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    Default My customer wants to SUE ME!

    Yup, the one I've been telling you girls about wants to sue me! I finally took up the courage a couple weeks ago to "break up" with him. Sadly, he didn't answer his phone, so I left him a voicemail breaking up with him.

    At first, his messages were about how it's classless for me to leave him a message like that, and that he wants me to call him back so we can "talk about it" After about message #4 he's all like, "if you dont' respond to me by Wed. (it was a monday at the time) then I'm going to have my lawyer draw up the papers."

    Part of me wants to call him, and keep him as a regular. But then reality sets in and I'm like HE'S CRAZY!

    I strongly doubt he'll ever find my real name to be able to sue me. He only knew me as my "fake stripper name" Should I be worried about his threats of legal action? What about my club? Should I keep working there, or try to find another? (the one Im at brings in the most $$)







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    Default Re: My customer wants to SUE ME!

    what the hell is he gonna sue you for? keep those messages with him threatening you. if you don't contact him he'll seek legal action, sounds like blackmail.

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    HA HA!! Sue you for WHAT??? What possible grounds does he have for a lawsuit???

    If you are good terms with the people at your club..tell them he's gone insane and have him banned so he cant get in.

    Otherwise..unless he has a reason(you stole from him or something..which obviously you didnt) laugh at him and call the cops on him for harassement if he continues.


    AND DEFINATELY dont call him or keep him as a reg, Hes obviously PSYCHO!!!! Tell him in ONE call that he is not to contact you again or you'll call the cops, then dont answer again. Save all voicemails though...they could be evidence if you do need to go to the cops.

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    Um, WHAT is he trying to sue you for?????

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    Time to get a customer who's a lawyer.

    He paid you for your time, right? And gave you gifts? It's not like he gave you an engagement ring. This can't work out well.

    The guy sounds unhinged. Please, do everything you can to keep yourself safe.

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    WTF? He's obviously just off his rocker. Even if he gave you expensive gifts like purses and stuff he can't sue you to get them back

    ^^^I learned that from Judge Judy. She's my world.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Susan Wayward View Post
    It's not like he gave you an engagement ring.
    Susan, he tried to but I refused the offer

    I haven't been to work in 2 weeks. This weekend will be the first time back. Hopefully he wont' show face. I have a pretty decent relationship w/ management so I think I could talk to them about keeping him out.







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    Default Re: My customer wants to SUE ME!

    he can't sue you for gifts he bought you or money he paid you to do your job.

    that's ridiculous.

    now... if you -had- accepted the engagement ring.. he could have sued you for that.

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    if I may, sue you for what??

    on what grounds? for breaking up with you? sounds like he's bluffing, and I say you call it. Inform your manager, just so your butt is covered, but whatever he wants to sue you for will not hold up in court if it even gets to that point.

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    And everyone wonders why I don't want any regulars...!

    This guy could turn violent when he realizes the courts will not back him up. Be safe and keep your eyes open. I'd be looking for another place to work too, if I were you.

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    Dayum. Crackpot!!!!!!

    I think he is just saying these things to scare you. He's trying to control you with this threat. Now he's going into stalker mode, so here's what you have to do...


    * If he continues to carry on like this, tell him he is to have no further contact with you or else you will involve the authorities.

    *Save all Text messages and voice mails. They can be used as eveidence.

    *Ban him from your club. Make sure you lock your car upon gertting in or out (duh) and watch your rearviews on the ride home. Vary your routes home.

    *Check your doors and windows every day. And night. And anytime you return home.

    *Check in with friends when you go to and from work.

    *Pepper spray , all that.

    * Or stay with a friend until things are under control.

    *If you think you are in serious danger, hire a private investigator to trail the crackpot. his way he'll get caught if he is trying to put you in danger.

    I'm sure I'll think of more advice...I'll pray for your protection girl!

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    *If you dont' change clubs, you may want to change your stage name.

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    shit thats crazy ....well he's crazy is more like it.


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    If he keeps up with this, yes you need to save/record the messages/text messages. I would say change clubs and your stage name. Carry strong pepper spray at all times. He is probably just bluffing, Hopefully! I mean i dont think it would hold up in court anyways LOL...

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    Lol maybe he's having his lawyer draw up a pre-nup... perhaps he thinks this is more flirting!

    Really though, yuk! Hope he backs off and disappears quick.
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    Besides that he's crazy... It pisses me off that customers think they can take their manipulations to a whole other level. What a jackass!
    If you think school is hard, try being stupid.

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    ^ oh yeah...Its like they think they freaking own you sometimes.

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    ^You're right. They absolutely do think that they own us. As if paying for our time buys a peice of us for them to keep (and THIS asshole thinks he's going to sue and get it back HIS stripper, Cin). Sometimes the stupidity of it all really gets to me.
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    I would be very careful.

    It sounds like he is getting really agressive.

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    Try to remember exactly how much money he has given you, and in what circumstance - does he hand it over as a gift, or is always in exchange for a specific service?, and what you've said to him to get it. This is a customer that you've toed the line with, right? So, have you lied, how much have you lied, and what have you said? You don't need to tell us - but have the information.

    I would be willing to bet 7 out of 10 dollars that he is bluffing. He's trying to intimidate you into contacting him. Don't do it. Like he probably intuitively knows that you are judgment proof. (Maybe - did he say that these "papers" were a lawsuit against you? Maybe he still thinks you're getting married. Oh MY GOD! Maybe - he thinks you were already married and now you're getting divorced!)
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    ^^^ there is some unfortunate legal precedent where, depending on specific circumstances, you could be sued for breach of (implied) contract. However I doubt that such an approach could ever fly in an Ohio court !

    I agree with Jenny that you probably need to document your entire history of 'transactions' with this regular just in case this guy has more money than brains and really does file a lawsuit. Unfortunately for you, if a lawsuit is filed, you are going to be forced to retain your own attorney and respond to it.

    As to finding out your 'real identity', in reality that is a fairly simple matter if you ever gave your club your real name / address / SS# on a 'job application'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jenny View Post
    Maybe he still thinks you're getting married. Oh MY GOD! Maybe - he thinks you were already married and now you're getting divorced!)
    BINGO!!!!! WHAT A DOUCHE THIS GUY IS! I'm so sorry you have to deal with him. Definitely let your manager know what he's said. Tell him he may get nasty, start a fight and refuse to leave so they shouldn't let him in. Since you have his info you could give it to the manager so they can know to flag his ID. They can just stop him at the front door.
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    how fucking crazy......


    I pray he doesn't go even more crazy....

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    Did you ever ask him for money, or is everything you received from him a gift? I have a rule that I NEVER ask my regular for any money. I let him give me money when he wants and as much as he wants. I have a copy of a letter I sent him explaining that I'll never ask him for money.

    What have you actually received from him during your acquaintance?

    In reality, what could he actually get from you if he won a judgment? You could merely incorporate and do all your business that you do now personally as a corporation and a division of a corporation. You could set up a Nevada equity corporation which would own all your personal assets. You can also have a division of your corporation place a lien on your personal assets such as a car so that they are "upside down" and no one could take them.

    You also deposit your money in corporate bank accounts and not a personal one.

    Changing your stage name accomplishes nothing. Avoiding a love struck regular with money accomplishes nothing as well. The guy knows who you are. If you choose to move out of Ohio he would probably never find you, and if the club doesn't have accurate info on you he is up against the wall. Just make sure your personal assets are shielded, and the occasional guy who gets upset when he finds out the girl he fell for just sees him as a business deal will get nothing.

    A savvy attorney will probably tell him that he's wasting money trying to get money from a stripper, and that he is not the first guy that thought money could buy him love in a club. Just like OJ's attorney's have done for him. You make yourself judgment proof.

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    I'm just a dumb joe, in the army, not like that's relevant but if i may say... first of all why'd you give him your fone # second of all... if you call the phone company they can make a tape of his psychotic voicemails for you whatever they may be. Just trying to help... i read that you were telling the ladies about this crazy and i'm certainly not a lady so if i'm not supposed to post here lemme know. good luck.
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