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    A friend of mine was talking to me yesterday and we started talking about dancers. He thinks it would be better to date a dancer because they get hit on so much that they would be so tired of it that they would just want to get home to there SO. Is there some truth to that?
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    (....huh???) do you mean date a NON-dancer??

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    This is an interesting topic. Was your friend specifically talking about inside the club from all the men....or was he also referring to the fact that dancers are hot and because of this get hit on all the time while out and about?

    I am going to say for the most part... there is not much truth to this in my opinion. In the club, the majority of time I associate with men I would not wanna date....but wow....let me tell you that there has been a few times where I have met hot nice guys in my club(while attached.) If I was a cheater, it would have been VERY easy, despite the fact that I spent the whole night prior being hit on by tons of guys that I never would take a second look at.

    Basically, it really would not matter my enviroment because if the guy seemed awesome, and I wanted to be a bitch and cheat....it would not matter that I was surrounded by other annoying guys hitting on me in the strip club all night.

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    If a girl loves you, and wants to come home to you, she'll come home to you. If shes going to cheat, she'll cheat, it really doesn't matter if shes a dancer or not, it just matters who the girl is.


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    A friend of mine was talking to me yesterday and we started talking about dancers. He thinks it would be better to date a dancer because they get hit on so much that they would be so tired of it that they would just want to get home to there SO. Is there some truth to that?
    I'm not going to address the fact that every dancer is different and has their own unique mindset, that's a given. But many "dancers" are party girls and attention whores too. There is no limit to how much getting "hit on" they can tolerate.

    Plus, getting hit on in the club is different than getting hit on socially. In the club, a decent stripper will work that guy into a cash dispensing frenzy, whether she gives a shit about him or not.

    Socially, if said stripper doesn't want a guy hitting on her, she can just tell him to fuck off immediately.

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    Quote Originally Posted by big_daddy View Post
    A friend of mine was talking to me yesterday and we started talking about dancers. He thinks it would be better to date a dancer because they get hit on so much that they would be so tired of it that they would just want to get home to there SO. Is there some truth to that?
    Damn, I see your point, I don't know if anyone else did or if I'm alone in my opinion. And you know what? I think your friend is right. I don't know about the other girls in here, but I know when I go out in public, the LAST thing I feel like doing is getting hit on and flirting with guys. I get too much of that at work that it doesn't faze me outside of the club thinks I'm hot or tries to flirt with me. I shut guys down really fast outside the club. Plus, being a dancer allows me to see a lot of douschebag guys, therefore giving me less hope for guys in general. That makes me really happy to come home and see my bf.


    On the other hand, some people in general cheat no matter what, whether they are dancers, doctors, lawyers, or cashiers. Someone said something about attention whores......yeah, thatd be it

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    I wouldnt date a dancer just because you think theres less of a chance she'll cheat on you. I know you are hurting...and it prob isnt a good idea for you to be dating anyone right now.

    But date the PERSON...not the profession.

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    I am the opposite of Cutey. On my nights off from work if I am out with the girls, I like getting hit on by young guys my age at the local spots.
    Yea, there are some young hot guys that come into my work, but i know it's work so I either get dances from them or just say hi and leave since i am attached. If I was not attached and i thought the guy was hot, i would talk for about a minute and maybe get a number if i thought he may be someonei could get to know. I would leave promptly though to do my job and let another lady in.


    On the other hand, while I am out with the girls, I have the option to chat with guys my age more...without a time contraint.
    When I am out with the girls, it just makes me feel good to do what a young 23 year old should be doing. Chatting with guys, harmless flirting with them, or passing up a drink offer!

    I guess it's just so different than what i can do at work... since the majority of men i associate with are guys i would not want to date. So, i enjoy it when i get to do it. The flirting , chatting blah blah still makes me appreciate what i got and i will go promptly to his house when i am done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorlila View Post
    If a girl loves you, and wants to come home to you, she'll come home to you. If shes going to cheat, she'll cheat, it really doesn't matter if shes a dancer or not, it just matters who the girl is.
    I agree with this. It depends much more on the girl and the relationship than if the girl is a stripper or not.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Taylorlila View Post
    If a girl loves you, and wants to come home to you, she'll come home to you. If shes going to cheat, she'll cheat, it really doesn't matter if shes a dancer or not, it just matters who the girl is.
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    Don't let what happened ruin your future relationships. I know it must be hard, but there is really no magic formula to determine faithfulness. Yeah, some dancers get sick of being hit on, but I've also seen many supposedly commited dancers who were really bad to hook-up with random guys.

    BTW - Dancers HATE guys who wanna date dancers. Makes it seem as if we are interchangeable. Being around soley to impress ones friends isn't cool. If the girl is okay with that, then she isn't the kind of girl you want to spend more than a night with anyway.

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    Quote Originally Posted by cameron_keys View Post
    I wouldnt date a dancer just because you think theres less of a chance she'll cheat on you. I know you are hurting...and it prob isnt a good idea for you to be dating anyone right now.

    But date the PERSON...not the profession.
    I'm not looking for a dancer to date, it was our topic of the day. Like todays topic was "do you really think we went to the moon?"
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    I'm not hurting as bad as I was, well at least I have not cryed for a few days. Yes guys do cry!! I'm kinda liking this living alone thing right now. I'm living day to day and everyday I wake up is a good day!
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    Isn't that like saying "It's better to date a really attractive woman, because she gets hit on so much she just wants to come home to the guy who's already tapped it"?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Embyr View Post
    (....huh???) do you mean date a NON-dancer??
    ohhhh i get the question now... i was thinking of the "dating" phase as opposed to the "already in stable relationship" phase.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Katrine View Post
    Your friend is a dumbass.
    My thoughts exactly. Like any other group of women, we are all very different. A person's job and the fact s/he may get hit on alot has ZERO to do with whether that person will cheat or not. Just when I think I've heard it all, some dipshit comes up with a new way to astound me with his idiotic excuse for logic. Oy!

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    From what I have read here on SW, it is next to impossible to get a dancer to date you anyway. So why worry whether some hypothetical dancer who wouldn't date you would avoid cheating on you if you progressed to the point of being her SO?

    After all, if you are in that serious of a relationship, you shouldn't want to cheat on each other no matter what your occupation is.

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    A friend of mine was talking to me yesterday and we started talking about dancers. He thinks it would be better to date a dancer because they get hit on so much that they would be so tired of it that they would just want to get home to there SO. Is there some truth to that?
    well yes there is but if your friend is so insecure that he needs to choose a partner based on a woman he thinks is less likely to want to be picked up by other men than that's pretty sad.
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    I can't believe some of you, did you not see what the next days topic was? He is married and has kids and does not want to date a stripper, we talk about things to pass the time, but I guess I did ask what you all thought about it, but please do not attack my friends like this, they are all I have left!
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    Yeah, I'm not sure what the heck all the attacking is about.

    I see where your friend is coming from. I, personally, am so incredibly over being hit on by men. It's so fucking passe for me after working in clubs 9 years. It hardly ever piques my curiosity when a man tries to hit on me now. Most of the time it just makes me think to myself, "Oh, Jesus. I am SOOOO fucking glad I have my guy at home."

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    http://www.geocities.com/alysabethc/journal.html
    Site written by a self-proclaimed feminist stripper who details stripper pysche. She writes something to the effect of that people are quick to assume that dancers partake in all kinds of lewd activity just because they are dancers. She feels that it is quite the contrary; that because dancers know what their own personal boundaries are, they are used to roaming freely within them. Meaning, if a stripper gets hit on every night of the week, it makes sense that she is less apt to be so flattered by the attention that's she'd hop into bed with the guy, the way say perhaps the average girl would who does not not get that constant attention might.

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    It's not an attack man. You gotta admit that's some dumb logic - if you didn't think so you wouldn't have come here asking us about it


    Anyway, let's think about a little more, shall we? All women get hit on basically from puberty on up through til...whenever. Men are constantly hitting on women. Attractive women, obviously, get hit on MORE. It's not just strippers. So by this logic, ALL attractive women should get sick to death of being hit on, grow to hate men and lose all inclination to cheat on whatever poor sap gets to hook up with them. Seems pretty silly, right?

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    Quote Originally Posted by big_daddy View Post
    A friend of mine was talking to me yesterday and we started talking about dancers. He thinks it would be better to date a dancer because they get hit on so much that they would be so tired of it that they would just want to get home to there SO. Is there some truth to that?
    um... prety much all super hot girls tire of the hitting on eventually.

    on the downside, being in a sexual inviroment can sometimes really be a turn off when I get home....

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