I work in an upscale, air dance, no contact club. Basically during the $10 air dance there is no contact, and in VIP, there is some very light contact usually at the discretion of the dancer.
Lately its been driving me nuts. Where as high contact girls used to be in the minority, girls that are not crossing boundaries are having a hard time making money anymore.
I think part of it is because my bf and i are at the point of looking to get engaged and I am finishing school in a 1.5 yrs, so i am just going to dance a lot for the next few months to pay off debt and then cut back my schedule. I have never been a contact girl but lately i get more and more angry when it happnes. Where as, i used to walk by VIPs at my club and just see girls sitting on laps and talking or just air dancing, now i walk by and i see full out titty groping, grinding, making out, and vigorous dry humping.
I just dont want to be part of this.
Its really screwing up my money. I lost a VIP last week..this guy picked me out, had me sit and have a drink with him, but then once he sensed i wasn't that kind of girl he flat out refused to go to VIP with me..and then hours later i see him there with another girl (with a bad reputation) kissing each other on the mouth and he had his hand on her crotch. I just wish my club would stop looking the other way and make it easier for good girls to make money. I have even noticed a lot of good girls that usually are always in VIP not getting as many, and girls that usually don't get VIP getting a lot more.
I am also getting irritated with customers expecting a lot of mileage on the main floor. Keep in mind--this is just the politics at my club--i know there is mileage on main floor in other clubs , but its really frowned upon at this club. For example, last night this group of businessmen with plenty of money came in...one wanted me to sit on his lap (i sat on the arm of the chair) and spent the whole ime trying to feel up my legs and ass. I was only talking to him because I thought he was good VIP material, but then when i danced for him, he tried to get touchy and i pushed his hands off , and after sitting and spending a good amount of time iwth him, he opened up his bill fold with 100's and 20's and gave me two fives and ushered me away.
When someone wants to touch me and talk to me on the main floor, and then only gives the minimum with no tip, i want to punch them in the face!! ugh!!
I want to say look buddy, i am a dancer. A DANCER. A Fucking DANCER. That does not mean we are on a date, or we are hooking up or anything will ever happen, and if you want some touching and groping get off your fat ass and find yourself a woman in real life. I really just think that women in the club are beautiful and nice enough that paying to see us naked and dancing and having us pay attention is PLENTY for the money--only losers with no money expect all sorts more.
anyone else go through this? any ideas on if/how i should mention this to management?




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