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    Default Sigh.........so sick of working....

    I feel depressed and I just can't work. I have tried the last three shifts to fake it, and have done decently, but today I had to call in because I can't imagine going in there and trying to smile and make money. I just need a break. Unfortunately, finances are only going to allow for a short one, but at least it's something. For now I don't have to work until Monday. Maybe I'll feel better by then.

    Oh, and I just got crap for calling in tonight. Whatever, I have to study for two tests and I told him that. The fact that he doesn't have enough midshift girls is NOT my problem.

    I'm just sick of the whole thing. I don't know what I was thinking with going back to dancing. It isn't working out like I had planned.
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    Default Re: Sigh.........so sick of working....

    Why don't you feature instead?




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    Default Re: Sigh.........so sick of working....

    Quote Originally Posted by pookie View Post
    Why don't you feature instead?
    I don't even see how this is a legitimate suggestion. Why on earth would I want to feature? I have zero interest in travelling around doing this bullshit.
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    Default Re: Sigh.........so sick of working....

    ^^featuring is not that easy in the US w/o like being in movies or something.

    I go through this alot too Andygirl. Do you think it's because you're not doing so well because the season is bad? When I've been doing poorly for stretch I usually want to take a little mini break like a week off.

    I hate when clubs give dancers shit for calling out. IMO, my club fucks us over with putting too many girls on, so I'm not going to go out of my way to show up if I'm not feeling good.

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    It's not the season, it's not the club, it's me. I just don't feel like doing it right now. I have so much other shit going on and I have a very hard time going in there with a smile on my face. Dealing with the loser customers is nearly impossible for me. I have such contempt for them.
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    I feel you. I feel like I have to DRAG myself every time I have to work at the club. I am SO happy that my agent has shoots lined up for me because I'd rather do that by leaps and bounds then go into the club.

    It's like my mood darkens the second I walk through those double doors. (and it isnt MY club...I like MY club..its just dancing in general) I know people will irritate me, I know guys will piss me off, I know I'll have to pry their hands and mouths off of me, I know I'll have to watch as other girls do everything and then some for a fucking dollar.

    I've been so lazy lately because of this. I wish I could travel to dance, but I cnat afford to go far and nowhere nearby is worth it. I also dont have anyone to travel with anymore and I hate traveling alone...

    Hopefully taking a few days off will make a differance for you Andy. And screw them for giving you shit. Hello..schedule or no schedule..INDEPENDANT CONTRACTOR. When they fucking pay YOU instead of the opther way around..they can bitch.

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    Default Re: Sigh.........so sick of working....

    i felt the same way. i dont think my solution would work for you though.. it doesnt seem like it.. but i stopped dancing in baltimore. i went to a club closer to dc with totally different people and it was different than anything i was used to (divey whereas i'm used to fancy clubs). i almost stopped dancing but i just needed a change. not to mention right after i switched i had 2 weeks of vacation time where i only worked 3 days.

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    When was the last time you took at least a week off for yourself? If you're not going to be late on bills, I suggest you take one. You are more important than your checkbook. Get a pedicure, massage, watch some movies you've been wanting to see....

    I have no advice whatsoever on retiring, so I can't suggest that, but it sounds like you at least need a break.
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    Quote Originally Posted by paintgoddess View Post
    When was the last time you took at least a week off for yourself? If you're not going to be late on bills, I suggest you take one. You are more important than your checkbook. Get a pedicure, massage, watch some movies you've been wanting to see....

    I have no advice whatsoever on retiring, so I can't suggest that, but it sounds like you at least need a break.
    Yeah, well, I'm going to be off for a week total. It won't be 100% relaxation, but I am doing a few fun things. And I'll be studying a bunch, which is ok with me because I feel like I need to get ahead in my classes.

    I've also been debating for a long time about going to a diferent club to see how it is. I don't know what is holding me back. It isn't like I haven't ever worked anywhere else, but it is still kinda nervewracking to try a new place. We'll see, perhaps it will make a difference.
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    I don't know what to say. I just wish there were better clubs in your area where you could take as much time as you wanted off to focus on your studies. Make the best of the week you do get off, I guess.

    Nevermind...you just said you might try another club. Maybe a change of surroundings will do you some good. I know I'm ready to change clubs myself...and I will be very soon.



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    Default Re: Sigh.........so sick of working....

    I know how you feel. I called off once a few weeks ago because I was depressed. I told the manager that too, and surprisingly I didn't get shit for it. I guess calling off depressed is one they don't hear too often.

    It's really draining when you have to deal with a lot of guys who just drag you down. It's double hard to look at the guys as individuals instead of a big mass of assholes who all want to grope and stare for as little money as possible. It's important for me to focus on the guys one at a time. If I look around the room and notice all the tables of young jokers then I'll be rude to the one nice 40 year old I'm talking to. I'm not trying to tell you to do something differently, that's just what I do to keep from getting burnt out quite so fast.

    I hope your week off works for you and you can get back into the swing of being fabulous when you go back.

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    Default Re: Sigh.........so sick of working....

    I don't blame you for being sick of working, it does get old after a while...But perhaps if your finances won't let your retire, you should switch clubs or get a part time job to keep you grounded and less burned out.
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