrespectful and always trying to bargain down your price (as if it's negotiable! ) and they always go for me for some reason. I don't like Indian men customers, I always do my best to avoid them!

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